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Normal Vagina?


Posted Sunday November 16 2008, 6:10 am

Hi Okay I am wondering if someone could tell me what is considered a normal vagina. I am very insecure about mine and I am scared to let my boyfriend in my pants. I have an apt. with the gyno but that's in a month, and we can't wait that long. Is it supposed to smell like fish? If not, what should I do? How can I make it smell better? Do you think he'll care if it isn't normal? But I don't even know what normal is. I am very confused! Please help !

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????


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 1:28 pm

(f-18)
Lately i've had a cold which has been making me think that i may be pregnant, i doupt that i am. but i've been getting bloated and slight sickness feeling that have been hanging around me for a week but their not gust in the morning the'll last all day or come after i eat, is it gust a sort of flue? because now it's affecting my nose and throat.
also my monthely is due next week could it be PMS symptoms? because i have had tht once before.

Thanks for helping :)

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this never happened before!


Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 12:52 am

Okay, well I'm a virgin. But i like to try and get as much pleasure as i can from my guy. And we were together tonight, and he fingered me reallyyy hard. and gave me oral. And we do it all the time, and everythings okay. But when i got home, i was really uncomortable. and i went to the bathroom and looked down. and my left vagina lip was sooo swollen. I'd say like three times bigger than normal. This never happened to me before, I don't know what it could be? And it burns when i go to the bathroom, its really uncomfortable, and rubs up against my leg and really hurts. Its gross, and embarassing. Can anyone tell me what it is? thank you!

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okay so im going to the gyno


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 6:51 pm

for the first time. and i was wondering should you completely shave or trim or what before you go.?

what did you do? and is it as bad as it sounds. i'm going so i can go get on the pill.

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break the hymen?


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 6:15 pm

in 8th grade i had a four hour long surgery. now im 18 and i am still a virgin. they put a catheter in me and im not really sure exactly where they put it, or what type it was but could it possible have broke my hymen or cherry? thanks!

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Talking to your parents


Posted Friday November 14 2008, 11:47 am

How do I talk to my parents about sex and purity? Whenever I bring somthing up with my dad he gets mad at me and with my mom it just gets akward. What can I do? I want to stay pure till marrige, Im thinking about getting a purity ring just as a reminder whenever it starts to go to far with a boy. How can I bring up a conversation with my parents. I have a little sister(11) if that helps at all. Thanks in advance!

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first time


Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 8:42 pm

im 18/f and a virgin-i believe in no sex until after marriage. so dont worry about your advice, im not a little 13 year old about to have sex.

so ive been with this guy for a long time, and i was thinking that i want to have sex with him for my first time. i was just wondering if it would hurt? and will there be blood?

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first time


Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 6:47 pm

first time and it hurt quite a bit. but the thing is it dint feel good. why not? will it ever feel good?

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cant be pregnant, right?


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 9:08 pm

i had sex about 10 days ago for my first time. i am on the pill, but its the 3 month pill, like you take it for 3 months and then the last week of the third month you take the inactive pills for a week, and thats when you have your period. according to my pills i had to start monday, and i did. I've been on my period for 3 days now and i am experiencing all the things i normally do, cramps, mood swings, etc. bu since i did get my period, theres nooo way im pregnant right? my appetite isnt changing, my breasts aren't sore.. but i do get headaches and stuff. however, i am sick with possibly the flu, so thats probably why my head hurts. i will take a test if i see symptoms, but for now im thinking i should be fine, RIGHT? especially with a normal period?
thanks for any advice!! =]

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addiction


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 6:46 pm

i guess you could say im a sex addict, i do it for the pleasure i have yet recently in the past 4 months go a weekend with out it. Im only 17 and have had sex with ten guys, honestly i dont care what people have to say i just shrug it off like its no biggie and im being safe about it. im just wondering do any other girls feel the craving for sex a lot and if so how many guys have you slept with by the time you were 17?

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i was drunk . you can only guess what ima need advice about right?


Posted Wednesday November 12 2008, 4:23 pm

im 15 and basically i was at a party , and we were drinking .. a lot . i've never been so drunk in my entire life . there was this guy there , only a year older that i'd never met before and we were on the couch and out of no where , seriously , he starts making out with me (worst kisser btw, ugh) and then eventually we stopped but then he kept pulling my hand to his fuckin crotch and wouldn't stop so to shut him up i did what he wanted, and that eventually ended up with a blow job. and by morning EVERYONE at the party knew. so humiliating, and of course you have the rumours and shit.. i was just wondering how i can get rid of the embarassment? its been MONTHS now and i still feel like a hoe :(.. oh ima girl btw :P

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Awkward "Norms" on Periods and Sex.


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 10:51 pm

Hey,
I've been in a sexual relationship with my (male) partner for a few months now, and I usually sleep over every weekend- this will be the first weekend that my period crosses over with that date.
What are the norms- do most people have sex while on their period? I don't think I would be comfortable doing that. Do I just tell him I don't want to have sex, or that I am on my period, or what? What do most people do?
Thanks.

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How do I get rid of the smell?


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 9:55 pm

I have an odor coming from my vagina. I believe it's from not urinating or washing as well as I should have (don't worry, lesson learned). I just want to know how I can get rid of the odor without douching (I heard that can cause infertility).

THANKS!

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lose-virginity


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 7:38 pm

i just had sex for the first time and it was painful but the problem is that my lower back hurts advice please.

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fingered now bleeding


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 7:13 pm

last nite my boyfriend fingered me and I havnt been fingered in foreveeerrr. like years.

it was fun but it HURT. after we were done I was reeally sore and thought I was bleeding and sure enough I was. my underwear had blood on it, but it wasn't mucho mucho. am I ok? I looked at it and everything looks normal.and now it's sore. is there anything I can do for the soreness?

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where is it??


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 6:54 pm

alright i need to know where the hymen is. lol. like where?? in the opening? middle? way back there? until i have the answer i will probley be deathly afraid of sex. help!

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deppressed and lonley


Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 5:09 pm

Okay so i've been deppresed for the past couple weeks, not anything like suicide, but I am always sad.
I know this sounds stupid but recently i just finished reading the twilight series and i love how they are in love. But I think i'll never find some one like edward. I will never have a true love :( I will end up being lonley. I am only 14.


Does anyone know a website, or somthing where you can receive counseling or anything for free.

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why do i feel so uncomfortable about this..


Posted Sunday November 9 2008, 8:49 pm

18 yrs old. all i've done is kissed four guys, made out with two and that was two years ago! i really like this guy, we've been hanging out and been friends for three years now! i'm really comfortable with him but he wants to become "sexual" well not really sex but he always wants to finger me. he tries to go down my pants constantly, and up my shirt. it's not that i don't want him to, i just feel, weird? having him do it. like i'll let him go down my pants, and he can feel my vagina but i won't actually let him get to the point of him fingering me or anything like that. and when he tries to go up my shirt, he rubs my boobs i dont really care but i think it would be weird having him touch my nipples. he rubs and smacks my butt thr...

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jackin it off for him.


Posted Sunday November 9 2008, 2:48 pm

Are u supposed to be horny when u do it? because I NEVER am. It's like ok, is it my turn yet?!

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late period...


Posted Sunday November 9 2008, 2:46 pm

my name is Gina and I am 15 years old. this is kind of a dumb question but i am just wondering what the cause of this is. I always mark on my calendar when I have my period so that I'm ready when i have the next one and most of the time, its right on that day or a day after it. well this week my period is 5 days late! it has never been this late before and i have NEVER had sex. i've had all the signs of a period coming but my question is..are periods normally this late or is there something wrong with me?

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