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"beauty in the eye of the beholder?"


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 6:05 pm

hey! everyone has always told me that i am "an old-time classic beauty" "the kind every artist in the 1800's wanted to paint, the talk of the town!" and that i don't fit in to this era. i have the darkest hair with ringlets, full red lips, the longest eye lashes, and thick eyebrows. I guess its a compliment but i don't like the way i look. i want to be beautiful NOW and be considered hot NOW. I look at girls like Jessica Simpson and stuff and it makes me feel so bad about myself. how can i raise my self-image, look more modern, stop looking like a "young elizabeth taylor" or "an 1800's beauty?"

thanks in advance!

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boys are extremly complicated.


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 5:25 pm

i like this kid (we will call him "B") B. My friend says that he likes me too. yet, he says he doesnt (he suposedly doesnt know i like him) like me like that. well moving on, he has no classes with me or teachers but his locker is by mine and we hang out sorda a lot but with some other friends. and i guess in the middle of 5th hour people were calling him gay and he said "i cant be gay because i like Sam (my last name)"..now i heard it within minutes it happened. and he says that he really doesnt..what does that mean!!??


PLEASE TELL MEE!!

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weird guy...


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 3:28 pm

hey =)

okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to talk to him again and i called him and appologized. but he was weird cause then HE was li...

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kiss


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 2:24 pm

Ok. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 and a half weeks. We really really love each other but I still dont know if he wants to kiss me yet... Well my friend asked him and he said he wants to but I dont know how he would react if I did kiss him... In a situation if hes at my house, when do you think I should kiss him ? Or at the movies or somthing? when would be the right time?

13/f

-Kelly

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does he like me?


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 1:56 pm

Ok. Last Friday when I was in drama reharsals, this kid Rob who I used to like stated flirting with me.... He even started standing next to me and trying to dance with me....and he kept STARING at me...do u think he likes me? what should I do? I have a boyfriend !!

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hello question


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 1:49 pm

If your pregnant how long till u cant abort it? or can u abort it anytime? ty in advance :)

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my friend likes the guy i like


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 12:35 pm

14/f...i'm so confused and have no idea what to do. i recently found out that my friend likes the guy that i like. but the problem is that she told some of her close friends that she likes this guy and i haven't told anyone. so if i tell people they'll think that i'm copying my friend or they'll be like she liked him first. then i used to think that this guy liked me back but now i think he might like my friend. and if he does like me and ask me out then how would i tell my friend.

oh and this girl isn't really my close friend. we used to be close but now were just friends.

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Are all guys the same?


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 12:32 pm

14/f...okay all day saturday my school had this fundraiser and almost my whole entire 8th grade class was there. it was a lot of fun and we were outside all day. i was hanging out with all of my friends and a lot of my guy friends. i thought that i used to know how to tell if a guy likes youm but i'm not sure anymore. ok one of my guy friends was sitting next to me and then purposly dumped water on me twice, so then we chased each other around trying to dump water on the other. then my other guy friend had water ice and i asked for some but then he wouldn't take it back so i said i would dump it on him, but i didn't, and then later he dumped a water bottle all over me. like all day the girls would verse the guys in a game of keep away with ...

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My wife and her other husband


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 12:14 pm

When I met Mason and Sandra they were divorced. I'd have gone for Sandra, but Mason and I had hit it off well and became close friends. It turned out they got back together not much long later. I kept in touch with Mason, and tried not to let my feelings for Sandra get any stronger. Right after the birth of their first child, Mason was killed in a freak accident at work. Sandra came to me to help her with the baby and everything. After 2 years we started dating and got married. Then we had a son. Things were great when we were just friends but then we realized we liked each other a lot more and as soon as we got married everything changed. Her friends don't like me, she gets bored, she dreads sex, we fight over how to raise our son, she cri...

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Falling For A Cheater Again


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 12:03 pm

My sister is girly. That's why I don't understand how she hooked up with Kel, a rebel goth, in the first place. She dumped him and that's when he & I got together. (I'm punk, you could say.) I thought things were fine until he apparently cheated on me with his childhood sweetheart and got her pregnant. (She got an abortion. Grr.) So I dropped him and we didn't talk for about a year. Then we ended up in a mutal friend's rock band. We started hanging out & I fell back in love with him because we hang out 24/7. Kel and I neither wanted to be the first to say "I love you" again. NOW he's hooked up with his childhood sweetheart's cousin! I don't understand! He hooks up with chicks he has nothing in common with like my sister! I...

