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Guy Advice: I Please Neeed Help! 8)
Mmmmkay:)
I Think I Need To Be In Tough Love Bootcamp:)
Alright. To Make this Long Story Short,
I Live with My Aunt, Uncle, Little Brother And Younger Cousin. Recently (A Year Today) My Dad Died. So Thats Why My Brother and I Live With Them.
Okay, So Recently My Cousin Got on the Girls Basketball Team, And I Go Twice a week To Her Practices.
She Has A Friend Who's Brother, Who Is Ahhhdorable;)
But Apparently; Has Never had A Girlfriend And "Doesn't like girls" Said His 10 Year Old Little cousin.
No I Know for SURE He Is Not Gay.
He's Just Really Shy. And Thats What I Need Help With.
What Do I Say to A Guy, If He Isn't Even Interested? Or I Dont Even Know If He Does,
Ahhhhh! Help! Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee:)
xoxox Cassidy
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First off, Cassidy..
You need to be yourself.
Do NOT throw yourself at him too much, or make it seem like you are too interested in chasing after him to even bother for him to become friends with you, you don't want a guy to think that.
Secondly,
Just start a casual conversation.
Get his number.
Facebook him.
Get to know him.
Wait a while, and when you have become good friends, then ease yourself into letting him know that you like him.
But do not rush things in too fast.
If you don't think it's worth the wait, then he's not worth your time.
Just, Talk to him.
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Just because a guy is shy does not mean he isn't interested in you. So, don't worry about that :). Feel free to approach him and see how it goes.
As for how you should approach him, just relax and be yourself. Do not follow any flirting tips you found in some magazine. Do not play games. Do not dress provocatively. Do not play hard to get. Following tips you find in magazines or sticking to concepts you've seen in movies will only screw you over. You shouldn't have to manipulate a guy to get him to like you. And there is no right or wrong way to approach someone.
Just be yourself and treat him the same way you would a friend.
As for some fun things you could do together, here are some ideas:
1. If he goes to your cousin's basketball games, sit with him! This is the perfect chance to spend time together.
2. Ask him if he would like to see a movie. Everybody likes movies :)
3. Go out for coffee, hot chocolate, or some other kind of drink.
4. Invite him over to your house.
5. Ask him to spend Valentine's Day with you.
In other words, please do not waste your time contemplating how you will approach him. Just do it and then turn your attention to actually getting to know him. That is what real relationships are about. They are about knowing somebody, spending time with them, etc. They are not about luring somebody in, saying things in exactly the right way or trying to be seductive/attractive.
Just get in there :)
By the way, if you like my advice, please return the favour by visiting my blog:
www.wecareaboutlove.blogspot.com
This could be beneficial to you, actually, if you choose to spend Valentine's Day with this guy. I have an article dedicated to Valentine's Day that you might like to read. Moreover, I would love to read your feedback and ideas on the holiday :)
You can also feel free to check out my twitter: @wecareaboutlove
I use twitter as an alternative way of communication. If you have any other questions or thoughts about love, friendshsips, etc. that you would like to discuss, please drop me a line.
Good luck getting to know your guy! :)
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