alright, well me and my two friends.. 1 & 2, we all like the same guy. sucks, i know.
well out of the three of us, me and 1 have more of a chance because he just seems alot more interested in the two of us then he does 2.
now i really like this guy, and 1's the kind of girl which all she has to do is like, stand there and she can get 304934 guys, no problemo. me, on the otherhand, not that lucky.
well what i'm saying is is that i really like this guy, and people tell me i should "fight" for him ; flirt with him & make moves. me and her have already talked about this and both decided whatever happens, happens and we'll be happy for eachother, whomever he chooses.
but i still want it to be me, haha.
so any tips on how to flirt a little better?
i know a few of the "basics", i guess you'd say,
but what's some things you've found has worked for you?
what's some things i shouldn't do that might annoy him and make him dislike me?
coconutcatastrophe answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:20 pm: main thing is be yourself [: i know everyone says that but it really does get guys to like you especially if you're confident. so you said your 1 friend just stands there and she can get 304934 guys, that means shes obviously pretty. but if all 3 of you like him then he must be a pretty good guy and nice guys like that will look for something other than looks in a . i know looks matter a lot but they're not the only thing. it also seems from reading this that you have a nice personality.... example, "me and her have already talked about this and both decided whatever happens, happens and we'll be happy for eachother, whomever he chooses." thats being a really good friend and i'm sure sooner or later he will find out that you treat your friends really good. ok now getting to the point (sorry i took so long) to flirt better, laugh at his jokes, smile when you talk to him, look happy to be around him, and act cute around him. something that's worked for me was always smiling and talking (but not too much that gets annoying) also i used to play around with the ends of my hair all the time last year and the guy i liked thought it was cute. and the things NOT to do are following him around, acting like a stalker, always trying to talk to him/be around him 24/7 and staring at his body every single minute of every single day.
looloo12 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 3:45 pm: DO NOT over do. like dont follow him around and talk to him every second of the day. he'll probably get annoyed and not like you. just talk to him like make small talk and walk away. he'll be wanting more. guys like a challenge and like it when girls play hard to get. so DO NOT OVER FLIRT! haha i hope you get him, im cheering for you!
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