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Matt .... :/


Question Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 11:06 am

Hi!!

I love this guy SO much. He just recently added me on my space. I need to tell him how I feel about him..I want to tell him that I do like him a lot...but it's alright with me to just be friends. He's never on my space...so I can't tell him. He goes to my school...but he's and 8th grader...I am a 7th grader. I am way to shy to talk to him.Even on the phone! He's in my study hall.... I really want to talk to him...but I can't!! I need some advice.... I also think he might like me.. might. We use to be in the same gym class...so the day before... we changed classes. I was playing volley ball with my friends...he was a little way's down from us playing basketball with his friends. I was talking to my friend. He was walking back from the boy's locker room...he was looking at his feet than he looked up, at me...for like about 2 minutes than played basketball again with his friends. This, Friday I was walking to s.s class ...with my other friend. I just randomly glanced in and 8th grade room and BAMM!! There's Matt....he was sitting in his desk facing the doorway..and he was literally STARING at me...for about 5 minutes. I blushed...and walked passed. Do you think that means anything ? Do you think he's interested....in me?? In a friend or maybe more than a friend? Someone help!! Give me some advice!! I really hope Matt and I can become friends and eventually become...more than friends.



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THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Sunday January 25 2009, 2:59 pm:
Hello, well Love is a very strong word I doubt if you are in live with him after all you have barley spoken to him and gotten to know him,that is what love is all about. The adding you on myspace and the random stares shows he has a general interest in you, he most likely thinks you are attractive he really has not the much to go on to say he likes you, you two know little about one another. Do not directly come out and say you like the guy be vague an laid back. you van show your interest by going slow, make random stares back at him,say hi when you see him but do not overwhelm him with attention it may make him want to avoid you. Be casual you can start by sending a message or somment on myspace by saying hello thanks for the add and go from there depending on his response, take it slow it is vital to be friends first and get to know him, onceyou get to know him you actually dont know if you may want to be with him or not. Once you guys start talking here and there he will get to know you and if he is interested it will show and you two can seee where it takes you! hope this helped and if you have any further questions I am here..I wish you the best of luck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday January 24 2009, 3:48 pm:
First off, my dear, love is a very, very strong word and generally you cannot say you love someone unless you've been with them for a very long time. I just wanted to point this out.

As the person below me said, leaving a comment on myspace would be a good idea. He'd eventually see it, and most likely would eventually comment back. Hopefully, after that you can keep a small conversation via myspace going. Once you've become acquainted casually sit next to him in study hall and start a conversation. Really, you won't be able to become friends until you start talking!

There's really no way to tell if he likes you or not unless you just come out and ask him. This is quite scary, and I do advise you to not do this right away because that may frighten him. Nevertheless, there is the always a possibility that he does like you so start talking to him.

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kerry_jeanne answered Saturday January 24 2009, 2:39 pm:
You should start out by leaving him a comment on myspace. Something like 'Hey, I noticed you're in my study hall:) how are ya?' and then go from there. You can't just jump the gun and move straight into a relationship - you must frist start from the bottom and work your way up. Since he sounds a little shy, you're going to have to make the first move. Trust me, theres nothing more attractive to a guy then self confidence - and when you make that first move he will be very impressed. Good Luck!

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