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I don't know what i feel


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 2:53 pm

okay so there is this guy i have liked for 2 years and i would do anything for him ANYTHING. i think about him constantly and whenever he looks at me i get all excited. I talk about him all the time and I know exaclty where to sit at lunch so he can see me and i can see him. He has had a lot of recent problems with family,drugs ,gangs, and freinds and i balled my eyes out when one of his REALLY close familly memebers got sick. I care for him a lotand like i said i would do anything for him. and a lot of the times i see him i just want to run and give him a huge hug and kiss him. Do I like him or is this something more.....or am i just obsesed

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i love him


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 11:36 am

well me and my bf were doing great then came along some rumors and he dumped me and i can't get over him everytime i see him i cry and i just want to fall in his arms and tell him i love him now i did that he got me a bear 4 christmas and now 4 some reason i want sex why is that does anyone no?

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turn-off ?


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 11:09 am

would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice!

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I dont want to like him


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 11:06 am

13/f

Ok well, I went out with my best guy friend and then after a week dumped him because it felt weird going out with my friend. Its been a month or so since we broke up and hes still mad at me. at first I was over him then I found out he was saying stuff about me and it made me mad. About 2 weeks ago he stopped talking about me and just started ignoring me. Last night, I went to this party and he was there, and he wouldn't talk to me. I was going to talk to him but I chickened out. I started flirting with his bestfriend to make him jealous. I don't know if it worked because I saw him looking at me with a blank stare but thats about it. Now I can't stop thinking about him. But the thing I dont want to like him!

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this guy........


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 10:28 am

so i went out with this guy and we really like each other, but we got into a really stupid little fight and broke up, but it turns out we still love each other and he wants to get back together. these are the things:

- I wrote this boy a letter, and he says that he wants to be with me, but his best friend told me, that when he was with me, he was getting kind of friendly with this other girl. But, when I asked him, he said that yea, he did kind of like her when I was fighting with him, but that he doesn't think that he likes him, but that he loves me. now, i'm not stupid and sometimes I'm just thinking, that now she doesn't like him, so it's ok to get with me, you know? and then he says that he's been thinking about me these ...

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More than friends?


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 9:52 am

Okay, first of all, I'm 16/f and bisexual.

Alright, my best friend, Ashley, told me a few weeks ago how she felt about me. She said that she'll look over at me during one of our classes and she thinks I look hot. I told her how I felt, and we talked for a little while more.

When we were finished, I walked to my car and she told me she loved me. I didn't say anything, but just got in the car.

Now I'm having sexual feelings towards her and I really want to ask her out. Like, yesterday, we were at the movies and I put my head on her shoulder and she held my hand. I kept on trying to think of ways to tell her I wanted to go out with her, but I couldn't think of how to tell her. (BTW she has a girlf...

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ways to flirt


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 9:00 am

if you are a good flirt i need your help! lol i just need ways to flirt tword my crush. i wont see him again until after christmas so i cant flirt in christmas ways (like mistletoe :( lol but like i live near the beach and we go fishing sometimes (with a group of friends of course) and we hang out like everyday at a friends house. we are kinda close so i can tease him in sexy ways like saying little dirty things as a joke. but please give me some ideas!! thanks! and also some good conversation starters.

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more than just sex?


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 4:29 am

15/f
there is this guy who i am really good friends with-
and i like him and he likes me
and i can tell he is going to ask me out soon from what he and other people tell me
the thing is, he was the type of friend who i could tell annything about me, up intill i told him about my past permiscuous-ness. now he talks to me about sex a lot and sais things like "i bet you wanna bang me in the autotorium tomarro", witch makes me uncomfortable.
im OK with talking bout sex to him, but we talk about it so much im starting to wonder if he only likes me because he thinks im going to do something with him.
im trying to find a way to ask him that question but im kindof scared to, because i like him a l...

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hook up or not?


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 3:13 am

theres this guy who i really like and i might be hanging out with him over holiday break. hes really flirty with alot of girls though so i dont know how he really feels like if hes interested in me or not. but if he were to put moves on me or try to make out with me and hook up should i or not. i know its my decision but im not looking for a hook up type of thing like yeah i would be fine with that for a little bit but in the end i would want commitment not just a hook up thing. i dont have any idea what to do. and i dont want to just not do it to totally turn him off. please help me! thanks.

