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Boy problem[ sorry about length]
I love a boy, not naming names.
I think about him so much and I cant take it.
I think about him from the minute i wake up
and to the minute i go to sleep and sometimes I cant sleep becuz I am thinking about him.
Yes, he knows who I am and we used to be really really good friends
He has a girlfriend ..yet he stares at me.
Several times we did sex type things .
He doesnt talk to me anymore,barely.
Theres the occasional small talk but nothing more like it used to be.
No, i cant talk to him or call him or email him or any of that becuz knowing him he wont take it seriously or ignore what im saying.
What does this all mean
and what should I do about it?
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ok well its obvious that hes an asshole and well was only using you to get one thing and hes the asshole who decided to play mind games and than stop talking to you and compeletly ingore you huh typical guy of course my guess is that he doesnt like you and hes only playing mind games and i wouldnt talk to him and tell myself that he used you and he knew it there are plenty of other fishes in the sea
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You should leave him. Cut off all contact with him. He's causing you agony and pain. Don't torture yourself anymore. Get out of that rut. He's not worth waiting for cos he's a jerk. How can he be intimate with you yet refuse to commit into a relationship with you?
First things first, you'll feel better if you accept the reality that he'd rather stick to his gf.
I know its difficult to accept this reality and all you want is for him to accept you. But please, try to see if from a more objective point of view and be smart bout it ok?
If I were you, I'd pity his gf and not myself. Cos at least I know I'm single and I don't have a bf who cheats on me. Even if you get him as your bf, in time to come he'll cheat on you and cause another girl the same grief as what you are going thru right now.
Go out and enjoy yourself. I assume you are a teenager so don't waste your teenage years on him cos when you look back, you're gonna regret not having fun during your teenage years. Go mix around with your friends and build on your friendship with your good friends. Do things to get him off your mind. I know it's gonna be tough to not brood over him; but do try.
Listen to the radio, chat with your friends over the phone, get busy with stuff and don't let your mind wander back to him. You'll be happier the moment he's out of your life; trust me, cos I'm telling you all this from an objective point of view.
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This probably seems really obvious,but you should try to talk to him.It would probably be better if you talk to him in person,so he knows your serious...and he won't be able to ignore you.Just tell him how you feel.Good luck!
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