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New Boyfriend vs. Old Boyfriend


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 4:21 pm

OK so I've been dating this guy for a year and I'm totally crazy about him but I'm his first girlfriend and I've dated 2 guys in the past. One of them I dated on and off for almost 2 1/2 years and we are still really good friends. I've only kissed my bf, not like madeout or ne thing but my old b/f and me made out a bunch of times. My best friend thinks I am being dishonest by not telling my new bf about what me and my x have done but he's never asked and it's never been a problem so I don't see why he needs know. Question: am I being dishonest and does my new bf have the right to know or should I leave it because it's in the past?

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Posted Monday April 9 2007, 3:41 pm

What are hopeless romantics?

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love of my live.. and my best friend


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 3:08 pm

17/F
ok, so i just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of a year and a half and it ended well until he said some s**t that really got to me and i was tired of nein hurrt so i want nothing to do with him.. i think. my thing is, once you hurt me my guard is up and itll take a lot for it to go back down.. then my best friend(a guy) and i have not hung out in a while so were catchin up on old times but a couple nights i had a dream that my best friend and i "did some things" that i never EVER had a thought about doin with him.. i know im starting to get feeling for him n the dream didnt help at all n i kno hes crushed on me before but i dont know what to do. i dont want a relationship right now AND him and my ex are pretty ...

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I am attracted to my best friend..


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:54 pm

I'm 16/m and i have a best friend who is a girl...well make her name nancy for this occasion. Now i don't think i want to really enter into a relationship with nancy, but i really just want to hook up with her. our friends think that we're going to hook up, and we kinda talked about it the other night. We overheard a friend talking to another friend and our names came up, and nancy said she loves me to death but if we hooked up she thinks it would change our friendship too much. What can i do to show her that i want to kiss her, but without being to direct?

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is it love?


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:40 pm

i strongly love this guy: for the past four years!!!! (on and off, 95% of the time on)

is this really love? or is this just a crush?

were not together btw, he has a gf

16/f

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A simple guy, right?


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:38 pm

Alright, well there is this guy who is like super super sweet to me, but I don't know if he likes me. Even though we hang out all the time, and he's so funny and really can be sweet, but then agian a huge pain in my butt. His name is Nick, and he's really hyper at sometimes, and he's really competetive when he is around my other guy friend, who I hang around with ALL the time, Scott. They fight about everything and I mean everything. They even eat so much they puke and still want more food. I've seen them be friends when I'm not around, does this mean they are competing to win me over. All I know is that they are giving me a huge headache. So what should I do. They both are sweet, I've know Scott longer than Nick though. Ouch, I think I'm giving myself a headache.

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Im having trouble knowing what to do ....


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:35 pm

Hey im a 13/f and i have just gotin out of a years relation ship. and the guy that i was dateing dumped me and wont say why. So his best friend conner who i have known since i was a baby has been txting me all the time and has been flerting with me. and saying ll this cute stuff and he has asked me out i haven't answered cuz i dont know what i shuld say. Is it wrong to be dateing his best friend who is also one of my bestfriends??? Please help me cuz i need it.
Love,
Bubble2Gum

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hooking up with girls


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:01 pm

Ok, so heres the deal. I'm 16 years old, almost 17, male, and seem to have a hard time to say hook up with a girl at a party. So my scenario would be i'm talking to a girl the whole night, she i can tell shes totally into me, but then i can never seem to move on that. what should i do/say i guess get things going. and even if i have her alone, what should i do/say?

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Confidence Booster


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 12:41 pm

Basically I need a quick confidence booster for talking to girls. I am about 5'10" and 150lbs. Not any body fat basically just a sheet of muscle. I play strong safety in football and also play tennis and basketball. I also drive a blue corvette and dress pretty nicely. If you are this girl I am talking to would you like me and please say anything else that will boost my confidence.

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Posted Monday April 9 2007, 11:39 am

14/f
okay well i like this guy and his name is ryan and he has told me that he likes me back. but he also likes 2 other girls i really like this kid and i kind of want to go out with him is there anything i can say or notice to see who he likes more or if he really does like me..thanks <3

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tom!


