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unhappy three


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 5:07 pm

my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what shou...

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hanign out


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 4:04 pm

ok. so this might sound bad...well to me it kind of does. so i've been with my boyfreind for about 6 months. we've done everything. but no sex neither of us want to yet. as much as i love him i keep getting bored...i just feel like everytime we hang out its the same old thing. SO does any one have any ideas on how to spice things up a little bit?

xo


ps. no sex remember...just like things we can do to spice up...the romantic part...and just anything else.

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younger guy to prom


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 2:26 pm

how do you ask a younger guy you work with (who your friends with) to your prom?

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Prom Issues


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 2:25 pm

I've been working with this guy for like 4 months now and we seem to get along quite well. I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not, but the signals he gives me, tells me he does not. The thing is that I am 18 and hes 16. A lot of people have a probelm with the age thing, but i don't, i think hes mature for his age. (thats y i can't ask my friends this) Anyway i don't have his email or anything but we're good friends at work. Would it be weird if i asked him to my prom? and if not how would you ask him? thanks in advance

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I want to talk to my ex...18/f


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 2:22 pm

Okay, so I broke up with a guy about three months ago. The breakup went prettu well, considering, and we talked a couple of days after it, but once, we ended up fighting and he really upset me. Some things he wrote in a journal, or said, or whatever, kinda scared me.
Everyone I talked to told me to give him three months or so away from me, not to contact him for awhile, but I see him on line every so often and I want to talk to him. I'm friends with all of my exes, and I want to keep that up. I liked him as a person, not just as a boyfriend.
The thing is, he was really kind of heartbroken. I don't want to hurt him again, but I want to talk to him. I want to see if he's okay, I guess. I don't even really have anything to say ...

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Who should i choose?


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 12:28 pm

I'm 17/f and I've been with my boyfriend for about a month. Lately i've found myself drawn to another guy. I know it sounds wrong but I liked this guy before. He makes me feel so good about myself. Last year I kissed him once and there was this ultimate conection. He told me he liked me but we never dated since we lost touch over the summer. Now he goes to my school and I really like him. However I feel bad about it because of my boyfriend. I never felt such a connection with my BF that I felt with this other guy. Can someone help me I feel in a very tight spot.
thanks I rate high <3

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Is age an issue?


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 12:22 pm

I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a month and a half. He's only a year younger than me but since my birthday is at the start of the month (JAN 06) and his is at the end (NOV 24)it sounds like a bigger age gap (I'm 17 and he's still 15) I really love him and I know he cares about me. But theres this voice in the back of my head telling me its all wrong. Please help me I don't know what to do.
PS I rate really high <3

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He doesnt believe me


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 9:37 am

Me and my boyfriend have been together for alomost a year & a half. We are (were) supposed to get married next month. Last night we were talking and he told me something that he had been holding in since last summer that he wanted to get off his chest. I was pregnant last summer and miscarried, he told me he doesnt believe I was ever pregnant. This has hurt me so much, we are not little kids, in fact I am older than him (21 & 23) I would not make up such a horrible story, I was crushed when it happened and still cry at night sometimes when I think about it. He says he cant marry me till he has proof. Getting "proof" isnt a problem, but i feel now as though I cant marry him becuase he doesnt trust me and Ive always been tol...

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need help with tattoo, will exp more in box


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 1:08 am

hey my name is frances i am 19 yrs old recently i broke up with my boyfriend and i am doing pretty good. he is 23, we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. i decided that i wanted to get a tattoo to symbolize my realtionship becuase he was my first love. but i am not sure what to get. i dont want anything like his name. no way but something like. love will prevail, or growth or strength or something that i can ge tattooed in japanese or chinese. let me know what would be a good idea.

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Too young???


Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 12:15 am

My name is Alexis and I need guy advice... If I'm fifteen and I like a guy that's fourteen... is he too young for me??? I've tried not to like him but iit's impossible! He is so sweet and cute! HELLLLLLP!!!!

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baseball coach = amazing!!


