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texting and calling?


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 2:53 am

hey i was just wondering.

ive been in my relationship for about 9 months now, and the calling and texting has slowed right up.. ive told him that i dont think he calls me enough and in response he said that he doesnt want to feel like he has to call me.. which is fair enough.. but is this just a guy thing with not texting much.. he said hes not a texter, which is good, but he could at least call me more. is twice a week to little, considering i only see him once or twice a week.
hes gone away fishing for a few weeks, and the calling has narrowed down to once a week maybe twice, does this mean he wants to end it by avoiding me or is it just he doesnt like calling much or something?


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This boy....


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 1:56 am

this boy, he tells all his friends he wants to make-out with me, and he tells ME that, but then i said no that i didnt want to, because it messes things up because we like eachother but were not going out because im not allowed 2have a boyfriend. so hes cool with it. and so, i see him every saturday all day my group hangs out with his group, and also in the halls or whatever. in the halls, we always make eye-contact and ill stop talking 2my friends and hell stop talking 2 his friends and well kinda have that stare, but then it ends and so on saturdays and in school and everything, what are some flirting things i can do? he always catches me staring at him, is that bad or good? any opinions on what i can do to like get him to like me more ma...

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Flirting


Posted Tuesday March 27 2007, 1:52 am

this boy, hes 12. and im 13/F (duh) but i dont mind that hes younger. So, we had this flirting thing going on where we basically acted like we were going out, exept only through text. I dont have any classes with him, but hes in my grade. hes almost always hanging out by his locker, not talking to anybody but theres like guys a few lockers down. so do i just go stand next to his locker and talk to him? is that wierd? if yes, i can get up the courage to talk to him easy, but what exactly do isay? like i know the hey, oh how was the so and so test, because we have the same classes but at different times. Just i dont know what to say. when im texting him, i run out of things to bring up. when were in person, with a lot of people we never sto...

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so there's this guy..


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 11:59 pm

16f. so ya, i've had my eye on him for a long time. we were "boyfriend & girlfriend" in 6th grade haha, but then my best friend told me he didnt like me anymore (which was a lie), so i ended that little fling & we just kinda stopped talking. then she started telling him that i liked him and wanted to go back out w/ him like everyday, because she liked him and wanted to make me look completely stupid. now me and her are best friends & those days are over. now i like that guy, not for like the reasons in the past and stuff because c'mon that was 6th grade. but i like him now and idk where to go from here.

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how can i get him to like me? ( boys, please ? )


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 11:05 pm

jhdfkjdfh! Erg! So theres this boy, and i'm like crazy about him. I have been for 3 years, and its like, he wants me only when he knows he cant have me. Like for example, my best friend started to like him. He didnt like her, and he wanted me, because i promised her I wouldnt like him. He kept telling me he lieked me and flirting non stop. Like if we were at a party or something, Hed come up and dance with only me, and talk to me, no other girls. But after she got over him, I started to hang out with him alot, and really start to like him. When i told him i liked him, everything started to get different. He used to call me every day and IM me on AIM. HE would text me and if we were at a party, I was the first one hed come up to. Now, i get ...

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guys


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 10:47 pm

Hey how can you tell when a guy likes you??

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My ex and my friend? WTF!


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 10:13 pm

I have dated the same guy now for like 4 years on and off. He was my first kiss, my first everything. We would date other people in between, but not for long and we would go back to each other everytime. We couldn't keep away from each other for more than a year. We were really immature about it, but we really loved each other.
We recently broke up. Shame...I know. Well then he started talking to one of my good friends. When I found out I started crying. I couldn't believe how shady that was. But then they started to come out of the dark and flirted and talked and texted in front of me! It was like I wasn't even there! It killed me.
I really do love him and I really love my friend so how in the hell could they do this to me!...

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How Can I Besweet


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 10:04 pm

heyy im 15/f
theres a kid in my class that has my attention a little bit but i dont want him to know that yet.
how can i be cute and sweet?

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i need help. please


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 10:04 pm

all right, how can i put this?
there is this guy. we'll call him Jon. yeah, jon. anyway jon and i have a history. we went out for 3 months within the first month i met him. like, it instantly clicked with us and we were really happy. but then his friend said jon didnt care about me and i broke up with him. ( i was 13, i didnt know any better than to just do that and not ask him about it) ever since then, i've regretted it. its now 3 years later. and i still have feelings for him. but, i have a boyfriend of 9 months. we'll call him justin. well, justin and i are good. but whenever jon and i talk i feel as if im missing out on soo much. i know jon cares. he has a look just for me. and when we talk its as if justin never exsisted. I kn...

