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how to get him to make a move!
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 1:52 am
I've been knowing my boyfriend since august. we FINALLY just started goin out thxgiving.
he's not a virgin.
I am.
I think he's attempted to finger me, but I've stopped him before because we weren't going out yet.
I've finnally did STUFF w/ other ppl before we went out. it was fun. lol.
howww do I get him to do stuff? Just straight up tell him? or when were kissing just go for it? as you know it took him 4 months to ask me out, & also he took forever to even kiss me!!
* and I am comfortable with him & we can talk about anything. this is a little new to me though. thaanks.
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Guy with girlfriend wants to cheat.
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 11:52 pm
Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that.
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doing it the first time?
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 3:44 pm
what are some things i should know before you have sex for your first time? I'm like DEATHLY afaid of getting pregnant, and i know use protection, but still i dont wanna get pregnant. And im not on the pill and i doubt my parents will buy it for me. idk even know if im ready for sex, like ive always wanted to do it, but idk if am, if i dont know if i am ready for it, maybe i shouldnt do it?
15/f
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Shaving
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 10:32 pm
Well okay i have always wnated to know this like do guys like it more when you shave down there or not i am really confused please help D:
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pregnant
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 10:30 pm
Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. Well my last period was 11/9. Well its now 12/9. So its only two days late, but I'm still kinda worried. I mean, mine are late bc I'm not on BC or anything. But I just I'm kinda freaked out. He said we used something everytime. I'm trying not to worry bc I know that can make it late too. I looked up signs and symptoms and everyone I have, (sour breast, tiredness, and late period)it says that other reasons are stress and your about to start. I have only 3 out of 25 signs, so I'm thinking things are on my side. Which stress is true, because its basketball season and I always stress about it, haha. And I also could be starting. I think I'm having cramps but idk.
any help maybe?
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blood after sex
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 9:34 pm
I have a little problem i will go see the doctor soon but my oppointment is not till the 19th.i recently lost my virginty around the month of november i had sex about 7 times never bleed all the first times till the last time .while we were doing towards the end i felt a sharp pain and stopped (we were doing it a bit rough)I went home and woke up and saw about two little drops of blood didnt freak out but two days later theres been blood comming out not heavy but brown blood it comes once in a while im not sure whats that about still happening after a week.
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prego?
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 9:32 pm
ok so i had sex for the first time about 5 days ago, he didnt cum inside me but i no that there is a chance of getting prego from the pre-cum. anyway im just really scared that i might be pregnant, last night i started getting small crmps like i usually do before my period and i have them again tonight, do you think they could be an early sign that im prego? please help asap
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i feel gross asking but
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 8:03 pm
what would give and average 16 year old guy a boner?
thanks :)
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shaving?
Posted Monday December 8 2008, 11:36 pm
so..my guy friend wants to play with me a little. And my vagina is really hairy. and im afraid to shave it, because it gets bumping and really itching, but he likes it smooth and idk what to do. i dont know how to shave it or wax it...
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honest oppion on my writing, please?
Posted Monday December 8 2008, 8:42 pm
i would really appreciate it if i could get some oppinions on my writing.
tell me things i could do better,
actually
if i just down right suck,
go for it and tell me.
and you left. you left almost as easily as you submitted, only with out hesitation. i remember watching you walk. no, run. i remember watching you run, attempting to fleet, as swift and quick as you possibly could. an inconceivable scene layed out for a perplexed mind. i was baffled. But skeptical. I would wait, until you returned, only to take me into your arms. Your strong, warm arms. and confide to me, how sorrowful you were, to leave me here, secluded. I was sure you would return.