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 8:22 pm

So I really like my best friend's baseball coach. No, not a joke. Really have feelings for him. Sound stupid I know. He's 28, single and gorgeous like no other.


At fist it was just a crush on older guy type thing. Now it's a he's soooo great, easy to talk to, and actually have feelings for him type thing.


How on earth do I get over this? I've tried to stop talking to him and stuff but then I just end up think about him all day.


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i need help with a guy


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 7:57 pm

im a guy 15yrs old yes im gay i need your advice. i like this guy well actually i think i love him and im not shore if hes gay or not. now my question is should i ask him and take a risk of him hating me. its not like hes like straight every one thinks hes gay so theres a strong possibility he is. my only fear is that i will ask him and he would say get the fuck away from me and hate me 4 ever and that would crush me. n e imput would b realy helpful.

thnx much

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Two Boys, Very Confused.


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 7:43 pm

So I like one guy. I haven't really talked to him, but I like him A LOT. Now there is this other guy. We have went out a few times, but it was little not-serious things. He also happens to be one of my best friends. Should I go for the new guy, or for my friend? My friend likes someone,but a while ago he said he's always liked me. Ughh. Im desperate. HELP!

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gf's best friend


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 5:35 pm

ok so here's the deal. . .i recently broke up with my gf. it just wasn't working out. anyway, now her best friend is after me, and i don't know what i should do. i think it would look really bad, i mean, it's her best friend. i will rate for good answers

13/m

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he doesnt know i know he knows


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 4:04 pm

well, I like this kid in my chorus class. He found out I like him because he could "tell" but I have to play juliet and he's romeo and I dont know how to act around him anymore he's acting like nothing happened which relieved me but I still dont know what to say or do.
Ill rate high <3

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ur sooooo confusin


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 3:57 pm

im 15/f okai i have this frend nd he me nd him were lik best frends he wud call me everydai nd i wud talk to him whenever i could nd he liked me nd i liked him bac but then all of a sudden we got into alot of fites nd weneva i got mad at him he wud still try to talk to me well we got into a really big fight nd i barely talked to him he started going out with this bitch nd he tries to me still i almost hate him now but he tries to flirt with me weneva i see him nd i flipped out at him once nd i threatened to tell his girlfriend he didnt care if i did now he wants me to hang out with him but i wudnt touch him wit a ten ft pole what am i suppose to do with him! nd i miss the old him but how can i forget him lik foreva

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scott..again


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 2:35 pm

Ok guys, so scott isn't cheating on me some girl made a whole bunch of stuff up to get us to break up but it didnt work...well i have another problem with scott...well last night he was like guess who i'm hanging out with this weekend? and i was like who and he goes vita ( his ex gf) and her family. i got pissed...this girl see's him more then i see him and he's my boyfriend! i was like whatever then go out with her and he said whatever aleah sometimes it's so annoying when you get jealous of ohter girls and i can't ever make you happy. but i mean come on...he said their like " best friends" but she lives an hour away from him and he told me he still liked her, but he likes me way more...you can't love someone and like another gir...

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i need a guys opion


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 2:10 pm

is it true that when girls play hard to get that guys like that girl more ??


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Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 2:08 pm

ok there is this guy that im starting to like again. we used to date about 4 moths ago but we were never boyfriend/girlfriend then he stopped talking to me and we didnt talk that whole 4 months now he broke up withhis girlfriend a couple weeks ago and he started talking to me again for the past couple days everytime he saw me he came tell me hey. do you think that he is starting to like me again?? or do you think that hes just being friendly??

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Ex Boyfriend Issues


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 12:43 pm

I'm going to be blunt with this question: the "physical tension" between my ex boyfriend & I has become insane over the last week. What I mean by that is we have the constant need to touch eachother/be close to eachother. I've had feelings for him since the breakup about 5 months ago but we went a while without talking, sometimes exchanging few words (hi, bye, etc). For some reason, something triggered in both of us lately and we've been flirting uncontrollably. I'm unsure whether this means perhaps he is regaining feelings for me as time progresses or if it's just friendly flirting. If anyone could help, it would be MUCH appreciated.

Thank You!

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