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I don't like him and he won't go away!
my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance
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well try telling him you ike someone else...or...tell him you don't think of him like that...or...just try it and see how bad it is...
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sorry to admit it but this sounds like a stalker in the proccess set him straight tell him hes getting alittle to close you need some room to breath
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First of all, be flattered! A guy likes you enought to put himself out there and ask you out! It takes a lot of guts.
Guys think if they spend a lot of time with you and are just constantly around you it will make you happier or make it known they really like you. But what they dont know is girls need their space!
So tell him. Talk to him in a email or instant message (avoid embarrasment in person or dead silence on the phone) tell him you are flattered he likes you, but you need some breathing room. Tell him you want to be good friends but need time away with the girls for just chilling out. Find out of any of your friends like him. Try to fix him up with another girl! Makes him happy and you happy.
Whatever happens, be nice. He deserves some credit.
Good luck!
-Abby
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make it very very clear that you dont like him, you said yourself hes your friend he will understand that you dont like him and stop bothering you all the time
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