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wow thats what happened?


Question Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 1:11 pm

So I am a girl and I am bi sexual and i am with my 1st girlfriend. Well she lives with her roomate that acts like she controls her she has to watch her kids well I found out lik3 3 months ago my gf's roomate was her first like 10 years ago but theres no feelings there she dont believe in cheating they dont even talk about it. Well last night she got really drunk and I found out that back then they dated for almost a year. I was devistated and upset and she was mad and confused of why i was upset. shes like you always throw it in my face maybe i should be with her or she might be better in the bed i dont believe in cheating and i wannt be with you i dont want you to think differently im ready for us to get our own place. i still feel like wow should i just let it past cuz it was 10 years ago?

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inevitable_pain16 answered Friday February 5 2010, 11:05 am:
Okay this is what I would. I would let it pass, but...... I would still keep a good eye out. just loosen up on things that you are normally stressing out about. Trust is a good thing to have on a relationship and if you do not have it with her than the two of you might need to have a talk. It's okay to be jealous or curious, and sometimes that can be sexy. (ha ha), but too much of it can push her away and possibly result in a break up. So... if that is not what you want then I would suggest that you just take it down a notch and relax. God bless!

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