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i like who my friends like


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 7:09 pm

im 13/f
say i have a guy friend in my class and we are just friends. if my friend starts to like him.. i start to like him too. i dont know if its because im jealous and i want him to like me over her or if i just really do like him. does this ever happen to you? and why do you think this happens?

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F/14 and HIM M/14 TOO BORING?


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 6:43 pm

Ive been going out with this guy thats liked me for A LONG Time and we were like REALLY good friends for a long time and then i liked him but he didn't like me, well finally he like loves me and things are going good for about 6 days but he said "we should slow down" and then i said what do you mean and he said like no more making out, its not FUn its BORING! What is THAT supposed to mean! SINCE when is MKAING OUT BORING!! He says thats all we do but thats not true! IS making out REALLY that boring or is there some other reason to this?

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chirtmas gift


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 5:11 pm

Me and my bf have been together about 4 1/2 months. I have no idea what to get him for xmas. any ideas? (i dont wanna get him a gift card or something like that) thanks!!
ps- i am willing to spend up to like $100 - $130

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rawr


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:47 pm

okay so everyday i see boyfreiends and girlfriends walking down the hall holding hands and hugging and it really makes me mad bc i dont have a boyfriend and boys in 7th grade are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin' immature and we have a dance coming up and im hoping someone wil ask me but i think itwould be weird if i asked someone. but i really dont know who i like bc i never really got to know any of the guys in achool.

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I like this guy and yeah he likes me but....


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:38 pm

14/f

Okay so this is the dealio.
I like this guy named Steven alot, and one day he told me he liked me too. so then i asked him if he wanted to give it a chance an he totally changed the subject to my socks!!!! i don't want to put pressure on him about going out but i just don't know what to do. and also i asked one of my best friends to like tell me a little about him since she knows him very well and she said he has never had a girlfriend and is the kind of guy that likes to hang out with guys and just have little crushes on girls.
so now that i know i am dealing with a major little boy, but i still like him alot
what do i do?

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sonnets=PANIC


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:28 pm

AHHH.. in english class, we have to write sonnets, and we have to write them TO a person. well, i was in my english teacher's room, and she was reading a few of them (not outloud) and read one that she said was really cute. She said it was written by this one guy. He's one of my best friends. She wouldn't tell us who he wrote to, but she said it was to a girl about how he liked her. also, he flat out lied to me, and said he hadn't chosen who to write to.

so this is a problem. This guy told me about a month ago that he liked me. I have no idea if he still does, but this sonnet thing is worrying me!! We have to read them out loud..and say who they're to. I really really don't want it to be to me. that'd be so awkward ...

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uh oh.


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 3:11 pm

alright, well me and my two friends.. 1 & 2, we all like the same guy. sucks, i know.

well out of the three of us, me and 1 have more of a chance because he just seems alot more interested in the two of us then he does 2.

now i really like this guy, and 1's the kind of girl which all she has to do is like, stand there and she can get 304934 guys, no problemo. me, on the otherhand, not that lucky.

well what i'm saying is is that i really like this guy, and people tell me i should "fight" for him ; flirt with him & make moves. me and her have already talked about this and both decided whatever happens, happens and we'll be happy for eachother, whomever he chooses.

...

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Threats ---> Don't Know What to Do


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:48 pm

Alright. (I'm 21) So I live 1400 miles away from my boyfriend. We'll call him C. How I met him is a little complicated: my ex boyfriends cousin- his [ex]fiance is my boyfriends best friend. (still got it? haha) Anyways, I've been with him for a few months now and I haven't been by him yet. Now, there's this girl that really likes him (we'll call her B) and is trying anything and Everything in her power to get with him. He wants NOTHING to do with B. So the past few months I've received some nasty threatening emails from B. B recently hacked into C's account and wrote me a message. And C wrote me saying that it wasnt him and whatnot, which is true because B changed his password to something that can be traced back to her... I have my connect...

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best firends ex boy


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 1:59 pm

okay so my best friend was talking to this guy n he liked her a wicked lot n she used to like him but now she doesnt annymore. they never went out or hooked up or anything. she once heard that i hooked up with him but i neevr did. n she told me she thought i liked him but i denied it. now its been a while since that happend n she doesnt like him at all anymore. and ive been hanign out with him a lot n talking to him n stuff n i dunno i think i kinda hve feelings for him. Would it be wickeddd bitchy if i started being more tahn friends with him?

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How can I tell...


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 1:39 pm

How can you tell if you like someone..

