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please help i feel so alone
i don't know what to do i'm with a man i don't love, hes like 20 years older than me, i'm going crazy, cause i have no one to turn to. i have social phobia, no friends, i can't talk to ppl, cause i've got trust problems.....
i feel like a dead person just going thru the motions, i beat myself up constantly everyday, cause sometimes i hate myself.
i'm living a lie..
sometimesw i think i'm a evil monster
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Okay girl it sounds like first you need to get back to the basics and breathe. Then make a change in you life because if you feeling like this then its time to shake it up and do whats best for you. First of unless you think your relationship with this guy is heading towards love it may be time to end it because it sounds like its apart of the problem. When you decide that go on to the social issues. Realize that using this man as a social crutch, which i think you are, is not the way to go. Take baby steps by first building your self confident and strength that way if people do break your trust you wont break into a million pieces. Once you've build yourself up test yurself with baby steps, getting back out, and putting yourself out there because if you put nothing out there you get nothing back. Best of luck and always rememebr if it gets too much at times get back to basics and breathe because you have to power to change any circumstance you find yourself in = )
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The only way to be happy is to be content with yourself. Close your eyes & take 5 deep breaths & think "i am perfect, i am happy, i am content"
There is nothing wrong with you. You are completely normal.
If the man you are with dosent make you happy, why be with him? Dont stay with people out of need, choose your friends out of want.
You dont need to depend on anybody. You have the most powerful energy inside yourself. You have the power. & you are strong.
Get dresed up pretty, go outside, smile, & be friendly to people. Youll be suprised at all the smiles you get back.
Have a great day =)
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