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Question Posted Monday December 8 2008, 12:22 am

So the other dayyy like me and my boii had analllll. OH MY GOD. I pooped a little bit. he has a realllyy big dick. like BIG. is this normal? he kinda just forced it in there. kthx. no really though are you supposed to shit after anal sex? ... and stain the bed

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Peeps answered Monday December 8 2008, 10:35 pm:
First off, anal sex is very risky and there are many dangers of participating in such activities.

Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are HIV, anal cancer (seriously), typhoid fever, and various diseases associated with the infectious nature of fecal matter or sexual intercourse in general. Among these are: Amoebiasis; Chlamydia; Cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; Giardiasis; Gonorrhea; Hepatitis A; Hepatitis B; Hepatitis C; Herpes simplex; Human papillomavirus (HPV); Lymphogranuloma venereum; Pubic lice; Salmonellosis; Shigella; Syphilis; Tuberculosis. Using condoms will decrease these risks; however, they do not protect 100%.

Physical damage to the rectum and anus are serious and hemorrhoids, anal fissures, and rectal prolapse may occur. Damage is more likely if communication is poor or if technique is clumsy; condoms do not help protect against this sort of damage. Basically, if you don't know what you're doing or you end up doing something wrong by accident you may end up in the emergency room having surgery or stitches.

You need to ask yourself some questions:
Can you imagine being rushed to the emergency room? Who would take you? How embarrassed would you feel? Can you deal with paying for them to sew you back up properly? Heck, can you imagine trying to use the toilet after such an experience?

Small tears that can happen during anal sex can easily become infected. The membrane inside the rectum is VERY thin and fragile so it tears very easily. Even if there seems to be no complications the tears can be very irritating and can become inflamed later on. It doesn't matter how "gentle" your partner is, your will probably suffer some tearing and possibly even some bleeding. It can also become uncomfortable for you to pass a stool afterward.

It is also very easy to get a vaginal infection from anal intercourse if your partner enters the vagina after being in the anus. Even if he knows not to enter the vagina afterward, he may accidentally slip. The infection would be bacterial can actually do major damage to you--rendering you infertile. Really, anal sex is more likely to result in an infection than vaginal sex would.

As a note, the vaginal infection could be something simple like a yeast infection, but is usually a bacterial infection. If left untreated, these sorts of infections can cause serious problems later in life and can also render you completely infertile.

It's also common for urinary tract infections to occur after anal sex. Yes, they are curable but they can become serious if left untreated and are, overall, rather uncomfortable to deal with. Condom usage would help your partner to avoid this complication.

Incontinence has also been reported from engaging in anal sex. Basically this means that the anal sphincter loosens up from the activity. This also means that anal leakage can become an issue for the receiving end. It also may mean the inability to completely control your bowels when needed.

Sex doesn't show love is you think about it. I know it may seem like a loving activity; however, prostitutes have sex with random people every single day and don't feel a bit of feeling toward their customers. Show your love by doing something non-harmful, non-sexual and something immensely special. If you do something unique then it'll be something great to look back on in your old age and say, "Remember when...!" and you can tell grandchildren and such.

Many girls on here claim it hurts a lot. There really isn't a way to make it not hurt because it is endangering your body. Your body sends signals of pain because it is being HURT and you do not want to hurt your body. Serious problems come out of things like this--wanting to do something special with a partner and winding up on a hospital bed for a week while the doctor tries to sew them back together properly.

I hope you become better informed before making a serious decision like this so you don't put yourself into a harmful situation.

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Matt answered Monday December 8 2008, 8:09 pm:
Your body is not designed for anal. Is your body designed to get punched in the stomach repeatedly? No.



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Continuing with your anal extravaganza will result in the above. Have fun!

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alexandrarenee1234 answered Monday December 8 2008, 7:24 pm:
Yes its normal, but whether it happens or not depends onthe person

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