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This guy well he is shy ish-?
I have known this guy since idk uhm last year. he and my best friend dated for a really long time though they never talked kissed or anything it just didn't work out.So here my thing i like him kind a lot i swear he is the perfect guy he wants to hang with me he is sweet and makes me laugh and a smart ass and not to perverted yah know how guys are at 14 they all are..anyhoo i know that his personality is kinda awkward or shy or something where doesn't seem like he talks or something,,so if we did date how can i get past that and him be the guy i text and like talking to?? and we just be together no awkwardness or anything? help
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yeah just as the other person said, keep the conversations going. after you talk about a topic and someone ends on a single worded note like- "yeah.." or "oh ok" or "i see" that pretty much means the end of the topic. here's a trick- keep the ball rolling. if you feel like a topic has ended or its dull and boring, start a new one. anything really. who cares if its really random or stupid. if he thinks its stupid, just laugh. if you're all serious about it, he might think its weird. but if you laugh, it means good connection. trust me this actually works. i have trouble making friends but recently i've made a lot of new friends. my trick.. talking about something really random.
example- i didnt know anyone in my math class and i got assigned a seat next to this girl. she looked nice and so i just randomly asked her a question and each day i would add something new to our conversations. after 1 month, we would already be talking about guys and what the gossip is etc.
i hope i helped!
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just talk. talk about anything. to keep the conversation going, ask him some questions like "What kind of music do you like?" or maybe something that both of you are involved in, such as a class or a sport.
Trust me, talk about ANYTHING. it can be the stupidest thing ever, but eventually if you guys have something in common, the conversation will develop and he'll be yours :)
hope that helped!
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