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Need help for GFs Xmas
ok Xmas is the 25th and her birthday is the 30th
so far i got
::::for Xmas:::
-silver cross necklace from tiffanys
-i took a bear i gave her a few weeks ago and got one of those buildabear voice box things in it sayin "i love u blah blah blah"
-a framed collage of pictures of us together
:::for B-day:::
-while she is gone, decorting her room
---decorations:: 153 sticky notes on her wall that say 'i love u'... 153 hershy kisses on her bed... 153 rose pedals in a path that lead up to a framed letter im writing to her... candels everywhere, and some outlining the path to the letter. and her door is closed with a note on it so when she comes in she read (one for every day we've been toegher) cuz on her birthday we will ahve been together 153 days.
---then a charm bracelet from tiffanys with a charm that says "i <3 U" (so every month on our anniversery ill get her a new charm for it)
PROBLEM is
for a Birthday AND christmas, this isnt enough. yeah i got the big things (2 pieces of jewelry from tiffanys)
and the cute thing for her room, but i need more little things as gifts. help me!! ill give perfect rate for any tip!!
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Quite honestly, I think you're going to be okay with what you have already. You've only been together for 5 months so I wouldn't think she would be expecting much more than this. However, if you want to go over-the-top, cook for her! Women love a man who can cook (I've used cooking to impress many women). Find an impressive recipe on FoodNetwork.com and follow it, you can't go wrong. Even if you mess it up, she'll appreciate the effort. Good luck!
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wow. I think that's enough... more than enough! that's really sweet of you but then she'd have to live up to your expectations for your birthday and that will be stressful. that's enough, trust me, she will love it! don't give her everything at one time or you'll never know what to get her on other occasions! <3
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i want a boyfriend like youu!
haha.
thats enough, she`ll LOVE it.
she`ll probably even cryy from being so happy on her birthday.
haha i wouldd!
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You love her , that's obvious. The gifts you've given are plenty. Don't overwhelm her with excess.
Your love is the best gift you can ever give her.
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Sure, you have this huge feeling that you need to please her with gifts but for god's sake:
THIS IS WAY TOO MUCH ALREADY.
Your gut feeling is to buy and provide, but when you go overboard like this, it looks like you're trying to buy approval or compensate for something.
Personally, I don't think you should spend more than thirty bucks on any gift. However, I think your "room decorating" idea is GREAT.
Just to put things in perspective: If a woman thinks you haven't gotten her enough after you got her jewelry, a stuffed animal, photos frames, and a decorated room...It's time to find somebody else who will.
Sentimental value always trumps cash value. My suggestion would be to go with one piece of jewelry and the room decorating (incorporate the photo collage into the room decorating). Seriously, that's enough to make any girl melt for you.
Don't go overboard, and you'll do fine.
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