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I KNOW ITS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 7:50 pm

Hey advicenators < 33

so here is another boy problem. Last year i really liked this guy, and he liked me too. it was love at first sight. he stared at me in math class, and flirted with me, and smiled at me. And i flirted and smiled back. But i later found out that he was moving. not just to another house in the same town, or even to a different tow around here. But all the way across the country. So it was all perfect. Until a few of my friends found out that i liked him. They all said he was ugly. So i told one of my friends i didnt like him, and that i thought he was gross. So she actually posted in her xanga about what i said. And he somehow found her xanga and read it! he still stared at me, but i knew he was pissed. ...

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can't get him out of my head!


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 7:14 pm

recently moved far from where i have lived most of my life. i liked this guy, and he liked me. (i was 15 he was 17.) we told eachother about 3 weeks before i left. we didn't talk too much, i never went out with him or anything and we never did anything. still, i cannot get him out of my head! i'm seriously always thinking about him, and nothing else, just him. and how i want to be with him so bad. we never really talk anymore, except sometimes he'll leave me a comment on my myspace, but that's all. so i guess what im asking is, is this normal? and how can i stop thinking about him constantly, or is this good because i'm in love? i think he might still like me, but i have no idea! please help me. i'm so confused.

XO Jill

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gift or hint? i need advice soso bad!


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 7:10 pm

So I (female and 14)absolutely luv this kid (male and 14). He flirts with me all the time. We go skating every Friday together. He kind of plays hard to get (he goes off and skates with other girls every now and then) but when he isn't he's all over me. We don't kiss or whatever, he just tries to grind w/me and he hugs me a lot. I steal his hat and he lets me wear it every now and then. Everyone says he likes me, but I dont know.

So here's the question:
I'm inviting him to my xmas party. Guys and girls in my friends basement. I want to get him something. Not something big or something that's too forward. I just want to know....what should I get him to hint that I want him to be exclusive with me?????...

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Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 6:49 pm

ok help help....im thinking about getting my boyfriend one of those dog tag things with our picture on it what else should i say thanks xoxo


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need a love life :)


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 5:37 pm

So im a freshman in highschool (and a girl!)...most of my friends have all experienced dating and boyfriends....except me....i feel like I'm kinda behind...and i do want a boyfriend...any advice about how to get to know guys better etc...i rate :) thanx

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my guyfriend.


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 5:30 pm

So I have this friend Mike. His best friend is Nick & I talk to him all the time (he likes me). Anyway, Mike has an ex gf named Cece. Nick saw Mike & Cece together at a party & told me they were together. So later my friends & I asked him if he had a gf & he said no. I saw Cece at one of Mike's shows and everyone, including Mike, knows I like him. I don't know what to believe! soo today we asked him again & he said he goes on "dates" but doesnt have a a steady/exclusive gf...so he's some kind of multidater? I really don't know what to do or say to him & I see him all day tomorrow. Please help me!

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HELP PLEASE 5S FOR ALL ANSWRS!!


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 4:59 pm

So a girl i really like(im a boy 14 year she is 14 too) has her birthday in 2 weeks and i don't know what to give her...PLEASE VERY PLEASE HELP!ALL 5


she likes rock music the most guitar and stuff...also she likes pets like dogs and cats.

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boys =/


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 2:55 pm

okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like any...

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falling apart with the one guy i care a lott for


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 2:06 pm

im in a new relationship. before we were going out..me and the guy have been friends for a year..we got reeeeally close. we have an awesome bond. thing is, things are shaky to him and hes unsure about everything. he wants it to work but hes just confused,feels cornered, wants to tone things down... i told him to stick with me and we will see..he will clear things up and in a little time he will see if he wants to stay together or not. he told me he cares about me and doesnt want to hurt me..our relationship is on shaky terms right now. i will do anything to make this work..my question to you is..what are some nonphysical things to say/do with him so we can build our relationship up? he said maybe hes just new with all this and thats all..bu...

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IS HE GOING TO ASK ME, OR SHOULD I JUST LET IT GO?...


