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i think i might need some pointers here...
ok, i went over to my boyfriends house for supper tonight. i helped him with his shoppers after school. by the way my name is alyssa and i'm a 15/f. but, then his siblings started getting on his nerves, he has 2 sisters ages 8 and 13 and a brother of 14. he kept telling them to leave us alone, i was enjoying the company of his sister though, cause he was working on his compuer and i was sitting next to him; he was in a chair i was sitting on the floor of my own choice. but his sisters friend was annoying him cause she wanted on the computer and whatnot (she even sat on his lap getting at the computer) then at supper he got really mad at his brother ( i didn't think he was doing anything wrong) and told him to 'go to hell'. his mom got mad at him and told him they would be talking later. then he told his mom that he didn't care and she sent him away from the table. but he wasen't mad at me or anything, but it was kinda freaky. is there somthing i could do to help him? i do see where he is comming from but i also see the other side.
his mom also thinks him being mad at me will be the big test in the relationship, wich i belive her now. what can i do to help him?
alyssa
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Alyssa,
Sorry to hear your trip to your boyfriends house ended up being such a disaster for not only your boyfriend but for you as well. I understand that you see where they were both coming from which is what you may want to explain to your boyfriend. Calmly speak to him about his actions at dinner and how it made you really uncomfortable and maybe throw in that he doesn't have to treat his siblings like dirt to get a reaction. I don't see why he would be mad at you at all...if anything you were the mature one that handled the situation correctly and calmly. As for his Mom telling you about the "test" in the relationship. No offense to her but parents should never have a say in a relationship that they're not in. I hope this helped you.
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