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Keeping guys,
15/f. I don't have a problem talking to guys. But I never seem to get asked out. Idk if it's a problem with how I act, or something. Any help?
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You could try the asking. Most guys your age are too scared to ask girls out. Be confident (which is super attractive in guys eyes) and ask them out. Another thing - a lot of guys your age are only looking for one thing so be careful. Good Luck!
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First of all, I'm going to say the best way to impress somebody is to be yourself. I know that's it's so cliche, but it's honestly, the best tip I or anybody can give.
I mean, you don't want somebody to start liking you for the way you think THEY want you to act or talk or dress. Why would you want somebody to like you when you're not even being yourself?
Secondly, don't be shy! Just go up and talk to that boy/girl. Confidence is key. Strike up a conversation! Start it with something like, "I see you're wearing a Hit The Lights [or whatever band/sport's team, etc] shirt, are they your favorite?" Or, something like, "So I know we've never talked before, but you seem like a really cool person..."
So be yourself, and show that you're comfortable being just that. Be comfortable in your own skin, and chances are, you'll impress everybody.
Really, don't worry about it. You'll find an awesome guy one day.
-Laura (16-f)
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Don't worry about it. I thought the same thing but you just need to be patient and just be yourself and have a good time. Guys are really confusing so just talk to guys and be normal. Sooner or later a guy will notice you and start to like you. You will get asked out. Don't worry about it. Hope everything goes well for you!
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Guys are weird, don't even worrie. You'll be asked out soon enough. If you get antsy though, and find a single guy you like, just ask him to chill/hang out sometime. Guys sometimes like a dominat girl. Someone who isn't afraid to ask them out.
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