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how can i find other bisexual/ lesbian girls in my school?


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 9:40 pm

ok so im 13 and i believe im bisexual but im not very open about it (i told my 2 bffs and then 1 got pissed off at me and told someone and now like 10 others have heard :*( ) but i have never had a relationship with either a guy or a girl. i wanna know who the lesbians and bisexuals are in my school cause i might want to get 2 know some of them. how can i find that out without going up 2 every girl and asking if they are attracted 2 girls?!?!

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Do I have an eating disorder? Or am I just very self conscious?


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 9:25 pm

Let's just cut to the chase, I can't eat in front of any boy that I like! It's so awkward and I just stopped eating at lunch. It got so bad that everyone started called me anorexic and I broke up with my boyfriend! Isn't that terrible? I am in 8th grade and this all started in 7th grade... The truth is that I really like him and I really want the relationship to work! I have gone out with him three times and I broke up with him for the same reason each time. I have been looking up the answers to my problems in yahoo and I read that many people go through what I go through everyday. I think that people are starting to see the pattern so I really need together over this! What are some steps I could go through to overcome this awkward ...

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do guys like it when girls touch themselves


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 8:24 pm

do guys like it when girls touch themselves? does it turn you on or is it unattractive? i hear that most guys get really turned on by it, is that true?

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He couldn't get three fingers in cause it hurt! Is this normal?


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 5:47 pm

So I've been dating this guy for about seven months but I've been wanting to take it reeeally slow because he's seventeen, gonna be a junior and I'm fifteen, gonna be a sophomore. The other day I let him finger me and it was the first thing I've done anything like that but he's pretty experienced though haha he's pretty much done everything including sex but he told me he'd be patient with me and he really has been. He's never pressured me or anythinng. Anyway that's not what the questions about. While it was happening, he had two fingers in and it felt fine I guess, I was a little uncomfortable. And he could kind of tell but then he started trying to get a third finger in and I was like ouchh, like it reallyyy hurt. so he stopped and was k...

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How to kiss


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 5:12 pm

I am in a tricky situation where I'm trying to get with this girl. I'm not saying I haven't had my first, I'm saying I have never had a kiss with feeling. I get close to her, but can't find the opening, Im worried if I try she'll think I'm pushy. Please help

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is this against the law


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 4:37 pm

I'm just wondering, is it against the law to hit a girl? Because there is this girl in my class who i wanna smack, would i get in trouble? If it helps i live in Ontario, Canada. Thanks

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wanting/hating/missing him


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 3:56 pm

I'm a fifteen year old girl, will be a junior. (I'll be sixteen in less than two weeks). And for about three years I've been really close with this guy. We'll call him Matt. (He will be a senior, seventeen). When I say close, I mean like really good friends. Now, last year I dated this tool (one that I asked you a question about) who was a total dick to me. He pressured/forced me into a lot of (sexual) stuff and was an all around jerk. When the dick dumped me in a text after seven months and proceeded to jerk me around all summer, Matt was there to tell me I didn't deserve it. There was one night in particular that he let me cry on his shoulder for about two hours and he basically just let me spill my guts to him. I've told him stuff about ...

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Stomach


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 2:24 pm

i've been dating this guy for 3 months now, and when we cuddle with eacother, he usually puts his hand on my stomach a lot. Not only that, but when we hold hands, he sometimes nibbles on my fingers. what does his actions mean? female/17



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does he like me


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 10:38 am

this lad and me have started hanging out and he said he loves me i dont know if i believe him because he keeps saying its a joke then says ts not. he has hugged me alot and held my hand, even kissed me on the arm but i still dont know if he loves me?

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pet name for husband


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 8:27 am

i am looking for a pet name for my husband. his name is Parfait like Perfect

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Is he avoiding me or am i just being paranoid?


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 6:00 am

My boyfriend and I get invited to the same parties, and he tells me that he doesn't want me there, so I don't go (even though i really want to), and he does go. When i say that i am going to a party he is also invited to, he will say he doesn't want to go. Should i take a hint from this or not? It just makes me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Also, we have gone to parties together and it was fine, so?

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He says we haven't been together long enough for marriage... it has been SEVEN YEARS!


Posted Sunday June 12 2011, 1:48 am

My boyfriend says that we haven't been together long enough to be married and I don't understand. He and i met each other when i was 16 and he was 17. He always told me that once we graduated from college that we could get married. We were in programs in college that didn't allow us to get married or we'd get kicked out. Now that I'm 23 and he's 24. He still hasn't proposed after 7 years.After all of the family christmases, sex and 'i love you's'... It hurts. Do you think we haven't been together long enough?

