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Timeless Guy Troubles, in all of their confusion
I have never done anything like this before, so here I go. I like this guy, and I asked my friend to ask him out for me. He said okay. Then 2 days after I told my friends, they tell me that he never said anything. Then 1 week later, his sister (younger than me by 1 grade, and she is also my bff) tells me he plans on saying yes. Then a week later, my friends who is in the same grade as him (1 grade older than me) tells me that he's planning on saying no. And then his sister tells me that he likes some girl named Abby Blackfeller (Name changed by a lot!!!), and that he doesn't like me. Then he wrote me a note saying "I'm sorry If I've hurt you. I like you, but I don't know if you want to go out with me!" After recieving this note, I am the most confused person ever. This is coming 2 weeks after he wrote the note. I doubt any of you have been in the same situation as me, but answer this as best as you can.
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Never leave something like this to other people. Take care of it yourself. Of course he doesn't know if you want to go out with him if you can't even talk to him! It seems like he definitely wants to date you. There should be no reason to be nervous about approaching him. If you can't talk to him now, how do you expect to communicate with him if you go out? Go talk to him today. Ask him out yourself. Get it over and done with and you'll probably end up getting exactly what you want. Good luck. :)
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"I don't know if you want to go out with me" sounds to me like he's asking you out. He is also aware that you might have been hurt because of him changing his mind so often. If you can't confront him face to face, use the same strategy, i.e. write him a note where you could ask him exactly what you want to know: "Are you asking me out?" Or you could try to sound playful and not so deadly serious about the whole thing and rephrase his question "I like you too, but I don't know if you're asking me out!" It is possible to keep your dignity and self-confidence while admitting that you like someone, so don't be afraid to be honest with him.
Good luck!
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