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I need advice
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 11:02 pm
I've been married for 20 years & never have, and never will cheat on my husband.
A single younger man where I work started flirting with me. He basically expressed his attraction towards me, which was extremely flattering. I let him know right away that I would never cheat on my husband. He seemed to accept this & we have continued to commincate throught our email at work & a couple of coffee breaks.
I have really enjoyed the flattery - I'm 48, he's 37. Once I realized that he really wasn't just trying to get me into bed & truly liked me as a person - I felt great.
He's extremely careered oriented & doesn't have time for a comitted relationship at this point.
I just don't underst...
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Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 9:52 pm
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guilty
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 7:02 pm
I go out alot and when I do I tend to hook up with guy friends or friends of friends, casually. I've realized that I have never not felt bad or guilty at some point about any of my hook ups.
I may not feel bad about all of them now but I've definetly felt bad at somepoint. I even feel bad about hook ups I've had with boyfriends.
I don't know what to do about this.I don't feel slutty, because I know I'm not, but I do feel badly.
Should I stop hooking up with people? Try as I might that's never too easy for me. What do I do?
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wat should i do about him
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 5:55 pm
im 13/f and i like a guy that is 16. i have known him since i was born and he was my sisters friend, but then we moved to dallas and now he still lives in seattle. so i just saw him a couple of days ago and now i like him ALOT and like idk wat to do. ive known him my whole! life! and like...he has a gf in california and hes had her for like a few yrs and like they see eachother every month! and like i want to move back to seattle not only b/c of him but my old friends and stuff too. so is there ne thing i can do to like make him like me or stay in touch. BTW i dont have his sn but my sister will get it but like i dont want to tlk to him on that b/c i never really talked to him. HELP!
p.s this is my sn if you can im me for more help! ilove50centmore and that is on aim! plzz help!!!
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...love?...
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 4:42 pm
so these 3 guys like me and all want to marry me. i haven't known any of them for a REALLY long time..but i know them enough to know all their little secrets and stuff...and i know which one i want to marry...but how do i tell the other ones without hurting them?...
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Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 2:42 pm
does anyone know if you are supposted to stop at a certain time when giving a guy a handjob .. and is there such a thing as blue balls? thanks<33 i rate high!
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Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 2:41 pm
hey i was just wondering if anyone knew that when giving a blow job if you are supposted to stop when he cumms? and how do you know when he's going to cumm.. and how can i give him the blowjob the best way.. like how do guys like it the most? haha well i rate high! please help <33
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Dose he like me?
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 2:29 pm
I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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is this right?
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 1:47 pm
well, i've known this guy for about 2-3 years, and he's one of the sweetest guys i've ever known. i can talk to him about anything, and everything. and if i asked or wanted the world, he would give it to me. he means a lot to me, and i dont want to lose him. im not sure if he likes me, or is just being a good friend. he calls me hun, sweetheart, and his little princess. i know what you're probably thinking, whats the problem, why not just ask him out or something. well heres the problem... i'm sixteen (almost seventeen), and hes, twenty-three. is this right? i dont think my parents would have a problem with it, because they really like him. but im afraid my other friends/relatives will,because of such the difference in age. i really like hi...
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Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 1:26 pm
Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads?
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how to make the move
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 1:24 pm
ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a week now and hes really shy. i highly doubt he's ever going to kiss me so i decided to make the move. but how? how should i kiss him? i rate 5's. hurry with the advice!
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i like this boy..
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 1:06 pm
im going to a sweet 16 tonight and i like this boy but hes shy and hangs out with another crowd...i talk to one guy from his "crowd" so maybe he can talk to him for me? is that a good idea? any other ways on how can i get him to slow dance with me?
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Break ups
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 11:53 am
I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?
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waterfalls..a romantic place to kiss
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 10:55 am
so im thinking of kissing a boy by the waterfalls we hang out at..any suggestions on what i can do to make the move..anything to say or anything to do?
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boyfrienddds ahh
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 10:07 am
so me and my boyfriend have been broken up for about amonth we talk sometimes i mean we are still friends and we do talk n all that but the reason we broke up was to giv ehim space n stuff n so thats what im tryign to do just kinda let hi mcome to me if he wants to talk uk.. well theres this other guy a year older than me totaly diff grade and he is in love with me he drives me anywheres i want to go but liek when i hang out with him its just not there all i can think of is my old boyfriend and dont wanna boyfriend for the summer unless its my old boyfriend but i dont think this new older boy gets it he just always wants to hang out and always be with me and ya sure ill hang out and hes a great guy hes like perfect everythign a girl would...
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Stuck in the middle I rate 5's
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 4:39 am
Please don't skip this cause it's long. It's good and here I go okay I have this boyfriend that left for the summer well technically were not really going out but we didn't break up we just decided it wouldn't work out long distance. We were just going to get back together once he came back well the thing is since he left we've been going through some rough times I really do love him and were crazy about eachother we've been going out for eight months. So here's the problem this other guy came into play which happens to be a really good friend of mine and we were talking and he wants to go out again. And please don't be like then you really don't love the other guy if your even thinking about dating another guy cause c'mon girls we all do ...
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He doesn't feel the same way
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 3:48 am
OK so there is this guy I really like and I told him that I had some feelings for him well a few nights after that he starts to flirt with me and stuff and saying he wouldn't mind if I held his hand or kissed him than the next day I get an email saying "I have you blocked, sorry, I don't really want to talk or meet with
you.. it will jsut cause too many problems for me, it's not you. I
just don't go with al the stress, find someone else to love, I am not
the one for you.. sorry about all this, but this is how I want it.
Maybe in a while we can be just friends.. we shall see." and i emaild him back saying that its ok and i dont mind but when i check to see who all deleted me off msn messenger he was on...
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im lost without him
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 3:34 am
ok so theres this guy named kevin who i've liked since 2 years ago. We dated for like 6 months and i honestly have to say i loved him. I miss him alot, its so hard to realize were actually over. He says he misses me too, and talks about driving down to see me. but it never happens. My birthday i didnt even have a party because he was suposed to come and take me out. And he didnt even show up. He called the next day and told me he couldnt that he forgot. It was really upseting. He does live like 2 hours away or so, and i know it really shouldnt be worth it, but for you girls who know what love is actually like , its hard to try n "forget about him". I used to have so many problems at home and he was the one i could talk to. At one ...
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Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 2:36 am
okay, so i'm really confused because there's this guy i really like. but he has a girlfriend. see most people would just be like oh, he's taken whatever, ya know? but the thing is, me and him have been friends for a long, long time so we talk even more than him and his girlfriend talk. so that wouldn't be a problem in most cases but the confusing thing is, he knows that i like him and he says that he likes me back and hes ALWAYS flirting w. me like crazy. so then when i asked him about if he liked me why was he dating this other girl, he said that he liked her too but that when they broke up that "you never know what might happen" so at first i was like okay ill just wait but now they've been goign out for a long time and it doesn...
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Does he like me or is he just messin around?
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 2:05 am
This guy, I don't know if he's just messing around with me or if he likes me or not, but everytim I walk by him, he always says the samething, which is the first time we met. He'd even yelled it out across the field if he catches me.
And when he's sitting down he does the samething but after that he'd look at me for long periods of time.
After Spring Break he actually ran up to me just to say the same thing (he usually only says that when I walk by), and his friends would laugh at him and yell out to him that that was 4 months ago. His friend even told me he's single.
What his friends also do is point out my presence when he's not paying attention.
But I asked my friend who sits w...
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