well i like this guy but he started liking my friend. well my friend had a boyfriend but her and the guy still hung out and talked all the time. i talked to the guy all the time too. but then he started not answering her calls or her text messages. i think its because she is leading him on when she has no feelings for him. but he wont talk to me either and i have no clue why. last weekend we pranked called my friends boyfriend and told him that my friend was having sex with another guy. and my other friend used the guy i like's name. but then we told my friends b/f it was a joke. well the guy i like ended up finding out and he got really mad. but then we apologized to him even tho it wasnt my fault and me, him and my friend hung out the next night. but he wont answer her calls or wont talk to me online or anything. i just dont get why?!?!? i really really like him. i dont know if he still likes my friend though. what should i do?
(16f)
coupe_coeur answered Monday May 29 2006, 12:01 am: first of all hunny, alot of times guys will say it's alright when in all reality it's not. It seems like you really messed up. It might not have been your idea but you were involved in the prank and therefor it is in a way your responsibility for what was. said or who was accused of what. Give him some space and time and instead of apologizing show him that your sorry. Actions speak louder then words. And if you really like this guy try not to let your other friends use him in pranks like that. That is not a way to get a guy to like you or notice you. [ coupe_coeur's advice column | Ask coupe_coeur A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 12:21 am: Just go ahead and ask him if he likes you. The only way you can know, 100% if he likes you or not is to ask him personally. You dont have to do it in person, if it makes you feel more comforatable...do it online(IM him, email him, myspace message him) You might be really nervous but advicenators cant tell if he likes you or not, and nobody else can except HIM. Just ask him and hope for the best. He's not answering her calls probably because she always leads him on...but hopefully he can realzie that you and him could be together? Good luck! Update me if you can =) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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