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Torn between guys.
15/f. I had been talking to the one guy C, but before I was talking to M. C goes to another school, M goes to my school. After we came back from christmas break I heard another girl i didn't like liked M, & had said if I tried to come between her & M she'd be so pissed or something like that. So I started talking M again. But I realized he was really really into me, not the same way I was. The C found out I was talking to M & we stopped talking. But I wanted to be with C, so I kept making up excuses for M to stop talking to me.
The first time me and M stopped talking was because he never had time for me like with football, and friends, drinking, and smoking, things im not into, and the second time it was the same story. While C is the type of boy thats plays to many games, & talks to other girls.
Well now I'm talking to C. And M & that girl from the beginning are going out now.
I feel like i've made the wrong decision, any adive?
If you think I have how do you think I can make it right with M again?
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like the first columnist said, i don't think either of these guys are the guys for you. you could do better. my advice is that you stop acting so interested in C, he seems like he's just running around anyway, and let M and his girlfriend be. not that you still can't be friends with these guys, you can talk, but i would try to get them both off your heart.
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well it all depends on how you feel for M. do you wish you still talked to him? and if you dont then you made a good decition. if your more into C then talk to him. even if hes not into all the things you are. its better to have a relationship with someone who is their own person. guys are very confusing but if you stop and think about it then im sure youll decide who you want to be with.
write back:) and ill see what else i can help you with.
-Tamera.
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Unfourtunately you can't have your cake and eat it too. They both sound like they're wrong for you. You obviously can't have M because he has a girlfriend and coming in between them would be wrong. And if C is the player type then he's not worth it. You should just keep them as friends (hoping one day they'll forgive you) and try finding a different letter, I mean guy to date:)
Good Luck!
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