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should i ask?
okay, so i am 15/f and i really want to ask this guy out. he is my age and we are practically best friends, i have put my head on his shoulder and have held hands with him at a ballgame and we talk all the time. i really like him, and i am almost positive he likes me, but i have always initiated things. should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i go ahead and do it? i dont want a relationship where i have to hold his hand through though. If i should ask him out than how, his birthday is on wednesday - should i suggest something for then?
thanks for any advice
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It sounds like you two are really close. The best thing about relationships is the best friend perspective...at least that's how I look at it. If you feel like he's the one and your heart isn't just playing games with you, then I'd tell him how you feel.
When my boyfriend told me that he liked me more than a friend I was overjoyed because i liked him the same way. but I wasn't ready to be in a relationship. The wonderful thing is he told me he'd give me all the time in the world. I felt bad but I made him wait a whole month until I was ready and here we are 16 going on 17 months later.
the reason why I am telling you that is because just in case he really likes you but he's not ready to be in a relationship, give him time and let him know you will wait. Not only will you be relieved to know he likes you but he will feel so much better knowing you are not going to rush him in to anything.
Also for birthday idea, you don't have to give anything materialistic but you this could be the chance to tell him you like him more than a friend. But a cool idea would be, go do something you both would enjoy. my boyfriend took me out to eat and then we watched a movie for my birthday. it may not seem like much but you'd be surprised just how wonderful it makes you and your other feel.
good Luck!
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