Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


police <<< Previous Question
Next Question >>> what to get a boy/ guy for valentines day

Dumped me now I'm confused?


Question Posted Saturday February 6 2010, 2:31 am

He said he didn't want a serious relationship right now. He said we could still be friends but he didn't really talk to me unless I started it. He said I did nothing wrong and that it was him. Then he hooked up with a slut and doesn't talk to her anymore. Then, he told my friend that he was frustrated that he "found the right girl but doesn't stay with her." Is that me? Does he want me back?

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


sousou1234567 answered Monday February 8 2010, 1:52 pm:
He is just one of those jerks out there. The whole 'it's not you, it's me' line, it's BULLSHIT. It means he is bored of the relationship.
And just what the person under me mentioned, he is confused and a confused man isn't ready for a serious relationship.

And also the fact that he hooks up with some slut after breaking up with you, thats the sign where you get and it means 'he is a total jerk.

Don't get your hopes high and try to get over him unless he comes to you and give you a great explaintion for what he did and ask you out again.

Good Luck =]

[ sousou1234567's advice column | Ask sousou1234567 A Question
]




OhMyLucyDarling answered Saturday February 6 2010, 7:21 am:
If a guy doesn't know what he wants then obviously he isn't ready to have a serious relationship, Even if that was you, you still might want to give him time to straighten things out until he is sure he knows what he wants. If he said he didn't want a serious relationship then don't rush things or you won't get one.

[ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question
]



Volleyball2150 answered Saturday February 6 2010, 5:08 am:
i'd give him some time to cool off. dont talk to him for like a week. just let him cool off and let him think. after a week, talk to him. preferably in person because that makes you a stronger person over the years. then just talk to him. ask him how he feels about this. then tell him how you're feeling. i promise if you guys just talk about it, something will change. for better or for worse, who knows. but if you just sit around and dont do anything... nothing is going to happen. and if nothing happens, you'll start to get sad and depressed.. you dont want that now do you?

nobody can really "tell" you what to do. it has to come from your heart. if youre mad at him, tell him. if you love him and dont want him to go, tell him.

if you take advice from us on specifically what to say, then its not coming from you, which means its fake.

i hope i helped!

[ Volleyball2150's advice column | Ask Volleyball2150 A Question
]
Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

Me and my friends boyfriend..
I hate being around people.
Am I a "normal" teenager
i dont know why he does that
My mom thinks i'm lying to her!
How to get rid of and prevent ingrown hairs
Can a 12 year old get a Brazilian wax?!
My friend acts like I'm not there sometimes
Subjects of special study or research work
Things are getting so complicated
What do I do?
What to do if you start liking your bestfriend
Best PPC networks to convert MaxBounty & banners advertising
My friend cuts herself
Worried About Depression
Hi everyone I am a 22 yea
What advice should I give my sister about getting a dog?
I keep haveing dreams not the same but all boil down to the same to people
I was neglected at the hospital
Why does everyone forget about me?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker