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can't get a bf?
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 3:29 pm
I have a problem with getting a boyfriend and i Don't know why. Guys never seem to be interested in me. I work in a retail store and i always get compliments on how pretty i am and what not. Like people seem to go out of their way to tell me that but when around guys my age they never seem interested. Like i know people say looks aren't everything but I mean that is the first thing guys notice and i never even get approached by guys i don't know to talk to me. I mean i have guys a good 30 years older than me saying i wish i was younger so i can date you (weird i know) but no one my age.
What could be the problem?
Like i wear nice clothes that are slightly revealing (hollister, abercrombie, ae, preppy ...
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Shyness & Friends Ruining Relationship
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 1:07 pm
In 8th grade, I developed my first real crush on a guy named Jake. I loved how he could make me laugh with everything he said. I also liked how he was so different from all the other guys in our grade.
In 9th grade, I no longer had any classes with Jake. For some reason, this caused me to act very shy around him. I would write him a note but my friends would give it to him instead of me. My friends even asked him to the sadyhawkins & homecoming dance for me. He said yes to both. But he stood me up at homecoming (he apologized but never explained why) and changed his mind about going with me to the sadyhawkins dance a day after he said yes (Once again, not explaining why he changed his mind). I was crushed after he had hu...
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my really close guy friend
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 11:19 am
okay i'm 14 and female.
i have this guy friend that is really fun, and hot. but there was all this stuff (nothing bad) that went on between us last school year. and of course we hadn't talked for 2 months (summer break) then at lunch yesterday (we were outside), he came up to me and started talking to me (for the first time this school year)and then he started flirting with me BIG time. and i mean he was hugging me and wouldn't let go (and yes i liked that but that's something he normally wouldn't do) and he said something that i liked but i'm not going to say. of course i like him, and i asked him out last school year and he said no because he told me his last gf cheated on him. he's way more outgoing than last year and i think he l...
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What are the signs that a girl is in love?
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 9:59 am
I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love?
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he forgot my birthday!
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 4:59 am
hey my crush an i e-mail a lot, and he never sent me an email on my birthday yesterday..
so i dont wanna seem like a dominant chick, but i still wanna remind him that he forgot it!
so is there a kinda funny way to let him know..that will make it less like im yelling at him or what not.. like anyway of saying in a humorous way that "duude you forgot my birthday!!"
thank you for your replies.
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best way to meet guys
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 4:47 am
What is the safest and most inexpensive way to meet nice single guys? I already know it's not at the bar or on dating sites! Does anyone have any ideas?
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A guy
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 3:01 am
I met this Guy at work, he was doing work on the renovation. We started talking and hit it off, and I started to really like him. Well the day came when he had to leave, so we said our goodbyes and told each other we'd really miss each other, He told me 'its never goodbye, i'll see you later' It made me realize how much I like him.. I left without getting contact information.. and he lives three hours away..and hes unlisted..I don't know how to get a hold of him, other then finding the company he works for.. so the question is Should I, or should I just let fate take care of it?..
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boyfriend jealous because my best friend is a hott guy
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 1:21 am
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. Are relationship is normally awesome. But lately he has been accusing me of cheating on him with my best friend who is a guy (who is really hott) His looks has nothin to do with our friendship. But I am completely dedicated to my boyfriend and only him. I tell him that time and time again. But the only way our relationship is going to last is if he accepts the fact that my best friend is going to always be a big part of my life. So if anyone had any suggestions on how to get my boyfriend to understand it would be really appreciated.
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mom and boyfriend
Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 12:46 am
Well, I recently got a boyfriend, and my mom doesnt know. She is kindof uneasy about that kind of stuff, and I dont know how to tell her, in a nice manner. any ideas??
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in a real mess..HELP ME!!
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 10:32 pm
i have liked this guy at my school for 2 years, n we got put in the same class this year. well he is really quiet and shy and never talks 2 anyone or is at school much. i wanted 2 see what kinda person he was, so i got his aol s/n off a friend n added him, however i didnt tell it was me. we became mates n started talkin for like 5 hours at a time.. he confided in me a lot of stuff, like about his bad childhood and depression etc. he says i'm one of the few people he really likes. n he tells me people spread shit about him at our school n he has few friends cause hes shy. he thinks i go 2 another school. oh and i sent him a pic of a friend of mine whos a pro model.
i feel awful bout the mess i've got myself into, cos he is rea...
