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love triangle
this past friday a guy friend(tyler)asked me to come over his house and hangout. i'm 16 and he's 16. i stay with my grandmother, so when i got home we asked, and at first she wanted to say no but then she said if i could trust my friends she could learn to too.
so when we got to his house no one was there although he said some one would be. Then he asked if i wanted to play his game(x-box)but the game was in is room, but i said shure because i thought i could trust him. after about two games he tries kissing me and then he wanted to have sex with me.
while we were in his room there was a knock on the front door and it was his friend Danny. Danny is my crush. we were talking at one point but got disconnected over the summer and now we talk everyday at school. Anyways danny comes in the house and tyler tells him i'm sitting in his room. so when i walked out the room i told tony to take me home, and he did.
two days later(monday)my aunt died my uncle was in the ER and one of my cousins had ran away. the next day at school i was depressed and danny bumped in to me in the hall and gave me a hug. when i got on myspace that night i told him happy birthday & thanks for the hug because i was going threw alot. he asked me what was going on and i told him. we stayed up all that night talking and he cheered me up when he could've been doung something else for his birthday.
now i'm in this love triangle because tyler likes me (or so he says) but i like danny but i'm not shure if he liks me the way i like him because of what happend that friday. i want to tell him but i don't know how to. what do i do?
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Well, it's not actually a triangle unless you have feelings about both of them, and you pretty obviously don't like Tyler at all.
There are two, totally and completely seperate things for you to do here: Let Tyler know you aren't interested and Danny know that you are.
Don't try to make either too hard: Ignore Tyler and don't agree to hang out with him agian. If he asks why, tell him straight up that you don't like him as much as he likes you and weren't comfortable when he tried to get physical with you. Do make time to hang out with, listen too and talk to Danny. You'll be able to gauge his feelings that way, and the truth will come out eventually and naturally.
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