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Friends with benefits: are friends with benefits supposed to talk on a normal basis, or just have sex?


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 11:17 pm

Typically speaking, how are friends with benefits supposed to act towards one another? Right now if i were to label me and my guy friend that, it would consist of sex and things leading up to sex. we never hang out (we have 2 times), we talk or text like once or twice a week, and we never know what each other is doing through out the week. anyways, after we finished having sex the other night he asked what we were. i told him i know he doesn't want a relationship going into his senior year of high school, but he considered us "talking". which to me isn't even a real thing. so anyway, i like doing what we do but at the same time i wish we would talk more. my question is, are friends with benefits supposed to talk on a normal basis, or just have sex?

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anal


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 8:31 pm

my boyfriend loves anal. i dont mind doing it either, but i hurts me. so i was wondering if there is anything i can do to make it not hurt. i dont mind doing it cause its kinda hot to me. i jsut need to be able to handle it.

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orgasm.


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 8:26 pm

ok. first off when i have sex with my boyfriend i always get this really good feeling for about 5 seconds. i dont know if this is an orgasm of not. i have squirt before but not alot. so basically. what exactly is an orgasm (full details) and how long does it take to get it.

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kissing


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 6:47 pm

right, i love kissing girl(tung) but i dont no if i do it wrong or if they dont like it. can i get some tips please!??

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skipped a day on birth control


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 6:36 pm

friday i didn't take my bc pill.
i had sex friday night.
we used a condom and pulled out when he came.
i took both friday and saturdays pill on saturday because thats what my sheet told me to do(i remembered i had forgotten friday at the time i was taking saturdays pill)

im pretty sure im okay because we withdrew and used a condom.

so, i'm pretty much okay, right?
bc of condom AND withrdawl.

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fingering a girl


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 6:08 pm

i just wondered how you finger a girl?
i no how too, but how do you do it really good:P???


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Pleasant smell please?


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 5:53 pm

ok. to start off. me and my boyfriend are very sexual. we do alot of stuff. but the one that i am so self consious about, is when he eats me out. i dont smell like "fish" and i do clean down there. he just said its a sweet and sour taste which he doesnt like. i was just wondering. what can i do to make it taste good. i do clean it and take care of it. so all i need is how do i make it where he wants to eat me out all the time.

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penis size


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 5:49 pm

hi, im 14 and my penis is 5.5 inches when errect, is that average?

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i dont know what to do.


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 5:23 pm

about 5 months ago, i started dating this guy. we fell madly in love in no time at all. after 3 months, he told me he needed a break off of the relationship. so i let him.

after a week, he asked me back out. we had been going out for about 1 week or so when we decided to have sex. a week after that, we did it again. we were going out for a little over a month, and he admitted that he had jumped back into the relationship too quickly and that he still wasnt ready.

i was sick and tired of being hurt by him, so my friend and i walked 3 and a half hours, (20 minutes by car) to get to his house so i could talk to him. he said he still loves me and wants to go back out, but not right now. maybe in about a month or so...

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what does this mean?


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 4:43 pm

well, i am 14 years old, female.

i've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the past year and nothing has happened. i went to cuba in july until august 4th.
while i was there i got my period on the 20th.. which is normally when i get my period. but i got it again on the 14th ... i think thats kinda odd.
what could this mean?

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stupid me


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 1:02 pm

the other day my boyfriend and i were messing around without a condom. all he was doing was rubbing the head of his penis on my clit and it didnt actually touch or go in the hole. he said nothing came out of his penis.
im just nervous, what are the chances i could be pregnant? i usually get my period around the end of the month

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bleeding while masturbating


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 12:05 pm

this is a bit awkward but im a girl and a virgin but i sometimes masturbate (not often). so the first few times i was bleeding while doing it. is this bad?

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could i be pregnant


Posted Sunday August 17 2008, 12:03 pm

hi. my question is basically wat the subject states: :could i be pregnant. heres the thing i had unprotected sex with my ex. after i asked him if he has cummed. and he told me no. the sex lasted a while...the problem taht i have, or wat im wondering is, isnt there is possiblity that some of his sperm could have leaked...i mean it was unprotected. in regards to symptoms, i have been having really back back aches for hte pass week, eating alot- spicy food, and mood swing. in a nutshell i quess the important part of my question pertains to the sperm and the possiblity of it leaking.
thanks in advance for answering

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pregnancy


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 11:48 pm

hey ok im really scared Becvause i think i might have gotten this girl pregnant i went to her house at night and i was really drunk we had unprotected sex for seriously like 1 minute and i pulled out because i wanted a condom i wasnt even close to cumming cuz i t wasnt that great..i dont know if i pre cummed and thats what im scared about but i was drunk and u ejaculated earlier that day but like i said i was drunk and was peeing ALOT did this clean out the leftover sperm? and could she pregnant? and she DID take the morning after poill

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Umm..am i pregnant?


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 11:04 pm

Ok. I Had a pregnacy scare a few weeks ago. and a week after i had a penis unprtected in me for like 2 sec. he didnt cum or anything in me. But i had a light period after that. and a could days before my light period i had bad Cramps and my breasts were hurting ** but spotting when ur pregnant may be mistaken for a light period. my breasts dont hurt and i havent felt weired. But im still scared. idk why but i am.. any advice

HELP

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suicide


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 10:13 pm

f 13

i think frequently of commiting suicide and have looked up how to but never actually done it-obviously im typing. i know i need help but i dont know who to tell. my parents wont help, they will think im being dramatic. who should i ask for help from?

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Need Advice on These Issues


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 9:13 pm

Hey Folks:

I need some advice. I don't know how to say this, but will try my best. I've been talking to someone who lately has been having life problems. Here's what's going on with her. Her mom left her when she was about 4 or 5 years old, she's now 19. Her dad treats her like crap and dosen't really care for her and she also has a grandmother that lives with them that also dosen't seem to care about her. That can be very hard on someone for when they need their parents but don't give them the care that they need. Up until last night, she was dating a boyfriend who was pretty abusive to her. They were together for a year. Just last week, I was giving her advice and told her that they needed to break up, well she wou...

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Blowjob


Posted Saturday August 16 2008, 10:55 am

Alright, this is embarrassing. But, I'm curious.
How do you give a blow job? I mean, I get the gist of it.. but I'm curious how to go about giving a fantastic blow job. Help?

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hand job


Posted Friday August 15 2008, 11:40 pm

I'm 18/f and I want to give my boyfriend a hand job next time I see him, but I'm nervous about doing it right(or well) b/c he's quite a bit older and VERY experienced and I've never done anything more than making out. So I would really appreciate it if someone could tell me how to give a good handjob. also how do I know when to stop? and how should I stop? like, just stop suddenly or slow down or what?

the more details the better.

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chlamydia and gonheria??


Posted Friday August 15 2008, 11:16 pm

so my friends been having unprotected sex with at least 3 guys, and she had a papsmeir yesterday and she was diagnosed with chlamydia and gonheria, or however you spell it. she told me they gave her medicine to treat it, but does chlamydia or gonheria ever go away completely?

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