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Not sure
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 10:25 pm
Theres this guy, and we like eachother ALOT. The thing is he moved. He calls me every night and we talk for hours. We still like eachother alot.. but he lives nowhere near me. I may not see him until next summer. I'm starting my first year of high school. As much as I like him I know there's going to be other guys. It's going to be so awkward to still talk to him when I'm dating other people.. how would I even tell him that? How do I bring a conversation like that up? What am I supposed to do. He's not in the same situation as me ebcuase he's going to a private school where he ives. There's not alot of kids, and he doens't like any of them. What's going to happen to my phone calls with him, what happens when he visits... I don't know where to even start with this.. Help?
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Shy?
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 9:29 pm
13/F
I cant really talk to guys I like or anything.
I dont think that I'm very pretty, and I usually just act mean when they're around...
I need to be able to flirt or smthing?!
Thanks
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i can't break up with my boyfriend
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 7:52 pm
13/f I dated one of my best friends for like five days about 2 months ago. When I broke up with him, he took it really hard, he wasnt himself for weeks and I felt awful. About three weeks ago, I started liking him again and I told him and we started going out again. I now really don't like him like that, but I just can't brake up with him. I can't bear to hurt him again, plus all my friends would hate me. When we first started going out they all were like you better not hurt him again. I don't know what to do. The guy is like so in love with me it's not even funny. What should I do?
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Bad guy to date?
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 7:18 pm
I'm going to a new school this year she I don't have a lot of friends. There's a guy that talks to me, whose name is Alex. He has been nice to me unlike anyone else and he's fun. I think he's wanting to take things past friendship, but i'm not sure if he's a good person to get involved with. He's (from what he's said) probably not a virgin and he cusses a lot. I'm a Christian. Is he just going to drag me down? Should I even continue our frienship? I'm afraid of being all alone again without any friends. I'm not good at starting conversations or getting to know people.
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so confused =[
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 7:12 pm
alright. this might be long, but i'm so confused. ok so, there's a guy at my camp who is 16 and like, i sorta thought i liked him during camp, and we were friends, no he wasn't the only person i hung out with or anything. but then i decided i liked him as a friend [i'm 14 by the way, so i figured he was too old for me anyway]. so i've been talking to him online since camp ended and we've gotten to be pretty good friends. it's a long story, but it turns out, he was usually trying to flirt with me at camp, and when he told me that, i just kinda played it off, because i mean, he's 2 years older than me, and we don't go to the same school, but he lives near me. except the fact i'm also going to a new school this year which is a few hours away. ...
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Is it going to affect us?
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 6:26 pm
So I've been dating this amazing guy for about five weeks. We click better than I have with any other guy. We have such an amazing relationship and no we haven't said the "love" thing because it's stupid and too early. But there's a dilema...
He got grounded for getting caught throwing a party with his brother at his father's house when they were gone....now he's grounded for three months and we haven't seen each other for three weeks now. We were supposed to yesterday but then things fell apart and he doesn't blame me at all and he tells me how much he misses me but I do think that this not seeing each other will affect the relationship...
DO you think so?
I don't know we text and talk on the ...
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How do I become less shy with a friend like her?
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 5:35 pm
I am really shy and my friend always takes guys i like because she thinks it's funny. She is really mean and I can hardly stand it. I am sooooo shy though and she isn't. She can talk to the guys easily, how do I do that? How do I become less shy and talk to people?
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kissing a guy
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 5:11 pm
13/f
are there any ways to get a guy to kiss you? i have a boyfriend but its very awkward whenever we want to kiss. how can i loosen the tension and enjoy the moment?
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long distance troubles - group home
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 4:27 pm
so last week my boyfriend went to a group home in canton and he isnt getting out till the begining of next year. i promised him on our love that id be here waiting for him when he got out. sometimes its soo hard. <b>i dont know what to do that will keep my mind off him so that i can last through this.</b> because i really really wanna stay with him but it hurts. i had a dream last night that he called me and talked to me... and when i woke up i wanted to go back to sleep because i knew that we still havnt found out if he can call me or if i can come see him or anything. i dont know. im confused. im trying to get my friend to ask his p.o (because they have the same one) if i can have his number so i can call and ask him if i can ...
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i want him to like me this time
Posted Friday August 25 2006, 2:41 pm
Okay, so I liked this kid Brad I met once through my best friend from another town and I was a BITCH to him that day because I was in a bad mood and he was all over my best friend. but now my best friend has a boyfriend so Brad wont be all over her. But my best friend asked Brad what he thought about me and he said I was pretty but he didnt think I liked him much and I wasnt his type. Im so sad, but tomorrow Im going to a fair with HIM, my best friend and her boyfriend! I know my bff and her bf are gonna be all over eachother lol and i want the other kid to like me and i want to show him I like him but how do I do without freaking him out. Its a fair..any cute ideas what to wear, how to act, body language on rides and stuff??
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