Question Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:10 pm
Okay, so theres this guy, who i am pretty much in love with me, I like him so much, and he knows it, i tell him all the time. but he always tells me its just not the right time? what does that mean, not the right time? I dont understand because when were together, most of the time he always kisses me, and always touches me and stuff, and tells me " i drive him crazy" and we can actually look into eachothers eyes for i dont know how long, but its an amazing feeling and i know its love. But when i told him i just wanna be with him, he said he likes me too, but its just not the right time? he said he wants it to be right, and wants it to last. how can it not be when he always wants to be around me, always wondering what im doing when hes not with me, and always just lightens up with smiles when he sees me? I asked him if he was just scared, he said maybe. I really think hes just scared.. but i dont understand why he just wont be with me, he knows i love him, does he love me too?
Oh boy; from the sounds of it, it sounds like love. However it also sounds like its "not the right time" because of another girl possibly? I'm not saying he's interested in another girl.. because by the sound of it he is DEFFINETLY interested in you, however has he had a bad past relationship with a girl ? Or do you know of a girl who likes him A LOT? ALSO like you said he could deffinetly be scared.. sometimes when guys realize they really love a girl it scares them. That could also be a possibilty. I suggest giving it time, it will be more fun when he's not "scared" anymore, anyway. Well I hope I helped. xox
easilyfixed answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:29 pm: hm. it sounds to me, like he does like you, and he is scared.
he's probably just afraid that once you two become serious, and if you guys ever break up, it won't be the same between you guys, and the feeling won't be there anymore.
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