Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Viewing Questions

Love Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.


View: Search Options...

I like him he likes me and now what


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 7:56 am

Ok this guy was new in school and we clicked from the start. he liked me. i liked him. so we flirted. i lead him on. but the second time we spoke i make it clear i dont date. after that we continued flirting talkin getin to know each other. towards recent we were both like OMG she knows me to well and i was like wow he responds to me like no other. On 14th feb he gave me a gift. and i returned it back to him. i felt like i had to stop leading him on cause i dont date *if i dont have a future with him why should i? and i know i dont. this wont last. he is a suni muslim and i a shia. so whats the point? i wont marry him so why should i date* so i returned the gift and now he is really upset and mad at me. i can udnerstand but i dont want to l...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

Foreplay


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 4:50 am

Hello, a friend of mine is very cute. He has a girl friend. He always complains to me, that while making out with her, his girl friend does not seem much horny!!! During the foreplay,,, he always asks, what to do and mostly which limbs of the girl should he touch or do to make her aroused and much liking. "Because it reduces even my sense of doing in while she doesn't provoke me by saying something or reacting during penetration" he says. I'll be too glad to give me a clear information of good things during foreplay stuff!.
Thanks in advance.

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

gay or not gay (ignore the screen name of thatadvicelady, im


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 2:31 am

that age old question i know... but lately its been getting confusing. I get crushes on girls, i have all seventeen years of my life. In fact the current crush that i have, i taped her during the musical our school had and only her when i should've been taping everyone. When someone saw the tape and asked if i like loved her i blushed. but then comes the complicated part, sexual arousal.. i dont know if i have a fetish with laether jackets but i like em and it gets me confused cause i like them but theres a man there altho other guys dont do anything for me except sometimes i like the idea of gelled hair but i dunno if its cause im jealous cause i want those things but are too afraid to get em or what... and then theres this whole other com...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

Heart on your sleeve


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 2:14 am

What does it mean?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

taking a break


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 1:21 am

im a 15 year old female.
so me and my boyfriend are taking a break after 9 months. he is one of those guys who knows exactly what he wants, and its me. he always says how he want us to get married, have kids, and all of that. and me being 15(he is 15 also) am not ready to decided who im going to marry and stuff. im ready to have fun! but, he is really sweet and so nice but i needed a break and some time to catch up with my friends that i havent been hanging out with in awhile. so now he keeps saying how he wants to get back together and it hasnt been a week yet and it is driving me crazy. i dont know what to do. he keeps acting like we are still together. and freaks out with i told him that "i dont like anyone yet." so now ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

rumors that are not true!


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 12:57 am

okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry ab...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]

turnabout, a dancing catastrophe


Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 12:41 am

14/F
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!

tonight was my turnabout dance at school. i asked this guy as a friend to make my other friend happy...its a long story, but that's not the point/problem.

i was having fun dancing and singing at the top of my lungs, when the music changed to a slow dance. in the middle of the dance, it happened....i saw my crush-who i WANTED to ask to the dance....and i REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to dance with him, instead of my "date". All i could think about was dancing and kissing my crush. when they played 2 slow dances in a row, i was really tempted to "ditch" my date and dance with my crush. i started feeling guilty about my feelings, so i shut them away, and just d...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

hes too nice?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 11:51 pm

ok so basically;
i really liked this guy , hes not really ot just cute and really nice, but thats thhe thing:hes too nice. hes a doormat and peolpe keep telling me that im using him, but im not and it only occured to me he was a door mat like today. anyway i guess i just dont know what to do, should i stop flirting with him?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]

I don't like him and he won't go away!


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 11:06 pm

my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance

[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]

torn between 2 guys!


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 10:37 pm

So, i have this really nice boyfriend, but the only thing is he doesnt seem lke he really likes me as more than a friend, we've been going out for almost 4 months, and he hasnt made any move!!And thts not even the main problem in my story! so theres this other guy who seems like he likes me a lot and he constantly flrits w/ me, and im not going to lie, i kind of like him, but he's my bestfriends ex, which is a major problem for me, and he also says that he likes my other friend, even though everyone says they think he likes me. Im really confused. Ok so anyway, i was at a party and we started flirting and i was like playing w/ his hair and stuff, and were JUST FRIENDS, and i keep telling myself that, but im torn between 2 guys, and i honest...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

guys


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 10:29 pm

I hang out with guys a lot, personally I think they're a lot cooler than a lot of girls I know. I have kind of a dual life: my life in band with the guys (the girls in band can be kind of strange) and my life with my old friends, who are girls and we've known each other since we were like 7. When I'm with the guys, I feel like a tomboy, cause we don't flirt or anything, we just joke around and have fun. When I'm with the girls, I feel, well, girly. It's weird. It's a little bit awkward because the two groups are like, complete opposites, and they don't really know each other. Is this "dual life" okay for me? You know how most people find their niche. Well, I have two niches which are totally different!! Is this going to ...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

i need to know how to makeout with someone.