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 10:56 am

this boy had totally mucked me around previously and got a girlfriend when he told me he really liked me. He didnt bother making convo from then on over the internet, and just recently he left a comment say hi em, Hows it goin havent spoken in ages x! and im not sure wether i should reply or not i do still like him alot but hes got a girlfriend do i reply or leave it?


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this boy is driving me crazy!


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 9:33 am

and we've gona out before but we decided to be friends, and like we've hurt eachothers feelings..but we want to be friends soo we have been for the past 6 months..but now he isn't talking to me.like i say hey, and he just ignores me. is there something wrong with me? and on top of that i like him...and like whenever im around him he purposly flirts with other girls..it drives me CRAZY! please help what do i do to get him back[just as a friend.i miss being friends with him]

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Does he want to see me?


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 4:53 am

22/f

Ok there is a friend of mine that I see only when my friends and I go dancing because it is far away. I like him alot but not sure what he thinks. He does the riska dancing with my friend, but When there is slow dancing he always asks me to dance. we talk online and the other day he was telling me about the play he was in and giving me all the dates and times of the show. But not ever asking me if I would come directly. Is this his way of hinting that he wants me to be there? Also are there or could there be any other signs tht he has an interest? Or how can I create some? I would love ALT of opinions on this matter. Thank you!!

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sweaty hands


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 3:28 am

i have sweaty hands all the time! It's not at any one point, or when I feel any one specific emotion. It just randomly occurs, occuring often that is :(

I have been able to cope with it for awhile, but i feel extremly awkward when even holding hands with my partner. During a long kiss she will caress my face or play with my hair. It is somthing I am afraid to do back to her because my hands. I don't want to mess the moment up or make her feel uncomfortable or awkward. If we both are sweaty things are a bit easier, I can rub my hands on my jeans or shirt fast to dry them and then proceed to feel her, but I hesitate from touching her face or any part of her for that matter when we are just kissing.

Is there a g...

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Why is he doing this??


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 2:26 am

Ok! Im going crazzzy! I started talking to this guy online and he told me he liked me and everything. so anyway we were friends but not like real tight or nothing. Anyway me hooked up one tight. just kissed and stuff. and than i got right weird (like i always do) i sorta ignored him for like a week. I dunno y i do that. i havent had many boyfriends or anything. anyhow he called all week and id make up excuses. so than the next week. i realized ye kno i miss this guy and i kinda started to like him a nice bit. and than he started igoring me. bso i asked him like do you want to just b friends. and he said no that he really liked me. and than he still prety much ignored me. ended up banging into him another night and he grabbed me by the waist...

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I totally love my best friend


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 1:13 am

I know it sounds really lame, but I realy do! I don't know if he likes me back, my friends say he does, and he's really protective of me, but I'm too scared to ruin our relationship to do anything! Somebody please help me!

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friends with benefits to lover


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 1:13 am

ok so i've been friends with benefits with my best guy friend for about 7months now. i used to like him but then i just stopped liking him. that was about 5months ago. now about a month ago i realized i still like him. i just got back from a spring break vacation and the whole time i was on vacation i couldn't stop thinking about him...EVER. and i got butterflies. i never got butterflies that much before and i think i really love him. i think he likes me. we tell each other we love each other but it was always in the friendly way. i dont know how to tell him that i really really love him. i have more feelings for him than i did with my ex boyfriend.

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kissing


Posted Monday April 9 2007, 12:30 am

how do you kiss
do you suck as your kissing or what all do you do please detailed
dont say it will come naturally please

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this i spart 2 of so there is this guy...


Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 11:15 pm

for some reason im starting to loose interest in this guy, and then im not, i like him, then i dont, i dnt really know what i feel anymore. but when i ffinally come to a conclusion and its that i dnt like him i already told him i like him and then wut do i say, 'i dnt like you any more sry' that would kill him. and i dnt feel normal about on and off again liking him...is it normal?? my friend says it is, but i really want to know y i feel it, and then if i really DNT like him, how do i tell him???

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my bf


Posted Sunday April 8 2007, 11:03 pm

i always say i love you first to my bf and when we're like hanging up the phone if i dont say it then neither will he. how can i get him to say it without actually telling him to? or does this mean that he doesnt love me because he doesnt want to say it?

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