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handjobs


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 9:54 pm

NEED HELP ASAP!
I am going over my boyfriends house tomorrow and he wants me to give him a handjob. I want to, but i've never really given one before. I've given one once but it was on a dare and..well it's complicated..anyway...i'm not exactly sure how to do it. and for how long? I want help from guys and girls on this one. Thanks soo much!
=D

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how to tell my crush " i like him "


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 9:53 pm

Hey, um... i need to know whether i should tell my crush that i like him. i've tried cabaility on horoscopes, people, and everything. they all tell me we were meant to be and i've heard from his friend that he likes me back and i asked my crush's friend if he could tell my crush that i like him but my crush didnt believe him. so should i tell him by person or note or sumthing and if i should, how?

female and 14 years old

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ex boyfriend.


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 9:45 pm

Okay to start of me and my boyfriend broke up last night we've been together for almost 2 years and i love him so much but hes such an asshole and i dont want to be with him anymore. I promised my mom i wouldnt get back with him. But he keeps calling. I dont know what to do why is he calling me.

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does he like me? -guys only please...


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 9:43 pm

okay..
so my birthday was last friday and i had a couple friends spend the night...and this guy that ive been talking to for two years, kyle, came to surprise me at one oclock in the morning with his friend alex... now ive been talking to kyle for two years.. but this was the first time we've actually met in person cause he lives 2 hours away...anyways it went pretty well or so i think... they stayed till 4.... and when he got home... he texted me
"Umm so we had fun and we will be back soon...We hope ya'll had fun 2 and will want to hang out again..."
and then i said..."Ya! ya'll are awesome! i had fun!"
and then he said... "ok,cool...well ill ttyl, bye"
and i was like...

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Blushhhh


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 8:51 pm

is there anyway not to blush when a boy you like is sweet? i hate blushing and i can feel it :[ is it very noticable?

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Too Romantic


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 8:49 pm

Ok..so this guy im talking to is too romantic for me. Like..hes just feminine i could say..he says overly nice things to me..and he just doesnt seem very down to earth and just fun. Everyone thinks im weird because truth is..i dont like the romantic type..i like the fun..outgoing..dont give a crap type. I guess its a bad thing. Am i weird?

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more than a friend?


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 8:35 pm

is there any way to make a best friend see you as more than a friend? even if he is afraid of commitment? i need help please. i hate this feeling. i love him soo much but he send me mixed signals. im tired of this. wen i asked him he said he didnt like me. and he also said that he had problems with commitment. that was before though. now we're even closer friends. he doesnt know i still like him. at one point i was over him, but that didnt last long. my other friend likes him too. but he makes it seem like he likes me. ugh its oh so complicated. hes the best thing that has ever happened to me. im not kidding. i love him (as a friend)and as more than a friend. he makes me feel so special but has no idea of my feelings for him. i cant tell hi...

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we both like him


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 8:30 pm

A month or so ago there was a school dance. My friend Tiff was supposed to go with our friend Potter but he found out he had to work a few weeks before the dance, so she found a new date. She told me that she didn't like him as more than a friend and wasn't going to go all out for him anyway, so it didn't matter. i didn't have a date. the day of the dance, my group went to walmart to hang out before the dance and Potter was working. We're all friends with him, so we went over to talk to him and found out he was off work at 9 (30 min after the dance started) so i asked him to come be my date and he said he would. I've had a low level crush on Potter for a few years now, and Tiff knows that. She got mad at me when he came and was my da...

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courthouse weddings


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 8:13 pm

When you go to a courthouse for a wedding, what is the actually procedure. Like, what questions do they ask you before issuing a marriage license, do they usually already have a justice of the peace there, do you just need to sign the license for it to be valid or does there actually need to be a ceremony, etc. If anyone who's actually had a courthouse wedding could just tell me about their experience, that would be greatly appreciated.

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my crush makes me blush


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 7:52 pm

ok
the guy doesnt like me but im head over heels for him. and my ex bf, a total stalker might i add FOUND OUT. so he always makes jokes and crap. its so embarssing! and now the guy i like wont even talk to me :[

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another one of those.


Posted Monday March 26 2007, 7:24 pm

I'll make it short and sweet.

There are these two guys that I have had my eye on.

One of them does track with me, and I've only known him for a short amount of time, and I've been trying to get to know him, but I'm not sure if he is interested.

Then there is this other one that I have known since the beginging of the year, but only started talking to him a couple months ago. He is perfect.
I'm sadly obsessed.

I would be happy with either of them. They are both amazing.

How do I get guys interested?

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