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please help i feel so alone


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 8:58 pm

i don't know what to do i'm with a man i don't love, hes like 20 years older than me, i'm going crazy, cause i have no one to turn to. i have social phobia, no friends, i can't talk to ppl, cause i've got trust problems.....
i feel like a dead person just going thru the motions, i beat myself up constantly everyday, cause sometimes i hate myself.
i'm living a lie..
sometimesw i think i'm a evil monster


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WTC!?! AFRAID TO MAKE OUT!?


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 8:34 pm

im nervous to make out for the first time. any advice?

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best friend crushing


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 8:11 pm

Oh I am 13 and Female.
Okay, so, I really like my best friend, *Nat*, he is smart, funny, handsome, athletic, and great to be around. He keeps his temper most of the time, and is very kind to me. He likes girls in general. My mother and friends say he likes me, but I'm not sure. I really like him, and he waits for me after class, but isn't that simply what best friends do? I mean, I've never really had a best friend before, and it just happens my first best friend, is a guy who I have grown to like. I just went through a break up though. About 2 weeks ago. This is Nat's best friend, and we had complications. So I ended it. I would like to ask Nat out in late April or May, but I don't know if it's such a good idea. I think ...

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dedication


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 5:45 pm

my boyfriend wrote me this quote “Dedication involves making the space to let young ideas take hold; every tree was once a seed and every company was once an idea.” i dont exactly know what it means? any ideas?

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showing interest


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 5:24 pm

How do I show the guy I like that I'm interested and how can I get him to be interested in me without flat out saying "I like you do you like me?" He and I are friends and we have classes together the last 3 periods of the day and talk a lot during them. I think he might like me but I'm not 100%.

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moving out


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 3:44 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. After about 2 months of going out he lost his job and couldnt afford to pay his rent so had to move out and it was very short notice. He didnt have anywhere to go so my friend let him stay with him for a couple of days and then he ended up moving in with me, my parents and my brother. Unfortunately he has not had any luck getting a new job so has lived with me for 7 months. In the same room and everything. But now he says when he gets a job he's going to move out and that i can go and stay with him and he can stay with me. I knew him staying with me was never meant to be permenant but I am having a hard time dealing with him moving and me not going with him after we've been living as a co...

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teen pregnany


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 3:33 pm

Hello,
I am 18 years old and about 4 months ago i found out i was pregnant, my questions are
1) how could i hide my growing belly?
2)what should i do about my swelling breast?
3) is sex okay during pregnancy and how how often and how hard?
thanks!

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i duno how i feel =/


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 12:17 pm

hey guyz im 16/f ....and well theres this guy called jason and like we have been friends for a long time now and he has always 'liked me' in that kinda way =)..but we have always been just good friends...but now hes like 'i rly like you' and i rly duno how i feel about him =/ hes like the nicest guy ever and i kno he would not hurt me but its like i duno whether to date him b/c maybe hes just *too* nice for me and i dont wana hurt him so im like confused =/ i always get butterflies when im with him and like we flirt a lil but its just fun.....how do i kno if i like him like he likes me ???

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Now that he's got her...


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 11:53 am

So I was really close with a guy for almost a year...and I've liked him for the past 3 months. Well a few weeks ago he started going out with this girl from my old school, I know her.
I know he's happy...but I want him so much. I know he liked me at one point, but he never made a move..
Should I tell him how I feel? Even though he's got her now...I just think that I would feel better...but it may be a bad idea?

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All I really want Is Love...Advice?


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 3:07 am

sorry it's kind of long... anyway,
i'm a 17f. i've never been kissed, and never been in any sort of relationship... all my life i've said "i don't want to be in a relationship", and "they're nothing but problems." but really, it's all i want lately... i feel like it's getting too late and it's never going to happen... i see couples and it kills me inside, i just look and wish i had what they've got. i guess i just want someone who's perfect for me, and i haven't found him. i don't want to settle for just anyone, i want something real... first problem is i barely know any boys that're actually available or that i'm even merely interested in. how should i meet new people?.. another thing is that it doesn't help tha...

