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This one guy i really like


Posted Saturday February 6 2010, 2:26 am

I'm 18 and a female, and i really like this one guy that i work with and he's my friend on facebook. About a week ago, i told him over facebook that i like him, but he never responded, does this mean he doesnt like me. I thought he did too and so did my friends because he would always do the thing that guys do when he looks at you then you look at him and then he turns away, he's always seemed like he was interested in me too, and now i dont know what to do. I just want to know if he could still like me or something, please help! Thanks!

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prom O.O''''''


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 10:23 pm

so my prom is coming up, and i don't have a date. my friend from school told me he would take me, but he's taking someone else. so i was thinking of taking my other friend, whom i really really REALLY like.

the only problem is that he doesn't go to my school, and won't know anybody there. i'd feel weird if i go off to talk to my other friends while he just stands around doing nothing. plus, neither of us dance. so we wouldn't have much to do. anyone have any ideas on what i could do?

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Dumped me now I'm confused?


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 9:31 pm

He said he didn't want a serious relationship right now. He said we could still be friends but he didn't really talk to me unless I started it. He said I did nothing wrong and that it was him. Then he hooked up with a slut and doesn't talk to her anymore. Then, he told my friend that he was frustrated that he "found the right girl but doesn't stay with her." Is that me? Does he want me back?

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What to do...


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 7:53 pm

Question Posted Friday February 5 2010, 6:51 pm

ok so I met this girl this past summer she was in a two year relationship with a guy and he cheated on her and she found out and she was completely crushed and heartbroken she loved him so much he was her first and everything but anyway I met her on a social site she friend requested me and I looked at her photos and commented one saying she was pretty and she commented me back saying awww thanks and that's where it all started we were just friends for a while she was talking to my best friend and they dated for about a week and things started to fade for them and I started to like her during all this because we talked pretty much every day and so then one day I told her and she...

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This guy well he is shy ish-?


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 3:17 am

I have known this guy since idk uhm last year. he and my best friend dated for a really long time though they never talked kissed or anything it just didn't work out.So here my thing i like him kind a lot i swear he is the perfect guy he wants to hang with me he is sweet and makes me laugh and a smart ass and not to perverted yah know how guys are at 14 they all are..anyhoo i know that his personality is kinda awkward or shy or something where doesn't seem like he talks or something,,so if we did date how can i get past that and him be the guy i text and like talking to?? and we just be together no awkwardness or anything? help

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ughh..


Posted Friday February 5 2010, 12:27 am

idk what to do. i feel like im losing myself like who i worked so hard to become. i was really happy, outgoing, and just things were all around great for me. now i feel more hesitant and lazy but mostly depressed.. it sucks. also it seems like im really only happy when im with my boyfriend but i only get to see him like 3 times a week max. please help! idk what to do but i have to do somthing!

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is it normal to get a boner when making out with a girl?


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 9:38 pm

Every time I make out with a girl I get a boner. is it normal to get a boner when making out with a girl? I get so embarrassed but she seems to like it when it happens so why is this!

13/m I feel like I need a learners permit for this thing! LOL!

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cute nicknames... boyfriend!


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 9:31 pm

My boyfriend has a gift. He can comeup with a billion cute things to call me all the time. I have like three and they are all kinda lame.

Can you each give me like your top 10 cute nicknames for your boyfriends?

If you don't have 10 that is cool but could you please just tell me what are some cute nicknames you call your boyfriend AND HE LIKES THEM.

Thank you!

I will give everyone a rating!

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yelling out a crush


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 9:12 pm

I was waiting in the hallway with the other jazz band people to start our sectional class. We have to wait like an hour, so we sit there and drink the free sodas we get from the teachers who feel bad for us and listen to music. So this one guy was looking through my friends phone, and came across a name with over 200 texts messages sent to it; and this name with over 200 texts messages to it happened to be a huge crush of mine. The person who had been looking through my phone annouced that my friend sent a lot of text messages to this guy, and we were all laughing and I was saying "ooooooooh!!" . But then my friend pointed at me and said loudly "You have a crush on him!!" and then I think it got quieter. Then I started b...

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what does mènage à trois mean?


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 9:11 pm

I have a boyfriend who asked me if I wanted to experience a mènage à trois when we go to my friend's party in two weeks. I know it is sexy because we were talking about having sex at her house so I told him "yeah baby!" when I texted him back. I figured I would find out what it was when we were having sex but today he texted me and asked me to "pick the trois" and I have no clue what to do!

What are we going to be doing and what am I suppose to pick!?!

I am to embarrassed to ask anyone I know!

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Valentines Day


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 9:08 pm

15/f

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months now. I have no idea what to get him for valentines day. Is the classic card and chocolate bad? Or anything better I can get him? I don't want to go all out and everything. Just something to show I care. Any ideas? Thanks!

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Guy Advice: I Please Neeed Help! 8)


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 7:29 pm

Mmmmkay:)
I Think I Need To Be In Tough Love Bootcamp:)


Alright. To Make this Long Story Short,

I Live with My Aunt, Uncle, Little Brother And Younger Cousin. Recently (A Year Today) My Dad Died. So Thats Why My Brother and I Live With Them.

