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is this right?
well, i've known this guy for about 2-3 years, and he's one of the sweetest guys i've ever known. i can talk to him about anything, and everything. and if i asked or wanted the world, he would give it to me. he means a lot to me, and i dont want to lose him. im not sure if he likes me, or is just being a good friend. he calls me hun, sweetheart, and his little princess. i know what you're probably thinking, whats the problem, why not just ask him out or something. well heres the problem... i'm sixteen (almost seventeen), and hes, twenty-three. is this right? i dont think my parents would have a problem with it, because they really like him. but im afraid my other friends/relatives will,because of such the difference in age. i really like him, and he's basically what i've been looking for. and i think im in love with him. can you please help me out?
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A wise person once told me that boy best friends make the best boy friends. Don't worry about your other friends and relatives. I would talk about it with your parents, however. They still legally own you and with good reason. If they trust him, then he's perfect. It'll just complicate things way too much if you try to sneak around them.
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To big an age gap for now. He can get thrown in jail for dating you at his age. When you're 18 and he is almost 30. That still sounds a little wild. I think if a guy that age can't communicate with someone his own age he definitely has a problem somewhere. Stay away from the guy. I think you will only get hurt...and he can go to jail. He has to know this too, doesn't make him sound so sweet to me. Sorry.
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well i would just make sure that he isnt trying to get something from you but after 3 years i think thats not the case so i say just ask him or bring up the subject of a higher relationship with him and hopefully youll get the answer your looking for the age thing shouldnt matter much just as long as you know how people can be out there in the world and how they can talk but if you love him then all of the things people say wont matter
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hhhhheeeeeeyyyyy
well...if you really love him, then it shouldnt matter wat other people think...one of my friends is going out with a 17(almost 18)yr old, and i personaly dont care b/c he's one of the nicest guys ive ever met...its kinda lik the huntchback of notredame....except age instead of beauty...if you feel its the right thing to do, then go 4 it
hope
love
god bless
~danni<3~
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one of my saying is "age aint nothing but a number".you should always remember that.two little numbers dont compare to love.just follow your heart.oh and about all the haters,dont trip on them.at the end of the day its all about you and your boo
Holla at me
Love.Live.Life...............Peace.Love.Unity
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i think that you should ask him out if you think that it would be ok with your parents. i wouldnt worry about your friends and if your family has a problem with it, oh well, it who you want to be with.
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suzanner
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Well personally, if you feel like he is the right guy then go for it! Age shouldnt matter; and if you truly care about him other peoples opinions shouldn't help you make your decision.... :)
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