my frend .. lets call her w and she liked this boy lets call him b .. so when w liked b, b liked her back and i was trying to set them up so i got b's # from my step brother because b is one of my step brothers bestfriends. but then w stopped liking b and b still liked her but now hes trying to get over her. i sorta liked b but didnt tell anybody or acted on it because i didnt know how w would react but them she said you should like him so i did and idk if it was the best think to do but i told him i liked him. after that he wasnt awkward or anything.. we flirted and every thing we said stuff like him being a bad boy and how i like the bad boys then hes like your fucking awesome and then i went to a movie with w and he was still texting her and so he admitted he still likes her and she asked about me but he said he didnt liek me.. so i texted him later and he said she doesnt like me so theres nothing to do about it so theres no point in liking her .. and we texted about other stuff the rest of the night and tthen today we were texting and he plays hockey so hees like "come to the arena one time" idk how to react do you think he might like me or what do you think is goingg on?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? itdependsonyoux3 answered Tuesday February 17 2009, 4:52 pm: He is either ...
1. Using you to get to your friend [w]
2. Trying to make [w] jealous by hanging with you.
3. Trying to get over [w] by playing you.
4. Trying to get to know you to see if he likes you.
5. just making sure that he has someone who likes him, even though he doesn't like that someone.
It could be any of these, but honestly hun, I think he's playing you and using you. This is NOT right and NOT cool. He wants a good time, and that's about how far his feelings for you run. He was obviously hurt when [w] didn't date him, so he knew that YOU liked him, and is using this information to make himself feel better. And that is not, in any terms, fair to you or what you DESERVE. you can do soooo much better, and maybe you guys can just keep it at a friends level because right now, he needs to get his priorities staright and figure out what he really wants.
Hope I helped, and don't let him get you downn ;] good luck girl, if you need any other help, just inbox me :] ! xxo [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
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