Okay, So Recently My Cousin Got on the Girls Basketball Team, And I Go Twice a week To Her Practices.

She Has A Friend Who's Brother, Who Is Ahhhdorable;)


But Apparently; Has Never had A Girlfriend And "Doesn't like girls" Said His 10 Year Old Little cousin.

No I Know for SURE He Is Not Gay.


He's Just Really Shy. And Thats What I Need Help With.

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trapped relationship , help !


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 12:37 pm

14/f .
so i have a boyfriend .
he's seventeen .
we've been dating since 101209 .
so almost four months , or around there .
his mom lovesme & my parents love him too ,
his mom & my parents are like best friends , so were like one big family..
but i really don't know how much i love him .
i mean , thats horrible to say .
but i wanna be single sometimes ,
we've broken up before and he turns everything on me , and sometimes cries .
then i feel horrible , and pretty much get forced to go back out with him .
my parents get upset with me , and tell me that i'm lossing someone who loves me,
and yada yada yada .
but worse , all of his upper...

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Work vs. Boyfriend vs. Mom :(


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 7:10 am

Wasn't sure what category to put it in, but I hope it fits...

I'm an 18 year old girl and I have an amazing relationship with my boyfriend. I believe that no one is perfect, but he is truly the closest I've seen.

However, he is in college and currently lives in the dorms which are about 45 minutes away from where I live. Not too far, but he can't drive here all the time because his parents bought his truck and are very conscious of the miles he piles on it. I completely understand that, so we've respectfully limited his visits here to only weekends. It's not always easy to go that long without seeing him, but we make it work. Also, he has to split his weekends between his mother and stepfather, his father and s...

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guy in my class part 2


Posted Thursday February 4 2010, 1:31 am

so i posted a question about this guy in my class & everyone told me to talk to him and i did. well see when he sits next to me, he sometimes sees what i am doing. like the other day i was drawing & he was watching me. and then today before class he saw me & smiled at me, and i smiled back. the problem was when i went to class, i asked him if he's started his collage. he told me he hasn't, so then i asked him what will his collage be and he said he doesn't know, and he'll have to s it down and plan it out. & then he didn't say anything after that so i decided not to say anything either because i didn't want to annoy him. but i was upset that he wasn't really talking to me. & i feel like i got too excited when he smiled a...

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Does he like me or he just want something e;se


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 10:58 pm

I started talking to this guy (Josh) last august. We are talking to each other until now. He is very sweet to me, we even enjoy talking to each other until morning. I have a huge crush on him, and he knows it. We talk about school, our favorite movies, books, philosophy in life etc. We have "something" but we are not committed. It's like a pseudo-relationship. Recently, he have been talking to me about mature subjects. He's told me that he is fantasizing about me. He's insinuating on having sex, he is a discreet person. He is not a virgin, but i am. Does he really likes me? Or he just want to get in my pants?

I know for a fact that he is sweet to other girls too. But he is different to me. He talks about mature stuf...

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Is this a good poem for mt bf? we've been dating about 2 months


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 10:28 pm

From the time we met I had my eyes on you
This feeling I have is so brand new
I love the way you hold me and kiss me sweet
You make me smile every time we meet
I love your blue eyes
I love your smile
Each minute with you is worth the while
You give me something to look forward to each and every day
I can no longer linger what I must say
You need to know how much I care for you
How much you mean to me
You are unlike any guy I’ve met
I love your quirky personality
I feel safe when im with you
You arms around me like a shield
I can’t explain this feeling that came upon me
But it feels so real
You help me forget all my prob...

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Valentines day.


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 7:12 pm

16/f, 17/m.
This will be my and my boyfriends 2nd valentines day together. Last year we went out for a meal, but this year I want to cook him dinner. But, I can't think of anything to cook! To start with I've decided on chocolate and strawberries and heart-shaped shortcake for dessert (it's our favourite to eat and to bake together). But what about the main meal!? I know how to cook spaghetti bolognese but I've cooked him that before. I don't really have much cooking experience but I can make anything as long as I have a recipe, I would find one myself but I honestly have no idea what to look for!
Another thing about valentines day, I just moved house a few months ago so my room isn't fully decorated. But I was thinking about ...

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constant crying, hes ditching me


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 6:16 pm

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half. but i havent seen him for the past month even thought we go to the same school he just ditches plans. we fought and nearly broke up but for the last week i just stay home all day and cry i have no idea why and i usually go out everyday with him or friends or shopping. i just really need to see him. anything i can do to cheer me up? he wont hangout with me

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wow thats what happened?


Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 1:11 pm

So I am a girl and I am bi sexual and i am with my 1st girlfriend. Well she lives with her roomate that acts like she controls her she has to watch her kids well I found out lik3 3 months ago my gf's roomate was her first like 10 years ago but theres no feelings there she dont believe in cheating they dont even talk about it. Well last night she got really drunk and I found out that back then they dated for almost a year. I was devistated and upset and she was mad and confused of why i was upset. shes like you always throw it in my face maybe i should be with her or she might be better in the bed i dont believe in cheating and i wannt be with you i dont want you to think differently im ready for us to get our own place. i still feel like wo...

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