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Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 11:51 am

ok so there is this guy i like and he says he likes me to and sometimes when i send him a text message or something he doesnt answer like he is ignoring me but when im with him in person he is all over me what is going on???im confused??what should i do??

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slowdancing


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 11:23 am

how do u slowdance with a guy? in gradeschool we would just put our arms around his neck and he would put his hands on our waist, and we had to keep like a foot apart lol. how do you slow dance in highschool?

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Can't stop thinking about her...


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 9:06 am

13/m I experienced love this summer and I hate it! No, it wasn't infatuation! I know infatuation, this is true love! Maybe I should start from the beginning:
It all started in science class. Or teacher was getting pissed so he decided to assign our seats boy/girl/boy/girl. Of course, I was paired up with the hyperactive freak, because that's just my luck. Immediately, I think to myself, "It's going to be a loooong year."
But she wasn't so bad after all. Time passed, we became friends. The teacher let us change seats, but the people in the front had to sit in the back and vice versa, and it still had to be boy/girl. For simplicity, we just sat next to each other all 3 times that happened.
Everyone made fun of m...

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Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 8:29 am

Okay well Theres this guy that I really like ALOT. and well during like april may and june we were pretty much together (But not dating because he thinks its just a label, but I considerd us dating ;]) and well I liked this other guy more than him (well thats what i though) and I told him , and we sorta just stopped being togehter, we were still realllly good friends and everything and we still hung out..but now I started thinking about everything we did together and I miss him so much..and I told him that, and he told me that he thought of me as a really good friend.. but then the next day we hung out and he hugged me (like he did when we were together) and then he told me he liked me, and like the next week he was like i dont like you..an...

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Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 2:31 am

how do i put a layout on myspace. i rate high for helpful answers. thanks for the help!

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him


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 2:11 am

there is this guy. lets call him herman. well, me and herman went out for a year and i loved him deeply the whole time. he was my first and only love that ive ever really had. anyways, we broke up last year in the worst possible way. we dont talk or anything and i see him a lot in the halls between classes. he is the only person i think about even if i am going out with some other guy. i mean, he is the only reason i live. sometimes i wish that we had never met because i hurt so much. yeah well, i havent got over him and im pretty sure that im not gonna get over him for a long while. he used to be my best friend. my first real kiss. anyways, i dream about him every night. and i mean EVERY night. but i dont know why. i wish there was a way t...

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i so need help


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 1:57 am

well ok here's the story..me n this 1 guy have been 2gether about 2 months ago but not as going out we were just 2gether that kind of a thing. i wanted him 2 ask me out but he just got dumped by his ex n he felt lonely so he was w/ me, i didnt care bcuz i really like this guy. after a week he stoped talking to me n i tried getting over him, right when i said im completely over him i saw him infront of my school n all those feelings came bak. i cryed when i came home. then 2night i saw him again n he huged me but he acts like nothing ever happened n it bothers me. i think he likes 1 of my friends but i like him a lot, i want 2 get over him but i cant. im usually a heart breaker or the big flirt but now im hurting. i dont know what 2 do n i really need help..plzzz!!

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How can I get him to ask me out?


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 1:14 am

There's this guy from work, and I'm pretty sure he likes me and/or is somewhat attracted to me... we're going to go and see The Corpse Bride about two weeks from now.. and he kissed me.. I just want to know how I can make this not just a 'friends with benefits' type of thing. How do I get him to officially ask me out, or tell me his feelings for me (whatever the heck they are..)?

15/f. (He's 16.. if that matters..)

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taking breaks


Posted Sunday October 2 2005, 12:59 am

Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month and a half, and I really have fallen in love with her. She says she has too and I believe her. Now shes says though that she wants to take like a break for maybe about a week. Now during this break were suppose to be pretty much still going out, but with like no strings attached. She wants to make sure that if given the chance we wouldn't do anything with someone else or we could and see if we still felt the same way about each other. I understand why she wants to do this becuase we've both been done wrong by other gfs/bfs. She just wants to make sure the relationship lasts before diving in head first. I agreed to do this, but still want other people's opinions.

John
Age:16
Gender:male

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 11:28 pm

how do you know if a guy likes you?..and what are some wayys you could get him to like you?! thxx

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Weird day..


Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 11:19 pm

Well today was kind of weird (obviously). I was at a certain rehearsal for something and there was this one girl. She's older than me but i'm not sure how much. I'm 15/f and bi. Well i thought she was looking at me several times and i just got this weird impression. It was almost like she was looking at me in that certain way, ya know??? I swear i could just be paranoid because we didnt' even say a word to each other. But whenever i looked at her i had shivers running all down my back. I couldn't even focus. I have no clue what to do or anything. I must be paranoid but what do y'all think?!?!?! Please give me helpful answers you guys. I rate!! Thanks

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 10:54 pm

Ok, well, this will probably seem stupid to most people... but there's this guy in my grade (8th) and last year he told my friend that really liked me and he was really sweet to me and then I started to really like him and he asked me out and we "went out" for a while but the thing is, we hardly really talked. then i guess he just told his and my friends that he didn't really like me that much anymore and nobody ever actually broke up with the other one, but we just kind of broke up in a weird way. Well anyways, then it became awkward around him. He started being kind of rude to me. Then, during like the last week of school, we kind of started talking again and it was a lot of fun we started flirting a lot- like he took my sweatsh...

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 9:51 pm

hey! ok to start off, im 14/f. ok im bi, and no its not just a stage im going through. anyway, theres this girl (a.b.) thats gay, and i have basketball with her (it's a class for us).. and shes really nice to me.. me and her are good friends.. but we just met this year.. and one day at softball practice (i play softball also) she was there with her friend (c.h.) whos on the team also and i was about to hit but i was talkin to them first and the people playing in the field hollered next batter get up there.. well c.h. was like dont holler at her shes my friend and a.b. was like yeah shes my friend too.. well today we had a softball game and she was there.. well she was staring at me like the whole game.. when i was warming up she was staring...

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porn


Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 9:43 pm

is it ok if your boyfriend looks at porn? i thought it was, like i had nothing wrong with it. but today i found out that he sent a message to some girl on myspace asking for pictures of her "down below" is this ok? should i say something to him about it? what should i do? it was some girl that was not from around here.. and you know how like there's a lot of girls on myspace that only have like naughty pictures on there? it was one of those girls. i don't know what to think :-/

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a boy


Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 9:33 pm

okay so i have a lot of boy problems. one of them is like there is a guy from camp and like since camp enedded we became rele close, and like we would also talk to each other. thn we both found out that we liked each other but he didnt want to go otu with me becasue i lied to him about liking him. but i had to lie to him because i didnt want to get hurt incase he didnt like me. so like then we are gonna have a reunion for camp and like we planned on hooking up, excpet i dont kno if i should hook up with him becasue like my friends say that he is just using me but i dont think so. like my boobs are rele big for my age and i asked him if it was becasue of that and he said "npo, they are like pickles on a sandwich. you dont need them but ...

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 8:27 pm

what so you do when you are bi you think you like you bffl who is straight its relle killing me and i dont know what to do...yah 2 guys one bi one not the other doesnt know that i like him :'(

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 7:40 pm

i really like randy, but my friend becca likes him too. randy has never really had a girlfriend before..except in 7th grade, but that hardly counts. the other day in gym, i was pretty much all over him and he was flirting right back. i think he might like me, but what do i do about becca? she was in my gym class and she asked me later if anything was going on between me and randy. i told her no...cause nothing is..yet. she liked him before me..so i feel really bad. we've been best friends since 3rd grade and i dont want to lose her. any advice?

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 7:31 pm

Theres this guy, lets call him.. Jordan. Well Jordan is REALLY cute. except he goes out with this other girl.. shes not too nice and she doesnt dress well and so on and so fourth.. anyway how do i get him to notice me? Im not going to break them up because thats stupid and mean, but how do i get him to notice me? Can I talk to him without flirting but KINDOF flirting?

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Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 5:24 pm

well theres this guy.... and last year i used to like not get along with him but now hes in my art this year and its weird but i like him now.... i know its odd but i sat next to him and we talk all the time and he got moved cuz of it now he moves back all the time when theres other seats he could sit in.. and im wondering if he likes me bak....i have no clue....plus everyone always says i like him and he likes me (just messin around though) and how we make a cute couple and i have no clue what to do...please help

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friends wife is total bitch


Posted Saturday October 1 2005, 5:16 pm

I have a question that is really complicated. One of my best friends is married to a woman who is not only a complete bitch, but they have nothing in common. She is ten years older than him and chain smokes and has a drinking and gambling problem. It is her second marriage and his first. She is a grandmother, her two grown children are both herion addicts and have stolen thousands of dollars from his credit card. She is verbally obusive to him and makes him miserable. She never makes any effort to look nice for him, she dresses terribly and even told him once that she didnt give a shit what she looked like and didnt care what anyone thought.
There is nothing going on between me and my friend, he knows I'm a virgin and saving mysel...

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