Theres this guy, lets call him.. Jordan. Well Jordan is REALLY cute. except he goes out with this other girl.. shes not too nice and she doesnt dress well and so on and so fourth.. anyway how do i get him to notice me? Im not going to break them up because thats stupid and mean, but how do i get him to notice me? Can I talk to him without flirting but KINDOF flirting?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Saturday October 1 2005, 9:36 pm: I don't think you understand things well with this situation. Do you think including what Jordan's girl looks like will help with your answer any better? Not with me. Hes your crush, so its obvious that you think the girl he goes out with isn't that pretty. What if there was a girl who liked a guy you were with and described you the way you described her? You'd probably be upset and wouldn't think it mattered what you looked like to her, because it doesn't. What I'm saying is that it doesn't matter what this guy's girlfriend, or the girl he goes out with is pretty or not. He likes her. Now, I'm not sure if you mean he goes out with her as in they are together as boyfriend and girlfriend, or they just have fun and are friends. My guess would be that they are together. You should stop picking on a guy that has a girlfriend, again, picture yourself as this girl. Would you want a girl picking on your guy? No way. You'd feel bad. If you flirt with him, you'll get noticed in a bad way. I don't mean to be so picky, but it does not and will not ever matter what his girlfriend looks like. Its his taste.
xomegaroni answered Saturday October 1 2005, 9:05 pm: don't try any flirting at all. yeah i see you don't like her, but if you were her you wouldn't want some girl doing that to you, yet again you want to get your feelings out to him. give them time, because it's only fair. what you can do though is have one of your friends mention it, like a rumor kind've to get him thinking you like him, because then maybe he'll make a decision about it. you should really stay out've though until he's single. you guys could be good friends though.
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