Ok there is a friend of mine that I see only when my friends and I go dancing because it is far away. I like him alot but not sure what he thinks. He does the riska dancing with my friend, but When there is slow dancing he always asks me to dance. we talk online and the other day he was telling me about the play he was in and giving me all the dates and times of the show. But not ever asking me if I would come directly. Is this his way of hinting that he wants me to be there? Also are there or could there be any other signs tht he has an interest? Or how can I create some? I would love ALT of opinions on this matter. Thank you!!
DearAbby92 answered Monday April 9 2007, 12:42 pm: First off, if he gave you all the info about the play and going there, he obviously wants you there. So that means your a good friend to him, or maybe he likes you more than a friend. Does he flirt with you? Look you directly in the eye when he talks to you. Do you ever catch him looking at you, or smiling? Be observant next time you see him. See if he acts differently towards you than other girls, or even ask around to people who know him.
solidadvice4teens answered Monday April 9 2007, 10:12 am: He gave you dates hoping you would be interested in attending. It does not mean that he is interested in dating you. He may have given those dates to all his friends male and or female.
Sometimes friends who are close end up dancing with one another at a dance because they know eachother. Regardless of it being a slow dance or not it doesn't necessarily mean he's interested in you.
The fact you talk online might mean he is interested in you because guys don't always do that with girls unless there is a connection. Then again, he lives far away from you. It may be his way of making contact rather than using the phone.
How do you find out how he feels? Short of asking him outright there's not much you can do to find out. You can try laying out some bait and see if you can hook him.
Ask him if there's any of your friends he is interested in and whether or not he would date any of them. His response might reveal a lot. You could also ask him to come hang out with you or go to a movie alone as "friends" and see if he will go.
xxsmudgedxeyelinerxx answered Monday April 9 2007, 9:24 am: Yes... I think he wants to see you. He is doing more riska dances with other girls, but when song comes n where he has an oppretunity[sp] to hold you close, he does. It shows he is more serious about you. If he has told you alllll about the play, and even gave you the times, he probally wants you there. He might be a little bit shy, because you may have not directly shown interest to him... but he may relle like you =D [ xxsmudgedxeyelinerxx's advice column | Ask xxsmudgedxeyelinerxx A Question ]
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