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AM I FAT? (I HAVE PICS)
Posted Monday December 8 2008, 10:58 am
honestly tell me if im fat,
raelly, if you say i am i wont get mad, but anyways if you did, i couldnt care less because i really want honest opinions.
http://s474.photobucket.com/albums/rr105/minamala11/
click both pics
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Posted Monday December 8 2008, 12:22 am
So the other dayyy like me and my boii had analllll. OH MY GOD. I pooped a little bit. he has a realllyy big dick. like BIG. is this normal? he kinda just forced it in there. kthx. no really though are you supposed to shit after anal sex? ... and stain the bed
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giving a hand job
Posted Sunday December 7 2008, 4:13 pm
so a few days ago i gave my boyfriend a handjob...we were making out on the couch and he wasn't expecting it cause we've never done it before but i went down his pants and started playing with it but we never stopped making out..is this the right way to do it?
my second question is, he cam after like 30 seconds...i stopped after that...are you suppose to keep going? or does it hurt them to? i felt that it was really short and i kinda wanted to do more but i didn't know.
and any advice overall or personal experiences on this is appreciated :] thank you
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bases
Posted Sunday December 7 2008, 12:26 pm
if you've given a hand job but haven't really been felt up...like puts his hands on me butt and like touches my stomach alot but never really felt me up...what base would that be?
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Pregnant
Posted Sunday December 7 2008, 1:02 am
I am 17 years old and I have a child who is going to be 2 in January. Well I have had unprotected sex with no sign of pregnancy neg. tests and everything. Well I have been dating my boyfriend/ fiance for a while now and we have unprotected sex often and if I am pregnant I dont mind but tests are always neg. I havent taken one in a while but I was always tired and smelled onions for a while and that is starting to go away. Now I feel like i am going to throw up but i don't and i have to go to the restroom ALL the time. I dropped my boyfriend off at 8;45 ish and had to go to the bathroom but didnt get to until like 9:20 then one more time by 10. then 4 times from 10-12. and its like i have to go so bad i can hardly hold it. Is it signs of pr...
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Lost Virginity?
Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 9:39 pm
female/14
so me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex yesterday. im not too sure if we actually did it or not.
people tell me that it supposed to hurt like crazy, and the pain would last me 2-3 days. Although i felt the pain yesterday when we were doing it, I feel none today. is that normal?
also when he pulled out, there was blood on the condem. Now i heard of the expression "popped the cherry" and I am wondering if my cherry did pop, or if that was the starting of my period. and how long is the bleeding supposed to lasts?
thanks for helping.
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sex and abortion
Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 2:02 am
im 19/f and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We've had sex quite a few times but we just had a very intense talk recently and he has decided that we won't be having sex until my views change. Im personally against abortion, but thats just me. Other people can do it, I just wouldn't be able to handle it. When we have sex we use condoms and Im on the pill. He's just so worried that something will go wrong and i'll end up pregnant and we both arent ready for kids. I just don't think its fair that I have to change my beliefs to make love to my boyfriend. We're pretty much 100% safe. If anything did go wrong, I'd pick up some plan B the next morning. He's just so afraid we'll be that unlucky 0.1%. I don't know what to do...
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blowjob
Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 12:47 am
do blowjobs taste good? what is the closest thing you can describe the taste to?
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handjob
Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 12:39 am
this was my first time ever giving a handjob and im scared because once he cam i stopped...we were both wearing clothes so is it possible to me to get pregnant?
also ...are you suppose to stop after they cum? or keep going? cause like he was wearing pants my hand was just down them and i didn't want him to get cum all over his pants
any advice?
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am i overthinking this?
Posted Friday December 5 2008, 1:42 pm
hiiiiii everyone :)
well im 18 years old, female.
i have a good friend, well pretty much my best friend and his name is ben. i've known him for about four years now, and i've always always had a thing for him but he use to have a girlfriend so i kept those feelings to myself and well, they never did go away. just about 6 months ago ben tried to get with me, and it pretty much came out of nowhere, i was stunned. he didn't have a girlfriend, but he was trying to get down my pants and everything. i'm still a virgin, never really done anything past kissing, making out and getting felt up so obviously my reaction to him was "no!" i've also never had a boyfriend before, it's like when i really like someone and i find out t...
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