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 8:33 pm

i really need to know how to makeout with someone. i am like the only one out of all my friends who hasnt, and i am the oldest out of most of them. it is really embarrassing.i really need some help because i am tired of telling guys that i have never made out with anyone. help me please. oh yeah and i am 14 [ which makes it even more embarrassing]

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

boyfriend..


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 8:20 pm

ok im 13/f.
i need some honest help here.
ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i really like him..i thought i loved him at one point but i realized that i just really really like him.
so anyway.
things were going amazingly until about 2 weeks ago.
we were perfect,and everyone told us that.
i loved him so much.
but then when i was in a play at my school,and i fell for one of the stage crew guys.
ive been hanging with him and his friends alot lately.
last night we had a dance at our school and my boyfriend wasnt there but he told me i could dance w/ other guys because he trusted me.
so i grinded and slow danced with this guy and his friends.
i wanted to kiss h...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]

Am I being paranoid, or is something wrong...?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 7:49 pm

There's this guy, Andrew. I don't really know him, but he goes to my school. We talked on facebook for a while, but now I'm afraid that he was doing something that wasn't quite right...
There's also this girl, Jenny. I don't like her, and she doesn't like me. I was thinking that she may have had something to do with this...
Here's how our conversation went, somewhat:

He commented me first:
"Nice, your birthday is in may"
his is too.
then we talked for a while, and it all seemed pretty cool. We were getting along pretty well.

A few days ago i fell in the hallway... and he commented:

Andrew: "oh i'm sorry, but i had to laugh when you slipp...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

should i pursue it and how?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 6:50 pm

short version: I met someone who supoosedly is talking to someone else, should i pursue it and if so how because i just met him once and i dont wanna be too straight forward or a prude..

long version: the other day i was hanging out wiht my friend *chris, and his friends ( i didnt know any of them) and i met one of the people there and want to start "talking" to them, becuz that kid, *justin was really flirty and told me he was single and chris told me he was flirty but justins supposed to be talking to this girl *tera, but when i asked him he said not reall and that he was single.. so should i pursue it and if so then how cuz i dont wanna be too straightforward but i dont wanna be prude either..

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

does he still like me


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 5:56 pm

me and my ex haven't been together for a few months now. i still like him though. thing is i dont know if he still likes me. my friends say he might but they dont talk to him. thing is he's always callin me and we talk for hours (although a lot of the time the convo's end up talkin about sexual stuff). well just recently we were on the phone and we were talkin bout winter vaca and stuff. he asked if i might wanna hang out wit him and watch a movie or something, but shortly later he added foreplay to that list. yet when he said foreplay he didn't say it happily like he did about the watching a movie. then he was askin me wut he thinks my mom would say if we hung out one day...when normally he doesn't want my parents to know. aside from all t...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]

How to date her?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 5:07 pm

i\'ve been noticing a girl in my college compound showing interest to me. when she is alone, she doesn\'t seem showing interest. but, when she is with her circle (g/friends, she looks at me, very cutely...i really like her. meanwhile i\'m scared if she says to her cicle that am after her while looking at her...i just want to go for her...but this to do is coming beyond my guts. i\'m very shy in these cases. just give me, some good and well assured attractive ways to just date her. i\'ll be too glad and meanwhile appreciate your kind cooperation and help to me emailing you from india. Please, find a better way to teach me to get good moral of dating her out successfully.
thank you so much.


[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

How to date her?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 4:54 pm

Any term you see in red below is not allowed:

dear kiran! i hope you are fine and doing well!
i\'ve been noticing a girl in my college compound showing interest to me. when she is alone, she doesn\'t seem showing interest. but, when she is with her circle (g/friends, she looks at me, very cutely...i really like her. meanwhile i\'m scared if she says to her cicle that am after her while looking at her...i just want to go for her...but this to do is coming beyond my guts. i\'m very shy in these cases. just give me, some good and well assured attractive ways to just date her. i\'ll be too glad and meanwhile appreciate your kind cooperation and help to me emailing you from india. Please, find a better way to teach me to ge...

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 4:03 pm

What does it mean when someone says "I have my heart on my sleeve."?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]

What is love?


Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 3:45 pm

Is love a feeling or emotion? Why do people fool in love and why can't i find love?

[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!


All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2025 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

eXTReMe Tracker