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Boyfriend


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 11:49 am

ugh. My boyfriend hasn't been talking to me lately. He called me this morning,but he never even says he loves me anymore and he always seems to be going somewhere or doing something. Do you think there is another girl in his life ? What should I do ?

14/f

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why?!?!?!


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 11:43 am

well i like this guy but he started liking my friend. well my friend had a boyfriend but her and the guy still hung out and talked all the time. i talked to the guy all the time too. but then he started not answering her calls or her text messages. i think its because she is leading him on when she has no feelings for him. but he wont talk to me either and i have no clue why. last weekend we pranked called my friends boyfriend and told him that my friend was having sex with another guy. and my other friend used the guy i like's name. but then we told my friends b/f it was a joke. well the guy i like ended up finding out and he got really mad. but then we apologized to him even tho it wasnt my fault and me, him and my friend hung out the nex...

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should i ask?


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 11:28 am

okay, so i am 15/f and i really want to ask this guy out. he is my age and we are practically best friends, i have put my head on his shoulder and have held hands with him at a ballgame and we talk all the time. i really like him, and i am almost positive he likes me, but i have always initiated things. should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i go ahead and do it? i dont want a relationship where i have to hold his hand through though. If i should ask him out than how, his birthday is on wednesday - should i suggest something for then?

thanks for any advice

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Boys maybe??


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 10:07 am

Does it intmidate you more to say yes if girls ask you out in person or directly over the phone?

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Does he like me?


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 10:06 am

Okay, I'll try to make this short. I've liked this guy for months and one day in math I got a question right and he started going on and on about how smart I was. Then another day in S.S, I graded his test and he didn't study and he got a 92. Then he held out his arms and said give me a hug, so I hugged him. Then in Language, he was talking and looking at me a lot more than usual.
13/f

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Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 8:53 am

I dont know whats wrong because its been so long and all of a sudden i dont know what to do. Ive been having so much trouble paying attention and he just makes it worse and i cant take it anymore. i dont wanna like him but he makes it so hard not to and everytime i see him it gets worse. We talk about it and stuff but i didnt tell him and i dont know if i should or if that would ruin our friendship.

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does he like me now or not? i dont get it!!!


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 8:12 am

hey =)

in a nother question i once asked , i already kinda said a little bit about this....(lol) okay i like this guy ..uhh lets just call him D =) soo i used to stare at him a lot not because i liked him (cause at that time i didnt) just because he's hot , loud and you cant miss him. and maby that got him to like me cause then he stared at me a lot and so i also started to like him. so we used to talk and everything but once he got into a deep conversation and i was nervous and i've been a little weird (not really mean i just was like : yes , no , maby) yeah okay and than he told me he loved me and THEN i was mean i was like : whatever
and i know that was mean so about i dont know a month i finally got the courage to...

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Shaving in the down under.


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 1:25 am

well, me and this really good friend of mine have been friends with benefits for a while now; and we've come close to him fingering me but i stop him because i'm not sure how it SHOULD look down there. Should it be completely bare?just some?shavin all the way to between the legs? like, wut should it look like?Please DESCRIBE it ENTIRELY to me and tell me whether i should use a razor or what.thank you.oh yea, and i'm being completek serious.
luv yas
elbow

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should i dump him?


Posted Sunday May 21 2006, 1:03 am

16/f i have been going out with this guy for a month now. but im starting not to like him very much any more and i like other guys too. but yesterday we went to a dance and he said i mean so much to him. i think i should break up with him but im afraid i will hurt him so much. what should i do?

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ex boyfriend


Posted Saturday May 20 2006, 11:47 pm

my ex boyfriend and i just broke up. we had an EXTREMELY strong emotional relatoinship, and were each others best friend. but, he told me he loved me one night, and that freaked me out. i said it back by accident and when i told him i didn't mean it yet, he was devastated. we ended up breaking up b/c i didn't feel like it was fair to him for me not to be able to return his feelings. now we both still have extremely strong feelings for ecah other, and i don't know what to do. is it okay to be in a relationship if someone likes you more than you like them? i know ill fall for him, but it will take me much longer than it did him. help!

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