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Gender: Female
Location: Maryland!!
Occupation: Waitress
Age: 13
AIM: lilloveduck415
MSN: RBbabi2@msn.com
Member Since: August 18, 2006
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Last Update: August 24, 2006
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Hey im 15/f. I was wondering how do you use hair rollers. Are they hard to use, do i need somebody helping me? Will they work if you have semi-straight hair? Basically i just wanna know how to use it and what to do. Thanks a bunch!!! (link)
1.) DRY HAIR!
2.) u need help
3.) the other person:
1.) take the peice of hair adn put gell on it and place it on the roller and roll all the way up and then just repeat untill all hair is in a curler and then spray all hair withhair spray


ok so i had glasses for 3 years now and i REALLY want to get contacts. i went to the eye person and then he tried to put the contact in my eye but i didnt let him. this was a while ago. people tell me it takes hours for them to put them in.

idk if i still want them cause i hate that feeling of putting them in your eye and idk if its worth it.
is it ??? help me (link)
Contacts are deffinately worth it u will sure get used to it if u do it a lot


whenever i send a text message it says "service not available" i have verizon and i had 3 bars when i sent the text message so service wasn't a problem. does that mean texts are blocked on my phone? (link)
That means you do not have text message on your fone


Hello,
I am a cheerleader for my school. I started out as a back-spot but they than placed me as a flyer, i was doing a heal kick in the air for the first time. When i came down i landed on the floor, they didnt ceach me. and I ended up spraining my ankle really bad. So now that i am recovered from my accadent they havent put me back in the air. I know my mom was a kinda pissed, well really pissed, so she called the coach and all. and i dont want to say something because I dont know what she all said. and when i ask her she doesnt tell me anything.... but i really really loved being in the air, and i was really good. what am i going to do??
litlheavenhere
xoxoxoxoxo (link)
Talk to your coach and your mom and tell them how you feel


I'm starting cheerleading on monday and I want to know any good stretches to get me ready for cheerleading. Please help. Also, how can I make myself able to do a split? (link)
I Have been Cheering for 4 years.

1.) when you start cheering they will stretch you out for you so dont worry.

2.) Back bends follow your hands back

3.) try to go down farther each day for a split!


thanks in advance sorry if its long.

okay so me and this kid lets call him jack. we got into a fight and he was like i dont care dont talk to me.

then my friend brooke was talking to him and she was telling him about how she got into a fight with this kid chester. and he was like well you should talk to him. cause he was giving her advice. and then brooke told jack that she called chester and he got mad and said i dont care dont talk to me. and then jack said he'll regret it. and brooke was like why do you think that? and he was like "he'll see dont worry" so yeah..

does that mean jack regrets saying it to me? or did he just say chester would regret saying that to brooke randomlyy.

thanks in advance.. (link)
Dear Regret it,
i understadn what happened and i think that Jack was telling brooke that if jack ever sed that to any one he would regret it.

So yes i think he regrets saying it to you.

Good Luck,
Lauren


15/F
I used to be a huge tom-boy, like all I wore was boy clothes and almost NEVER girl clothes. But now, I want to change. But, I have one problem, I have huge love hanldes. I need some exercises to help make them smaller, and maybe some foods to stay away from. I'm willing to do anything, EXCEPT for liposuction. So, PLEASE don't suggest ANYTHING like that. Thanks. (link)
Dear Old Tomboy,
You could do sit up/ crunches and stay away from fried foods!!!

Good Luck,
Lauren


okay...first off i am 20 years old and I am a virgin and dont plan on EVER having sex until after marriage, so any relationship I have will always be innocent. so now my question...

There is this guy, who really loves me, and whenever I am with him I feel great. He is like the perfect guy that every girl dreams of meeting. and I love him very much. The thing is he is only 16 years old. :S so I feel like its very wrong for me to have any type of relationship with him, other than friends.

he keeps telling me it doesn't matter how old I am, and he doesn't care. but i feel like its really really wrong. and i told him that once he turns 18-19 to call me up. i could tell it really hurt him, and i cant stand the thought of not being with him. :( have i completely lost my mind? please give me your opinion and advice. negative or postive, as long as your being honest. and please no jokes. (link)
Dear ___,
I understand completly where you are coming from and i would love to help you, If you asre truly having theses feelings, you shouldnt worry about age, i mean im not sayin that you should date a 40 year old i am jus saying that 4 years isnt a big deal in age. my parents are 5 years different in age as long as you have these feelings for him you should go adn date him.

