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Posted Friday October 14 2005, 6:58 am

we're goin to the movies on friday and i wanna get close to my gf. any tips? i'm gonna kisser too.

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first kiss..


Posted Friday October 14 2005, 6:45 am

well my boyfriend matthew and i have been going out for three weeks. hes 15 im 14.
ive never had my first kiss :(
but EVERYONE thinks that i have.
he has had his first kiss.
so he thinks its weird that i dont want to kiss him yet.
i dont know how to kiss.
like.. friday he was like, we need to stop being shy or whatever and we kissed, but it wasnt a long makeout session or something because i had to go like right that second. so yeah, my first "makeout" i have no idea what to do.

* taken shy girl

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in love with 2 guys...long term boyfriend?or high school cru


Posted Friday October 14 2005, 4:59 am

I am a 25 year old female with a huge life decision to make.I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And i love him with all my heart, he's pretty close to being perfect. Hes kind, caring, smart, athletic, he's the whole package. And of chorse im not satisfied. My problem is, i still have a crush on my high school crush...i know it sounds silly because high school was 8 years ago for me, but yes there has not been a single day since high school where i have not thought about him in some way. After high school we kept in touch at college for about a year, and after that we kinda lost touch. But that didnt stop me from thinking about him all the time. I always compared every guy to him, and every guy i dated i always told myself ...

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Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 10:02 pm

I'm going out with someone but there's this other guy that liked me since october then in july out of nowhere said he didnt like me anymore and it really hurt me and i never really got over him and now he says he likes me still a little bit but he likes a girl that has been my friend since i was 2 but shes all over every guy including him and it hurts for me to see them together and sometimes makes me cry even though im with someone else but i also love him too wat do i do?!PLEASE help!

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i need serious help wit this question


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 9:35 pm

hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx

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ugh...boys suck


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 8:56 pm

Well heres my problem theres this one guy lets call him Joe. Well i've known Joe since like the 7th grade (im in 10th grade now) and i've always had a huge crush on him! it sux. well i think he knows and he's always like hinting at me that he likes me too. But, i dont want to get attached or become his girlfriend (he's asked me before) because he's got a rep of breaking girls hearts. But, i cant get him outta my head and i wanna get over him. but its so hard! what can i do to get over him? or should i go out with him and see what happens? but i dont want to get my heart broken i've been through it a lot. someone plz help<3

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I wonder if he likes me?Help me out here.


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 8:49 pm

Ok. I like to answer questions but i can't figure out this one. I am a 13 year old female. I really like this guy at my school and I think he likes me. I've asked him out before but he said maybe and then never answered me. Last year he went out with a slu* and she used him and now he doesn't want to go out with anyone. Do you think he still likes me? He says that i am really hott but he didn't get over the slu* from last year. We are like BFF's! What do you think? I need your help.

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PLEASE HELP.. will rate anyone a 5


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 8:23 pm

just a simple question-o.
how do i flirt? my three best friends always flirt and make out like 24/7 but i havent been KISSED yet. ;[ it might be my looks, but idk. i hate the cliche "smile and wink" so dont tell me that. think new 2005 ways to get a boy, haha but not get laid. kids im only 13.
when i go places with 2 of my best friends, we go with these guys and they ALWAYS flirt with my friends not me. i mean this twig skinny guy flirts with me and some wannabe goth guy does but ew. come on. i mean maybe its because my friends are punk and all guys like punk rock chicks or what?
h - e - l - p. <3

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Bi-polar boy?


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 8:14 pm

Hello. . .19/f here with a problem...

I met this guy about 2 months ago. We've already had sex, and we act like a couple to an extent. . spending a lot of time with each other, kissing/cuddling/ect, talking on the phone for hours... He has told me that he cares for me and loves me.

He's afraid to be in a relationship, though, because his last (very serious) girlfriend cheated on him with his brother and is now pregnant with his brother's baby. He doesn't trust anyone. He has admitted to me, though, that he holds back some of his feelings for me.

Some days, he's very sweet to me and wants to be around and is very affectionate. Other days, he's kind of cold and shuts me out a little bit. Either w...

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Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 8:09 pm

its not really love life but in Virginia The OC comes on channel 14 but here lately Baseball has been on in place of it. I was wondering if anyone knew if it was moved to a different day or channel or something?

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Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 7:16 pm

This question has probably been asked a million times.. it's one of those "do you think he likes me" questions. lol. There's this guy in my math class & I think he might like me but I'm not sure. He gives me a hug almost everyday & he's very sweet to me. He calls me babe and doll. He gave me his phone number and also said he wanted to take me out sometime. And one day he took one of my ponytail holders from my wrist & told me he was going to wear it that night during the game (he plays football) & he did. He also told me he saw me at the game. He also just looks at me for no reason & tries to make me laugh. He's sending all the right signals it seems like but I don't know.. I went though some of this with the l...

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Is he just not that into me?


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 6:51 pm

a guy that I like keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll he be the kindest loving man you'll ever meet and spoil me rotten, and other days I'll phone him up and he can be rude and downright mean.
I remember reading the book He's just not that into you, it said if a guy really likes you he would never be mean.
Do you think I have a chance with him?

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Helps appreciated


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 6:27 pm

okay im a really pretty girl and some guys like me but the ones i want i cant get the attention i want from them can anyone help me w. this?

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big boobs!!! lol


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 6:07 pm

Ok well I have really big boobs and I am skinny and so ya I am considered hot...but see a lot of guys that I talk to only like me because I am "hot" and so I don't know how to get a guy that likes me for me and not just my body..because all the guys just look at my boobs and stuff...How do I get the guys to like my personality and not just my looks?? I want guys and girls to answer this...THANKS!!!

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why not?


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 6:07 pm

I dont understand why guys dont like me. I am not really that ugly. i am smart. i am involved in a lot of after school activities. i also do a couple sports. i am nice to everyone. he acts like he likes me (some things he says). but then he doesnt act like he likes me. y doenst anyone like me?

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Boyfriend trouble!


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 5:32 pm

This is the problem! My parents don't let me have a boyfriend(but I have one anyways.) Now my boyfriend lives quite far away, and i never get to see him. Should I break up with him or stay together with him. What should I do?

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He is trying to make me jealous!


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 5:10 pm

Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!

Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D

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hard to get


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 4:38 pm

how do u play "hard to get" to a guy you like..?

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falling appart


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 4:28 pm

I don't know what's wrong with me but i always feel like i have to cry. I don't think its depression. Then again it could be. Maybe it's just that something's missing. I get annoyed fast, when i would just let it pass before. And eveybody seems to be agitating me. Maybe it's that i'm lonely, or that im just sad. Can someone help me?
sad and falling down*

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Regret blows.


Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 4:23 pm

All I can think is 'if I did this differently, then it wouldn't be like this" and how much it hurts to see him flirting with this girl he said he liked at the begining of the school year. He's the only guy I want and the only guy I didn't get tired of after a few weeks. And it's all my fault things are like this now. =[. Why do I always do this? I always push people away. It's always good BEFORE I start going out with anyone; when we're 'friends with feelings for each other', but once we're going out, I screw things up. I act differently, shy actually, because atleast when you're friends with them but still like them, they can't dump you, but I can't let loose once we are going out because then I keep worrying that they'll dump me if I...

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