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srh2323....what to do next?


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 4:11 pm

my boy and have a 1 year old daughter.he has been a complete dead beat, jobless and abusive for the last year and a half. I threw him out 5 days ago. after months of wanting to. Now, I am lonely after my daughter goes to bed. He is texting me alllllllll night telling me how bad he fucked up his life. Hes gonna change. I said prove it. He isnt welcome at my house so dont worry about that. But my question is if he keeps this job he is starting on monday and gets his act sober and together....should I un-break up with him....? Not let him move in, just keep a relationship. And see how it goes. I did love him dearly before he fell into his depression. I still love him. But how do I know if the abusive tendencies will go away. How d...

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The Age Old Porn Question


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 3:10 pm

Hello! Many of us women and/or men tend to feel hurt when we find out that our significant other is looking at others on the internet (porn). Although the simple answer to this problem is communication, what is the answer to what your husband of wife says? For example, I've found that some men say they watch it because they get the sudden urge, and since they're not doing anything special, they just do it. I'd like for men to answer this question, but women are open to comment too. Would you say this random moment of watching porn could stem from not doing anything? If you don't have a job, and don't go to school, do you think that might be the problem? Thanks in advance for your opinions!

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Guys answer Only Please (:


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 12:26 pm

Alright, when your in a relationship with someone for a long long time, lets say 2 years.. and you guys share absolutely everything, and you know she loves you, and you know you love her very much too, and out of nowhere your having too much fun with your friends, and you say you dont want to be commited anymore,and btw, you tend to have these phases alot during the summer, but then you open up your eyes and go back on it,.and you say you dont want a relationship, or you find a way to be a complete asshole to your girlfirend so she can tell you its over out of anger,and because you break your promises, my question is.. do men usually regret doing this when they go through these kind of phases? and do they usually want the girl back after t...

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my guy friend. that I might like


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 10:28 am

So I have a friend that's a guy and he's one of my good friends too. People told me he likes me, he acted like he did too but then I guess he started liking another girl because there going out. But I don't like that they are, by the way I'm a 13 year old girl were all the same age but I started liking him the day before they started dated. I don't know what to do. Im a little sad and upset by this. Please help me. :/ (:

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Change of name?


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 8:30 am

15/f

Next year I will be leaving high school and have the chance to start a new when I head to college. I've wanted to change my name for ages now, my surname is embarrassing and I hate my forename. I know new people I meet wont be phased but I'm worried that my girlfriend won't like me anymore. She says that I suite the name I want and that she wouldn't be bothered. And she has called me by my name I want more than my real name and I've pointed this out. But I keep thinking she wont like me or she will hold a grudge against me. I want to change my name to a more boy name because I do think I was born a boy in a chicks body and I've already spoken to her about that. But I wanted to change my name to Kai which can also be used...

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What should i do about him?


Posted Saturday June 11 2011, 2:53 am

OK so i and Garrett have know each other for all our life's because our parents were best friends b4 we were even born. anyways so we grew up together and all that great stuff but we dated a while back and (i believed we were to young) we broke up like a month later because i didn't feel right. anyways so i hadn't seen him for a while after that because his dad had a job in Cali and i never saw him etc.. so i moved out here to Texas and for another year, still hadn't seen or talked to him in forever. then when i came back my brother was living with his family so i ended up staying with his family and my bro. well old feelings were brought back up again but he was still a little immature for my liking but i still liked him a lot!!!! we did m...

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Does this dream mean anything??


Posted Friday June 10 2011, 7:33 pm

Well first off I am a teenager and a female and the other night(3 days) I had the best dream I have ever had and everysinse I think about it all the time and I have a smile on my face! ok heres the dream it was me and this guy I REALLLLLLY LIKE i mean really like and he dont know i like him or anything but we held hands and kissed and things like that in my dream and the thing I remember most is when we held hands and it made me sooo happy(: but then at the end of my dream (before I woke up) I tried to kiss him and he shook his head because he had a gf but he only had a gf at the end of the dream and not at the beginin when he aloud me to kiss him idk it was wierd but I loved it when we held hands! btw he is kinda a celebrity and not but ma...

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are these the signs of being in love??


Posted Friday June 10 2011, 7:28 pm

Hey everyone(: I was just wondering if these were some or most of the signs of being in love(:

♥ Always thinking about the person everyday all day?

♥ Always wanting to see him

♥ seeing him puttin a smile on your face and just feeling like you have something to look forward too

♥ One time when I was feeling sick like I was going to throw up I looked at pictures of him and thought about him then I felt better!

♥ always wanting to hear or see things that remind me of him

ok so out of that would you say someones in love? thanks!(:

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