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This guy


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 1:46 am

14/f

Ok so this guy is a junior and I'm a freshman. I don't really like him. I don't think. I'm just so confused. He is one of the coolest guys I know and he is my friend. Like he is says some other girl is hot or something I really don't care because I don't have those feelings for him I guess? But I love being around him and I think about him all the time. For one thing, I would never go out with him because I love how it is right now and he is so easy to talk to. I think he is cute but I don't like him I guess. Its either I'm fighting it or something. But I'm just so confused. Maybe I'm just in love with our friendship? haha I know this might be a little confusing but I just need to know if like I love being around this gu...

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Turn ons?


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 12:24 am

What kinds of things do boys find attractive in a girl? What are some turn ons? Nothing dirty please!

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kissing tips!


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 11:43 pm

so my boyfriend and i have never made out.

how do i change a kiss that ususally ends into a hug...into a steamy kissing session?

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How to send subtle hints to my crush on an overnight trip?


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 11:24 pm


So I'm going on a trip with a team and it's pretty small, and one of my best friends and my crush is going and we're the only people he really knows. Anyway me and him usually sit next to each other on trips and we've held hands before, but I want other ways (things to say/gestures) to hint to him that I like him.
Any advice?

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love life


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 8:52 pm

my frend .. lets call her w and she liked this boy lets call him b .. so when w liked b, b liked her back and i was trying to set them up so i got b's # from my step brother because b is one of my step brothers bestfriends. but then w stopped liking b and b still liked her but now hes trying to get over her. i sorta liked b but didnt tell anybody or acted on it because i didnt know how w would react but them she said you should like him so i did and idk if it was the best think to do but i told him i liked him. after that he wasnt awkward or anything.. we flirted and every thing we said stuff like him being a bad boy and how i like the bad boys then hes like your fucking awesome and then i went to a movie with w and he was still texting he...

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Bi-Polor


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 8:25 pm

So i thought this was the right category. Well my boyfriend is 17 and bi-polor. One minute he will be happy and the next we will be fighting but then fine again. I don't think he takes anything and i don't think he wants too. but how do i deal with this? anything will be helpful, except dumping him, because thats not gonna happen. THANKS!

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is this normal in a relationship?


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 8:03 pm

okay so me and my boyfriend of 6 months live about 20-30 mins away from each other and he doesn't really seem to care as much when we're apart..like he says he'll call and he never does and im usually always the one that has to text him.. but like when we're together he'll just like look into my eyes for the longest time with that look on his face that makes me just wanna melt...i just dont know what to do =/ ive talked to him about it and he said to just text him whenever i wanna talk, but he doesn't understand the point...any advice?


16/f & 16/m

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Comfort ?


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 7:55 pm

Okay well me and my bf have not kisses but i think its because we have not been that comforatble...So im wondering what can i do to help make him more comfortable with himm ?

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i made a stupid mistake


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 3:50 pm

hey i really need help. i made a big mistake and i cant fix it now.im sorry that this is so long but please i dont know what else to try.
I was with this girl for a little over a year. we were friends for a long time before we started dating.but i made a stupid mistake..i always fought with her and called her some mean things. things she never deserved to be called. and i made our relationship horrible. but i never meant the things with her..i had something else bad going on in my life and it kinda got to me and i fliped at her every chance i got. i didnt mean it. i called her pretty much eveyrthing you can think of and i left her at a dance not long ago and she gave me alot of chances and this time shes sick of it and wants us to be...

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Age difference?


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 3:32 pm

Ok, so, I know that someone over 18 can't date a minor, but, is there a certain age that you can't date [younger] if you are 16?
I found out that my ex [who is 16] dated a 6th grader [they just broke up this year] and they had sex. Is that legal?
I'm just really curious, because I heard it was, but I'm not quite sure. I've looked on google. but I couldn't find anything on it.

-I'm not looking to get her, or her ex gf in trouble, I'm just really curious.

Thanks!

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