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This guy
Okay, let's call him John.
This guy confuses me a lot!! Okay, so basically I met him this school year and we're friends but not the best of ones. He's a grade higher than I am but he's so likable!! All the girls drool over him and I'm afraid to say that I am one of them. But anyways
At the beginning of the year, there were two major times where we flirted nonstop and everyone was saying that he was all over me at a school thing. And at lunch he'd talk to me and look at me.
Now that there aren't any school event where I can hang out with him, I don't think he likes me anymore? I don't know. Before I got a strong feeling that he liked me but now I'm just confused. We haven't had much chance to talk to each other ...lunch maybe but he often debates with the other guys on politics..yeah I know nerdy..but cute.
When I was losing all hope, he said "You look depressed today,,usually when you're mad you look cute but you look depressed." or something like that and I was like..okay? Haha and when I asked for a hug he gave me one but today he only gave me a pat on the back...he said he thinks hes getting sick and doesnt want to get me sick...do you think that that is the real reason?
Anyways, does this guy like me or is his crush on me kinda over? Please tell me the truth even if it's brutal. I won't give anyone 1's..unless it didn't hlep me at all
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Sometimes boys can really stink.
Sure, he's fun to crush on, but if you don't
think he's going to like you constantly even
when you aren't in touch, it may just be a pitty flirting gig.
Try stepping up the flirting.
If you look sad or something and he asks again "Are you okay?" you can say "Not really, but I'm sure you could make me feel better." *then you can wink at him or just giggle*
If you want, you can keep this at a flirting stage, otherwise you could always play the jealousy card by flirting with other guys to get him to want you more. I don't really recommened that because I find it really rude, but it really works for others. But for now, I'd keep your options wide open and just enjoy flirting. Try not to jump all over him at every nice thing he does and get carried away with commitment, just take it slow. If things are meant to happen, they will.
Good Luck <3
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Sometimes a guy is confused about his own feelings. If your friends know some of his friends, get them to see if he actually likes anybody, but just tell them to say "Does 'John' like anybody?" I was in the same situation once, but relax, if the guy doesn't like you, it's his loss, because each and every one of us is unique, and I know there will be other fish in the sea (too cliched, I know). But, if he does like you, then take a chance, and maybe ask him out (21st century, u don't need boys to ask you). See if he's available sometime during the week, and get some of your friends to maybe go to a movie or something, like a group hang out and sit near him. See if he reacts, if he doesn't , then he's either too shy, or he just doesn't like you. If he does, then if you're seeing a comedy, lightly tap his arm when you're laughing, or if you're seeing a horror movie (we know those are the best for physical contact:) keep your arm on the seat, and tell him if you're scared.
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