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Show him I'm mature


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 5:35 pm

Hes 16. I'm 14. I really like him. He thinks of me more as a little sister. What can I say for him to get me to like me.. as in girlfriend material.

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confuse


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 5:13 pm

i just got back form italy to visit the guy that i fall in love with, he said that he doesnt want to have a girl friend because he doesnt know where he is going to be moving and relationship is the last thing on his mind. i ask him if i could go and visit him again before july and he said "will see". he wants to keep in touch with me, but i get very emotional when i talk to him. i miss him a lot and his knows that. what should i do? should i tell him not to call me any more? i feel that he does care when i'm around him. his action and word are two different.

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Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 5:04 pm

i don't feel like i am pretty enough to get a b/f.....i mean i wish guys would go for personality instead of looks......i would have a b/f but every guy that attends my school are into the same girl.....do you think anybody will ever like me....because i want somebody real and somebody that will treat me special....and just love me.....do you think there is such thing as him out there....??

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guy friends


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 4:42 pm

One of my friends (a guy) told me he liked me about a month or so ago. he asked me out and i turned him down. well, now, his best friend and i have become really good friends. He and i hug a lot, and flirt. I dunno if he likes me though. anyways, i can't tell if guy #1 still likes me. he used to hug me, poke me, joke around, ect. ALL the time. he still does, but a lot less than before.

so my question is, do you think that it's okay that Guy #2 and i hang out and flirt as much as we do? I really don't want to hurt guy #1's feelings, and i'm afraid i am. both guys are my really good friends, and i don't wanna lose them. HELP?

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gift for boyfriend.


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 3:31 pm

Hey guys.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months, and i care about him alot.

I want to get him something really cute
that doesn't cost alot.

Does anyone have any ideas?

He is 17 years old if that helps.

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He's Perfect But Our Life Is About To Change.


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 1:37 pm

Okay, I've liked this guy since I was 12. I'm 15 now, about to be turning 16 in about 2 months. Anyways, I finally got the courage to ask him out the other day, and he said yes. :] Now, he's perfect & things are going well, but that very same day, he found out that he was going to Iraq. [He's a marine.] He leaves in mid-January, and won't be back til about mid-July. Now, I'm not breaking up with him because of the major leave he's about to take to fight the war, but I'm worried that I won't see him again. When I was about 14, I had two friends in the army, and they both promised they weren't going to be killed, or hurt, and they both ended up dying a month apart from each other. I trust my boyfriend when he says he's gonna be fine, but ...

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what are the top things guys like about girls?


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 12:20 pm

ok my question here is what are the top things that you guys like about girls in their personality and looks and what do you not like?like for example with or without makeup and intelligent or not intelligent?

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Dont know what to do


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 10:02 am

I have this "friend" that I have been talking too for awhile. we have gone out one dates together. The other night i had texted her to say hello and got no response for most of the day. I had told her that I was going out that night, which i had no response. Eventually she texted me told me how busy she was and that she was on a date at the moment. Cant tell if she is trying to make me jealous especially when had told me that i was the one for her

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need a christmas present she will never forget


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 1:41 am

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ok well i have a gf i really really like and this christmas i want to get her something she will never forget money is not really an issue at least if were not talking hundreds of dollars.and well i really want to get her something that will be nothing like she has ever got. she has asked for a bunch of diff prefumes and lotions and stuff but yea ne ideas of what i could do ?

o and on christmas im gonna finnaly tell her that i lover her cuz im not one of those guys that says it the second day after we start going out i wait till i mean it but yea im gonna tell her on christmas im gonna wait for the right moment then wisper it into her ear(this is way of topic but i want to know what ppl think of that good idea or not)

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Falling for ex bf again


Posted Thursday December 7 2006, 1:19 am

Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him aga...

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loose virginity or keep


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 10:21 pm

ok so theres this boy i like...and well i really do like him .but he likes my best friend.. todaii i askd him if he still likes her and he said that he didnt like her the whole lot he did. that he likes her a lil. well we made out todaii and well i think i wanna loose it to him...we r both virgins so thats one good thing about it but i dont want to do it knowing he likes her ..even if he saiis he dont what do you think or what would you do?

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My best friend likes me!


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:58 pm

Okay, so I have a guy friend who I am really close with. We're always cracking inside jokes and making fun of each other. I've always thought of him as my best guy friend, but nothing more. In my PE class, everyone says we like each other. I always shake my head and say 'no way' but I've just noticed he has never made any objection. I'm always telling my friends in my PE class I don't like him (which I don't!) and they always say : Oh really, I thought you did!
A bunch of people in my PE class are always saying how we like each other and when I say "Ewww! No!" they say, "Shutup and stop acting like a stupid 3rd grader." And I've got so fed up with it I want to slap them in the face.

