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hand job
I'm 18/f and I want to give my boyfriend a hand job next time I see him, but I'm nervous about doing it right(or well) b/c he's quite a bit older and VERY experienced and I've never done anything more than making out. So I would really appreciate it if someone could tell me how to give a good handjob. also how do I know when to stop? and how should I stop? like, just stop suddenly or slow down or what?
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I suggest you take a look at wikipedia or google "how to give a good handjob," because anyone here who gives instructions can be banned.
I can, however, tell you that either he'll tell you when to stop, or you'll...see...when to stop. Also, I would slow rather than stop. Try to put yourself in his body and imagine what would feel good for you - If you can manage to do the empath thing, you'll go far, and he'll be happy.
Also, you can tell him "I'm a little nervous," or "you might have to help me" and he might enjoy playing teacher. Personally, I hate it, but I know a lot of people that enjoy giving instructions. You could experiment a little and ask him "do you like that?" Just to kind of get a feel for what feels good for him.
Just remember, don't let him pressure you into doing anything you're not comfortable with. Being nervous and being uncomfortable are two very different things - as long as it's something you want to do, you can be nervous. If it's something you don't want to do and you're uncomfortable, that's a bad sign.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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