Good Luck,
Lauren


I would like to know what the difference is between using a tampon and using a pad for girls when they have their periods. (link)
Dear___,
Pads are more tamporary then tampons!

Welcome,
Lauren

P.S.
Here is some more help then,

Tampons are less messier, and they go inside of you and pads stay putside of you and they are messy


well i like this guy but he started liking my friend. well my friend had a boyfriend but her and the guy still hung out and talked all the time. i talked to the guy all the time too. but then he started not answering her calls or her text messages. i think its because she is leading him on when she has no feelings for him. but he wont talk to me either and i have no clue why. last weekend we pranked called my friends boyfriend and told him that my friend was having sex with another guy. and my other friend used the guy i like's name. but then we told my friends b/f it was a joke. well the guy i like ended up finding out and he got really mad. but then we apologized to him even tho it wasnt my fault and me, him and my friend hung out the next night. but he wont answer her calls or wont talk to me online or anything. i just dont get why?!?!? i really really like him. i dont know if he still likes my friend though. what should i do?
(16f) (link)
Dear Why?!,
You should talk to your friend over this adn explain to her what you are feeling and why you are feeling it.

Good Luck,
Lauren


16/f. SERIOUSLY THIS IS DRIVING ME INSANE.i need serious help..please.

i am in a strong LIKE for this guy..hes perfect hes gorgeous hes nice to me and everyone else hes funny hes got everything ..which means he has a GIRLFRIEND yep this is where the problem comes in. before he had a girlfriend we flirted like crazy any kind of flirting like sexually verbally touchy/feely anything! but we never did anything like kiss or whatever. i knew he liked this other girl and wanted to go out with her or was debating but he ended up asking her out and now..i dont know what to do! i cant stop liking him its like when i dont see him im missing him but then sometimes i forget about him and then something happens and i think about him again then i see him and i get the strongest feelings in my stomach like and i feel like i have to be perfect even though i know i DONT because he isnt shallow like that. i love seeing him even though it hurts =( but we are really good friends too! and hes friends with my cousins and their neighbors so its hard not to see him because im always over there. anyways he still always flirts with me and i dont know if he knows he is doing it or not but he is! like tonight we all went over there my cousins and me late tonight and i walk in his house and see him and my heart drops hes so adorable..i lay on his couch downstairs and he like sits on the floor in front of me then like i closed my eyes and he got really close and started saying something to me. and then i was like im gonna go ask your mom this blah blah and hes like no you didnt and he wanted to bet on it so he took my hand and like held it (as we were "shaking on it") and we held hands like this for like 5 minutes and i thought wow this is kinda weird i wonder if this is for him too! then like we had to leave and we were arguing (flirting) and he like faced me..got close and slightling started like punching my stomach if you know what i mean its hard to explain it was in a cute way though! i probably have a different view on everything than him. but i just dont know what to do i cant get over him i dont know if i want to. but hes always like on his away messages "on the phone with my girl" "i love you" blah blah and she is is background on his computer! shes absolutely gorgeous and outgoing and everything and i dont think im that bad looking but i dont know! i cant talk to him about it i dont want our friendship to be akward which i know it would be. is there anything i can do?! rather than talking to him or trying to stop liking him because neither will work

THANKS. (link)
Dear Really Strong Liker,
I understand where you are coming from this is a very difficuilt situation that you are in i was in this same exact situation about a year ago. You just have to tell him your feelings to him and let him kno where you are coming from and if he is what you explained him to be he should understand.

Good Luck,
Lauren


Im a female and Im 15 years old. Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday and it was my first time. And it was unprotected sex and I was on my period. Is there a higher risk now that I could get pregrant? (link)
yes u could be


Hey does anyone know a good recipe for a good strawberry smoothie? Or any other kind? thanks a bunch!!! (link)
yes i do!
mix ice,strawberrymilk,strawberries,n ice cream
its delicious!




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