so me and my boyfriend have been broken up for about amonth we talk sometimes i mean we are still friends and we do talk n all that but the reason we broke up was to giv ehim space n stuff n so thats what im tryign to do just kinda let hi mcome to me if he wants to talk uk.. well theres this other guy a year older than me totaly diff grade and he is in love with me he drives me anywheres i want to go but liek when i hang out with him its just not there all i can think of is my old boyfriend and dont wanna boyfriend for the summer unless its my old boyfriend but i dont think this new older boy gets it he just always wants to hang out and always be with me and ya sure ill hang out and hes a great guy hes like perfect everythign a girl would want n i wanna like him but something just wont let me and idk what it is.. HELLPPP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? distinguishable answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:04 pm: Awww, hey sweetie! Hmmm, even though a guy may seem perfect, there's always gonna be the guy who's perfect for YOU. (sounds cliche, I must admit) But just hang in there, and tell the older guy exactly how you feel -- make sure he knows that you`re still trying to get over your old boyfriend and that you don`t really want a relationship right now. Let him know that you luv him as a brother though and you would really like hanging out with him a lot this summer!! Who knows, you might even get over your old boyfriend and start liking this guy! Just like whatever happens happen ; I hope it all works out for you! <3 [ distinguishable's advice column | Ask distinguishable A Question ]
MHScutie87 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 12:21 pm: it sounds like your having a very difficult time getting over your ex. if you still feel that something may be there between the two of you, then talk to him and tell him how you feel.
if you dont like this new guy, then dont keep letting him take you places because he may get the wrong impression and think you like him like he likes you. tell him that your not completely ready for a new b/f. hopefully he'll understand and ya'll can still hang out as friends.
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