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Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 10:22 pm

Okay, I REALLY liek this one guy, but he just broke up with his g.f three days ago. he's really bummed otu about it and i don't want to say anything to him yet because i don't think a new relationship will help him at this moment. i really want to tell him that i like im, and i keep asking his friends about him, but i dont even know if he even notices me. should i tell him how i feel, or should i wait, or should i just let it go?? ^_^ idk what to do...

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Im Too Shy


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 9:59 pm

Hey, does anyone know a good way to tell a boy that you like him? I'm extremley shy and wanted to know if anyone has any good tips or helpful hints?? :) thanks a bunch!!

-Jenn
JSIMT

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tooooo Shy lol


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 9:18 pm

Hey peoplesss, welp, quick question this time :) promise lol, I'm extremley shy when it comes to telling guys i like them...how do i tell a guy i like him ??? im tellin him on the phone...help. lol

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What's wrong?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 8:56 pm

Hey everyone. You will probably all say that you don't think im in love because i'm only 13, and you may be right. I love this guy, but I don't know if i'm in love with him. The whole relationship began online when we first started talking. We go to school together so you can stop worrying about that, it wasn't an online only thing. It sort of started with a contest we started. The contest was to see who could grab each other's *butt* the most. Of course I was sort of too chicken, but he wasn't haha. Later on, we started flirting a lot, and he invited me to his house that day with some of his friends. My friend and I were going to a party later that night, so we could only stay for a little while. (she came with me). While we were there, he...

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...wut should i do : (


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 8:51 pm

Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to te...

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Birth Control/Kids


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 8:28 pm

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!!

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boys, boys, boys


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 8:24 pm

I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?

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Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 7:03 pm

okay so ive been goin out with brian for 4 months and i really really really likehim alot i think that i may even b falling in love but im not quite shua cuz i dunno wut love is like buti knoe i luv to spend time with him and i luv to look at him and i luv to talk to him but im scared cuz like i always find my self flirting with everyone! and i hate it! i mean i feel un loyal or w/e wut am i gonna do??! how can i make it stop?

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LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LONG GONE.


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:56 pm

okay. well there was this guy i met in west virgina went i went. and we really hit it off i was friends with his sister at first then we started talking and we like kissed and stuff. so i left and all and he was like i love you and i was all like i love you too.. i admit i still kinda like him but he is TOTALLY over me.. he is always telling me about who he likes or his new girlfriend.. i just miss him alot and i dont know what to do!?! PLEASE HELP!

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im lost w/o him and i keep gettin worse...


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:48 pm

ok ima 15 yr old female and i need sum relationship adivice..me and my exbf chris dated for 4months. i kno that its not a long time at all but we were totally in love. i was his first true love and i was his. we had a long distance relationship and didnt see eachother often but it was all ok bc we were totally in love and realli wanted to be together. well we broke up at the end of august and we talked up until like sept 10th...then sumthing changed and i dont even kno wut. i mean i will always love chris but i do not want to get back wif him bc i cant deal wif the long distance realtionshiop but i do NEED him as a part of my life. stuff has been goin down hill for me since we broke up and i keep gettin worse and worse and i dont kno wut to...

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should i flirt with him


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:37 pm

ok so i like this guy jake and he liked my friend Ashley. I would talk to him and tell him what she said about him and all. And basically Ashley hates Jake now because he lied to her about not going out with this other girl Brittney. I know that Ashley doesn't hate but she does really dislike him. but see i like Jake. And i really want to go out with him and flirt with him too. but if i go out with Jake then ashley is going to get mad and tell other people. That would ruin my rep. and maybe our friendship. I really like him but should i go out with him and continue to flirt with him?

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uH oH!!


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:27 pm

oh mai gosh! okay.. me and thys dude have been talking for a while.. and today he asked me for a kiss and i was like.. "whats mai name? if you can tell me mai name.. ill kiss you.. " and he didnt kno it.. so.. i left.. well..he came up to me later when i was talking to mai *unofficial b/f* and he kissed me and i was like.. OMG.. EEEWWW!!! and now mai b/f is mad and he is too.. idn what to do.. !!

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My Boyfriend is Shy!!


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 4:17 pm

Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!

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This Dude.... lmao!


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 4:03 pm

Okay... theres this guy... That i like talkin to.. and.. yea...
Well... he lives in Texas and i live in Pennsylvania. and he's always like OH I LIKE YOU SO MUCH! I LIKE YOU I LIKE YOU BUT I JUST DONT LOVE YOU.
but when i talk to him on the phone.. like.. the littlest things piss him off.. and it like.. makes me wonder if its like... ya know me.. or.. if he's rilly a girl and just pmsin.
but.. sometymes i piss him off to the point where he's like.. OH I FUCKING HATE YOU. WHY DO I EVEN TALK TO YOU
and.. ME BEIN THE WONDERFULLY FUCKED UP PERSON I AM git all pissed about that and say things i dont mean too..
but like.. i like him and alll
And i've told him i did
but like
it makes me wonder...

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teachers that are fags to me and angle :)


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:57 pm

i have a teacher who is a bich and she is allways yelling at me for nogood reason + i have a male teacher who is a mofo and he alllways picks on me nd calls me a re and make fun of the closes i wear ps goth and he scares me cause he laughs at his own jokes when the holerooom goes siglent it soooooooooooooo gay and theres this countseler whos a girl who got changed in to a boy and hes so mean and he tells me peps take breaks from groups cause me there all fags and theres this boy angel who likes me i think and hes ok butt what do i do everyone els has boyfriend exept me and i m to scared to ask enny one so dose enny one have enny idears ...

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omg


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:50 pm

okay.. today.. we could leave school if we wanted to as long as we had rides.. and i didnt have one.. so i was asking everyone to take me home.. but nobody could.. so i asked this guy im *talking* to to take me home.. and he said no because he was going to his "cousins" house.. so.. i was like.. o well.. okay.. so.. i found a ride with this hot guy from my first period.. and as we were driving i saw the gy im *talking to* in his car.. not going towards his cousins house.. i dont know what i should do? and then when i got home.. his best friend called me and was talking.. and he was like.. " yo.. d.. you wanna talk to ur grl.. ?" and the guy im *talking* to was like.. "mayne.. you kno she aint my grl!" and then ...

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omg


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:48 pm

okay.. today.. we could leave school if we wanted to as long as we had rides.. and i didnt have one.. so i was asking everyone to take me home.. but nobody could.. so i asked this guy im *talking* to to take me home.. and he said no because he was going to his "cousins" house.. so.. i was like.. o well.. okay.. so.. i found a ride with this hot guy from my first period.. and as we were driving i saw the gy im *talking to* in his car.. not going towards his cousins house.. i dont know what i should do?

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the step below


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:22 pm

What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

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Teenage girl in need of help!


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:52 pm

I am 14 old and I masturbate. I need some new ides for it and some object i could us around the house. Please help me out. And how can I make it vibrate and feel like i am really having sex and humpinga a guy, please help.

<3 Me! <3

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ask him...?


Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:49 pm

ok i like this boy... and im not sure if i should make the first move or if i should wait till he does. I want to call him but then im scared that he might not want to talk or hes busy. So, should i call him or wait till he makes the move?
ty for the ppl who answer...

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