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Best guy friend


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 12:44 pm

oKAY FOR THE PAST COUPLE MOUTHS i HAVE NO CLUE IF MY BEST GUY FRIEND (U KNOW WHO) IS JUST MY FRIEND OR I HAVE BEEN IN DENIAL ABOUT LIKING HIM EVER SINCE LAST YEAR. i MEAN HE'S SO SWEET TO ME SOMETIMES EVEN THOUGH WE ALWAYS TEASE EACH OTHER AND HE'S PROBABLY MORE OF A FRIEND TO ME THEN A LOT OF THE GIRLS IN MY CLASS
(BESIDES U) WHAT SHOULD I DO?

~~~~~~~~U KNOW WHO! JM~~~~~~~~~~

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Boy problem[ sorry about length]


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 7:20 am

I love a boy, not naming names.
I think about him so much and I cant take it.
I think about him from the minute i wake up
and to the minute i go to sleep and sometimes I cant sleep becuz I am thinking about him.
Yes, he knows who I am and we used to be really really good friends
He has a girlfriend ..yet he stares at me.
Several times we did sex type things .
He doesnt talk to me anymore,barely.
Theres the occasional small talk but nothing more like it used to be.
No, i cant talk to him or call him or email him or any of that becuz knowing him he wont take it seriously or ignore what im saying.
What does this all mean
and what should I do about it?



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first crush ever D:


Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 12:29 am

i'm a sophmore in highschool and i just recently noticed a guy who's locker is like 5 lockers away from me and he takes the same class as my other friends. he's a senior and i really like him? i dont know. *nervous laugh*

today i saw him at the library and i blushed and that never happened before =/
he didnt look at me or anything. i just finally saw him close up in front of me is all.
i'd like to talk to him. but what would i talk about? how do i approach him?
he's 2 whole grades older than me and i take zero classes with him.

:S

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Need help for GFs Xmas


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 11:16 pm

ok Xmas is the 25th and her birthday is the 30th
so far i got

::::for Xmas:::
-silver cross necklace from tiffanys
-i took a bear i gave her a few weeks ago and got one of those buildabear voice box things in it sayin "i love u blah blah blah"
-a framed collage of pictures of us together

:::for B-day:::
-while she is gone, decorting her room
---decorations:: 153 sticky notes on her wall that say 'i love u'... 153 hershy kisses on her bed... 153 rose pedals in a path that lead up to a framed letter im writing to her... candels everywhere, and some outlining the path to the letter. and her door is closed with a note on it so when she comes in she read (one for e...

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yet another christmas question...


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 10:55 pm

i know i know, these stupid christmas
questions. there must be a million
on here already. but i was thinking
about baking my boyfriend of eight months
some cookies or cupcakes or something
for christmas and then making him
a big card and writing a cute note
in there =]. for his birthday, i wrote
him a very sweet, meaningful note and
he seemed to love it. so i thought he would
maybe like something i made/baked. do you
guys think he would like it? if not; what
else could i get/make him? thankss :]

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christmas


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 10:36 pm

ok i kno everyone's tired of christmas but i don't know what to get my gf!

help!

she's 14/f

thanks!

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HELPPPPPPPPPPPP


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 10:34 pm

ok. well their is this guy we went out and i wanted to get something for him for christmas but i dont know what,can u help me with that?

and also im going to a dance and i'm dancing this one guy whos my friend and he asked me and the guy who used to be my bf. what should i do???????????
HELP

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broke up with him


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 8:53 pm

k well i just broke up with my boyfriend and we were going out for almost 3 weeks and it was very hard for me to do what i did... all i saw me getting out of it was a friendship.. and i feel really bad because he realllly liked me, and i really liked him 2. And he goes to school at a different time then me and when we were going out he would always wait outside my last perios class for me... and i know i broke up with him but i was thinking about him all day and after school got out.. i dont know why but for some reason i just hoped when i walked out of the door he would be there waiting for me... and when he wasnt i was really disapointed..... ahh i dont know what to do... any ideas? hints? tips? anything helps.

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How to flirt!


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 8:52 pm

Okay so i need boy advice. He started to flirt with me and all, for a couple of days. But then he stopped. I think he stopped because he felt like I wasn't responding and I don't like im. BUT I DO!!!!! How do I get back to him flirting with me? How can I flirt with him? He's in my P.E. class and my best friend has given me advice, but I'm scared. I don't want to come on to strong. How can I let him know I'm intrested?

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i think i might need some pointers here...


Posted Monday December 11 2006, 8:26 pm

ok, i went over to my boyfriends house for supper tonight. i helped him with his shoppers after school. by the way my name is alyssa and i'm a 15/f. but, then his siblings started getting on his nerves, he has 2 sisters ages 8 and 13 and a brother of 14. he kept telling them to leave us alone, i was enjoying the company of his sister though, cause he was working on his compuer and i was sitting next to him; he was in a chair i was sitting on the floor of my own choice. but his sisters friend was annoying him cause she wanted on the computer and whatnot (she even sat on his lap getting at the computer) then at supper he got really mad at his brother ( i didn't think he was doing anything wrong) and told him to 'go to hell'. his mom got mad a...

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