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 1:58 pm

Well I'm going to try to make this quick and make sense.

--I like this guy named "Ladd"
--&& at church, my friend "Matt" asked "Ladd" if he liked me.
--&& "Ladd" said "Yes, does she like me?"
--&& "Matt" said "YEAH SHE DOES!, ASK HER OUT!"
--&& "Ladd" said okay.
--But then, "Ladd" && my best friend "Ann" went out, but she didn't like him, But that's a different story.
--"Ladd" texted "Ann" and told her about how "Matt" told him I liked him and such.
--She doesn't know I like him...
--So now I'm not sure ...

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Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 12:30 pm



I'm a girl and im 13 . okk well i've been hooking up with this guy and i kind of like him but im not sure if he likes me and i just wish that everything can be awesome even though i know that life isn't perfect and yeah . so i know that this isnt really a straight up question but what do you think i should do ?

xoxoxo

ps - im sorry if my question is weird or something

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Which one should i choose ?!?


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 12:14 pm

Right now im going out with a guy, and he's really great and everything, and I liked him for like a month and we're finally going out,but there's this other guy that I liked even longer and I may even like him more. I think he likes me because he keeps texting me and when i was at the dance, dancing with the other guy he gave me a sad look, and he kept coming up to me to talk. Probably more than my own boyfriend did...both guys that i've liked finally started like me back and i don't know which one to choose..please help..
thanks<3

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Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 11:59 am

Hey, i have a girlfriend who i will be going out with for about 3 months on Xmas. I was wonderin if any of yall had any romantic ideas? not gift wise, but like something to do? im 17 shes 16.

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falling apart...plz help..long i know im sry


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 11:08 am

Im in a new relationship.Before we started going out we were besttt friends. sO my bf told me he doesnt know about anything right now. Hes very confused. He wants things to work but he has to figure things out. I told him i would stick by him and he can figure out what he needs to. He really is sweet..he caress about me and doesnt want to hurt me. I told him I want it to work also and I am going to stick by him, give it a shot at least. He said things are going too fast..i guess the transistion from friends to more than friends..plus our friends are acting weird about us (i hate when PEOPLE ruin a relationship) He said maybe hes just feeling weird because this is all new to him..hes just so confused. I like him a lot and i dont know what t...

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Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 9:46 am

alright yesterday i was at this park with a bunch of my friends and this kid that i started to like started flirting with me and i was freezing so he was like.. come down here we can cuddle and keep each other warm im like alright so i moved down and he put his jacket on me and was rubbing my tummy and stuff and then he started going up my shirt im like alright oh well nothing big really and then they had to leave and so did i so when we were walking up the path thing to get to the road he stopped me turned me around and started kissing me yeah sounds cute and shit i know i thought so too and then im friends with the kid that is living in his house now and was talking to him on the phone and stuff and then he was telling me how the kid was...

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how to convence to a boy for marriage


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 3:28 am

hi i'm sandhya,i'm 18years old i m female
i love with,
someone,& he is also luv me but i m not assured that he will marry with me in future. sometime i m confuse that he love me or not but i really luv him & i never live without him i think & i feel i will die without him. is he flirting me,really i need ur help,i always crying for him only,but he is always active when he feel i may go with someone,otherwise in normal case he react as normal,plz tell me early what i do for him
thanking you
bye


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absence makes the mind wander......


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 3:03 am

I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong?

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THE WIREDEST THING EVER


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 2:36 am

Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I want revenge on my so called bf


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 2:13 am

A guy that I thought had something going with me just moved to another state. I feel like a fool, he basically led me on this whole time. I thought we had a future together because on our last date he asked me what I wanted 5 years from now from our relationship. Usually guys don't ask those sort of questions unless there thinking long term.
He told me he still wanted to be "friends", whatever that means. Well the jerk hasnt emailed me (he's too cheap to phone) for over a month since he moved.
I already decided not to get him a card or Xmas gift and to send back anything her gets me.
But I still get SO angry at him for how he treated me.
What would be a really good way to get back at him? Without doing anything illegal?

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fun, or no...


Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 2:02 am

alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun?

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