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tips


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 1:28 am

i was talking to a guy that i like and i was like yeah me and my bf broke up. hes like thanks for the tip.


what did he mean by that? i didnt want to feel stupid and ask him.

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Tag Team


Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 1:01 am

what does to "tag team" someone mean?

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break out of my shell


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 10:37 pm

I really wanna boyfriend, but I think I'm sometimes self conscious about myself/the way I look or act, etc when I'm around guys. If i dont know them that well, I'm kind of shy or something.. but if im comfortable with them than I'm myself. I know that if i can never break out of my shell around guys that I'm not comfortable with I'll never have a boyfriend. How can i get past this shyness or self consciousness?

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Way obbsessive EX


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 10:34 pm

f/13/7th
OK, if you don't like those long, dragging on questions, this really isn't for you.I had a crush was on this totally hott guy named Jared. Every time he came near, I'd totally freak out. Now, I'm going out with him. We get along really well, and everything is just great. Except his ex-gf. She isn't ready to let go of him. Literally! When ever we walk home together, (all three of us live very close together) she grabs him and gives him this big lecture on how he completely broke her heart. Then she tells me its a mistake to be with him. It's really obvious she just wants him back... Anyways, we'll just ignore her and hold hands. Then, she'll scoot around us and walk infront making sure she waddles her butt as much as possible...

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scared to have a boyfriend


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 10:14 pm

I think I am scared to have a boyfriend. This has happened like two times already, I will really like a guy, he will like me to, we will talk and hang out then when he asks me out, I say no. I don't know why I am scared, but I think one reason is my family. Like I don't want to tell them cause I will be embarassed or something. What should I do? I really need to get over this or I will never have a boyfriend and i will keep hurting the guys I care about!

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Blabber mouth:'(


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 9:53 pm

Im 13 and i just got a bf, his parents are really strict so he doesnt have an aim or anything! He didnt want me to tell people bout it, but i tld 4 people, and other people found out, i havent tlked to him since we got together, im not sure wat to do?PLZ HELP!

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Getting that first date.


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 9:28 pm

I am a male, I'm 17. I really like this girl in my grade - I've liked her for over 2 years now, but I've never had the courage to tell her. Just recently, I finally got the courage to ask her to a movie - but I realized that she had plans for the evening so that didn't work out. I phoned her the next day, asking for another movie, but this time I got the answer that she had "plans" I just don't know what to do. How can I find out if shes trying to ditch me, or if shes actually busy. I don't know what to do. Please, if some one can help. I just - I think of her at every moment, I see her eyes all the time, I don't find anyone attractive anymore, I've started to write poetry - What can I possibly do?

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what now


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 8:30 pm

i been getting advice everyday because of me and my ex-boyfriend i broke up with him and i still have feelings for him i dont know what to do can somebody help me cause i dont know if he still likes me so what now please help

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False Crushes


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 7:37 pm

Why? Why do people get so caught up in wanting a crush that they talk themselves into having a crush on someone they never would normally like? That's what happens to me all the time. I hate it so much! What am I supposed to do to stop telling everyone I like someone I am fully aware I don't like in that kind of a way?

I am a female that is 13 years old.

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This boy


Posted Friday December 22 2006, 5:00 pm

Sorry this is gonna be long. Okay I like this guy and he's real nice and all. But all the girls flirt with him and stuff likes that. You can tell he dosn't like it when they are all surrounding him. He's the polite kind of guy so one girl asks if she could sit by him and then yeah he says yes. I think he might like me because I catch him staring at me even when he's talking to that girl. His friends start talking with him in a group and they start looking over at me. All the girls are all over him and I have more signs that he might like me though. Okay if I have my friend tell him how I feel them he would probably like me back thats what usually happens. Its not like he's desperate its just that he would give me a try. So what do you think I should do?

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Posted Friday December 22 2006, 4:45 pm

so, theres this guy he is sooo cute, funny, nice and just perfect. the thing is hes realllllly short and im pretty tall. i dont know what the matter is..i find myself completly loving him but i have this feeling if i ask him out he will be imtaimadated (or however u spell it) by my height.


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