Well Im 15/f, and i have a bf. For the past half of a year, i've been more interested in girls. I just learned yesterday that my friend who is two years younger than me is bi. i kinda like her, more than just a friend. I want to try to get a gf, but the ones in my school are druggies, and i just dont think they would accept me. My friend said just tell people, and they will accept you, but i just dont think they will. I kinda want to brek up with my bf, because i went out with him for almost 2 years, and we just got back together about a month ago. and i've realized nomatter how much time i give him hes never gonna change.
So what should i do? what would you do? Should i break up wiht my bf? i love him, just its kinda fading, and i want to try a relationship with a girl, i jsut dont know how to find one, and i think my friiend only likes me as a sister.
Please help me, and thank you very much!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kerry_jeanne answered Saturday January 24 2009, 3:35 pm: You are only 15, and you're friend is 2 years younger which makes her 13. You girls are very young and it could just be a phase you're going through. However if it doesn't fade and years later you do find out that you are in fact bisexual then when you're ready you can come out and tell people. Some people will accept it, others may think it's wrong but it will be something you will have to learn to live with.
If you feel as if your feelings have faded towards your boyfriend then they probablly have. No time will change that or the way your boyfriend acts. If you're not happy in the state of being your in then fix it. No one ever said you have to stay with him.
Since you're exploring your sexuality I don't think it would be smart to jump into another relationship right away. I would wait, maybe date around to see which of male or female you do prefer. Good Luck! [ kerry_jeanne's advice column | Ask kerry_jeanne A Question ]
susansexton answered Saturday January 24 2009, 1:37 am: hello. don't go for a druggie, straight up. lol. they're a waste of time. A lot of people will say they'll except you, but truthfully. most of them will act like they will, and talk tons of trash about you behind your back. if you and your boyfriends relationship is fading anyways..... you should break up with him. nopoint in wasteing time right? if your not sure how people will react to you being with a girl in a relationship...... try finding you a bi/lesbian friend..... and maybe have like a secretive relationship.... and she how it goes. if it works out, and the love is strong. you'll knwo when it's the correct time to let it be known. talk to your friend whom you think on;ly likes you as a sister, you never know. try talking to her, and maybe try to hint out a firt here and there.
hope this helped.
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