One of my friends (a guy) told me he liked me about a month or so ago. he asked me out and i turned him down. well, now, his best friend and i have become really good friends. He and i hug a lot, and flirt. I dunno if he likes me though. anyways, i can't tell if guy #1 still likes me. he used to hug me, poke me, joke around, ect. ALL the time. he still does, but a lot less than before.
so my question is, do you think that it's okay that Guy #2 and i hang out and flirt as much as we do? I really don't want to hurt guy #1's feelings, and i'm afraid i am. both guys are my really good friends, and i don't wanna lose them. HELP?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dimond_holmes answered Friday December 8 2006, 3:51 am: I think that you should talk to them both
and just be there friends or atleast see how they feel i sorta went through a situation like this but worse and i got hurt badly by a guy who i thought liked me but now a girl i used to be friend with goes to are school and he likes her now but he was my bestfriend and we dont really talk that much no more either i still dont no how he feels but i mad a mistake by diong that to him now i lost him so i think you should ask both of them how they feel and tell them what you feel about the situation well i hoped i helped [ dimond_holmes's advice column | Ask dimond_holmes A Question ]
TORMENTEDsoulxO answered Thursday December 7 2006, 9:45 pm: Well your feelings are not at all your fault. What you need to do is to do what you really feel is right for you but, you also need to make sure that you do consider Guy #1's feelings. So by that I mean you need to talk to him. [ TORMENTEDsoulxO's advice column | Ask TORMENTEDsoulxO A Question ]
bigflirtbabe answered Thursday December 7 2006, 5:34 pm: hey girl, lets see. I think that guy number 1 does still like you, but is hurt. That explains the less huging poking n joking. I think that since they are bestfriends. that you could still flirt with #2 but just not TOO much in front of #1 because he could feel like its a slap in the face. so yeah you can but dont faunt it.
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