Today At lunch ...

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Timeless Guy Troubles, in all of their confusion


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:50 pm

I have never done anything like this before, so here I go. I like this guy, and I asked my friend to ask him out for me. He said okay. Then 2 days after I told my friends, they tell me that he never said anything. Then 1 week later, his sister (younger than me by 1 grade, and she is also my bff) tells me he plans on saying yes. Then a week later, my friends who is in the same grade as him (1 grade older than me) tells me that he's planning on saying no. And then his sister tells me that he likes some girl named Abby Blackfeller (Name changed by a lot!!!), and that he doesn't like me. Then he wrote me a note saying "I'm sorry If I've hurt you. I like you, but I don't know if you want to go out with me!" After recieving this note, I...

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a love triangle!


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:07 pm

I am a girl and i like this guy. (not like youve never heard that one before but just wait )So i have liked him for a WHILE like A YEAR but he never knew i exsisted until just recently and we actually talked and realised we really like talking and being friends (and he thinks im hot.. not a bad sign )we are cute together and know we can be ourselves and crazy around eachother... BUT and I mean BUT he does not know i like him and he likes this other girl...one of my friends from school. its not like we are best friends but we talk and stuff. Anyway they both like eachother and he talks to me about her and I give him advice and stuff. Im stuck! im not going to tell him i have feelings for him or anything but maybe one of these times we talk I...

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do guys like competitive girls?


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:07 pm

Theres this guy i like and hes pretty much like a jock cause he does lacrosse and football. and i do soccer, bball, dance, and I wanna try out lacrosse in the spring. hes in like most of my classes in my middle school, and i fell for him right when i met him.. cause of his looks, but hes also funny and nice, too. (although hes not the brightest crayon in the box heh) ANYWAY, im not the world's best flirter, especially with guys i like alot, cause then i feel awkward around them and such. but i dont mind in gym getting competitive, like we played this game called "steal the rings" and you gotta capture the person's flag on their belt so they dont steal your ring. and i beat him sometimes and hes always smiling when i do it. also th...

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should i choose 1 or 5?


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 7:33 pm

hey I'm Jackie, I'm 15. My question is that this weekend I was invited to go iceskating with my twin sister, her boyfriend Nick, and this really cute kid Eric, and this boy matt might be there too. The problem is that I was also invited to hang out with my group of good guy friends, I'm not sure, but there could be between 2 and 5 guys there. So I'm not sure if I want to go with my sister and flirt with one Eric, who may not flirt back, and may be only with Matt. Or go hang out with my 2-5 guy friends who I would be the center of attention with. Which do you think?

thanks <3

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dressing room..makeout


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:56 pm

Okay so im going to the mall with my boyfriend this weekend..okay yea im 14 just so you kno..but anyway i hate pda i think it looks really bad and i hate making out or even kissing in public but i think it would be really cute if like we made out in the hollister dressing room or something hehehe. but i dont kno im not sure how to like work it out like what do i say or do to get in the dressing room with him..i know sounds pretty stupid but i think it would be kind of cute..so yea any ideas?


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Short Relationships


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:52 pm

Okay so my regualar relationship is only a few weeks. I always end up breaking up with guys because i always kind of loose intrest and i hate it because i do really like the guy before i go out with him. How are some ways that i can hold on to relationships and be able to commit.

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Xmas gift for 16 year old boyfriend


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:27 pm

Me and my 16 year old boyfriend have been dating for six months. Christmas is just a few weeks away and I don't know what to give him! I know he's geting me a ring, so I want to spend at least $50 on him. I don't want to give him something he won't like, but at the same time something kind of romantic? not a video game. Any ideas?


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ummm does this guy love me? is he just scared?


Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:10 pm

Okay, so theres this guy, who i am pretty much in love with me, I like him so much, and he knows it, i tell him all the time. but he always tells me its just not the right time? what does that mean, not the right time? I dont understand because when were together, most of the time he always kisses me, and always touches me and stuff, and tells me " i drive him crazy" and we can actually look into eachothers eyes for i dont know how long, but its an amazing feeling and i know its love. But when i told him i just wanna be with him, he said he likes me too, but its just not the right time? he said he wants it to be right, and wants it to last. how can it not be when he always wants to be around me, always wondering what im doing when...

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