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Drama


Posted Monday May 21 2007, 1:30 am

Ok so today 5/20/07 is me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary and on thursday I had a break down because he was spending to much time with his best friend (who is a girl) he stays over at her house and sleeps in her bed and it pisses me off. So I flipped out on myspace and they got pissed. me and my boyfriend fixed everything and he spends more time with me now. He asked his friend if she would let me be involved in activities that they do and she keeps saying "yea since she's so jelous " blah blah blah....
She keeps dragging it out and doing stuff to make me jelous.
my first question is
1.) How do I piss her off more?
2.) How do I tell her to quit dragging things out like my 5 year old brother and grow up? Without punching her in the face?

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Posted Monday May 21 2007, 12:44 am

ughhh .. idkk whats wrong .. if its me .. well i`m on my period .. O.o or if its him O.o i`m startin` to get mad at my boyfriend easily now, lik` .. sometimes he js ASSUMES things. but he plays around lik` that, he js says all these guys name lik` "tony" i dont know tony .. and i`m talkin` `bout my friend & her boyfriend problems... "gary" he`s my bestfriends boyfriend.. "chad" WTFF i DONT EVEN KNOW A CHAD. he`s my boyfriend, then why is he namin` all these guys ??? to me .. i think he plays around too much .. and i tell him, but he seems not to notice that.. and thats it hurtin` me. so i`m not sure if its him or me, i get mad about it though... please help me .. :[

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i'm so confused


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 9:45 pm

I have a boyfriend that I've been going out for almost 4 months. Yet, I still have feelings for my "first love". We went out for 14-15 months [8th grade into highschool] It ended due to some problems. A big one was not being able to see each other because we are not in the same grade or school. He was still in middle school when I went into high school.. so he had limits to hanging out with me. Now he doesn't. He still likes me..

i really don't know what to do. I do like my boyfriend, not love.. because that is too soon [in my book] He's probably the best one I've had because we are in high school and there's no middle school drama.

Whenever I see my ex.. I get happy and I want to hug him.. never le...

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boyfriend


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 9:27 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship expect we fight. over stupid stuff. were both really protective of eachother and i dont alow him to go to this kids house b/c hes a real bad influnce but i let him go 2 other ppls houses. r relationships not really bad but what could help to get things back up and running

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first kiss


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 8:54 pm

just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?

i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss.

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turn on's for guys


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 8:28 pm

i know turning a guy on can depend on the guy alot of the time. but are there any things that generally work a lot of the time to turn on a guy? like kissing them a certain way or whatnot? or a certain place?

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dating someone 2 years younger


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 8:24 pm

im in 9th grade, 15, and im THIS close to going out with a 7th grader. he's 13. this is odd, because im not desperate, im just really attracted to him. and we like each other. but, is it worth it? and is that really odd? and, by the way, i don't care what people will say, that wouldn't be a reason not to go out with him. so any words of advice?

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confused


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 8:07 pm

Hey,
There is this guy i really really like at school, but i dunno if he likes me.Last semester we had a class together and he would talk to me and smile at me alot, but he would like talk to me one day and ignore me the next, but i would sometimes catch him looking at me. So does he like me or is he just being nice.....?

thanks

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is it too soon to kiss?


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 7:34 pm




14/f
this is kind-of long, sorry. :/

me and my boyfriend jordan have been going out since may 1, and as of now, we've only held hands and hugged, not kissed or anything. but we went to this school dance on friday, and they played our song [ bless the broken road, rascal flatts (: ], and after they played it, he looked at me and went in to kiss me, and the moment seemed perfect and such, but i turned away. he said it got him confused becaus he thought it was the right moment, but i told him i just felt like it was too soon. so just a few minutes ago he told me he wants to kiss me tomorrow after school, but i don't know what to do, because i don't think we've been going out long enough.
so ...

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whats wrong with me?


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 7:30 pm

So ive had a few grlfriends over the years, and i feel like each one has taught me something diffrent about what i like and dont like about relationships.

But what i can't figure out is,
why do i always get broken up with?

Im a good boyfriend!! I remember dates, i bring them flowers, i call to see how theyre doing, i do my absolute best. i really do. but they always end up breaking up with ME! i dont know whats wrong with me!

Like my last one, broke up with me RIGHT after i told her happy one month and gave her a ring. right after to my face! am i ugly or something? i dont think so. i like to think im fairly good looking.

this is probably just me rambling and ranting but id...

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Should I go out with him?


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 6:59 pm

15/F
I've liked this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago I found out that he likes me back. A group of my friends and one of my closest friends friends (Sorry if that's confusing) met up at the mall yesterday, and I found out from my friend that he's bisexual. And I still like him. I just don't know if I would want to go out with him anymore. I don't have anything against people who are bisexual, it's just that I've never dated a guy like that before and I don't If I would want to. Am I being unfair? I'm so confused. What should I do?

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Is it true love?


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 6:59 pm

Hello ,

My name is Betty and and my friend shes about 14 or 15 years old and shes been going out with her boyfriend for about 2 years now and they love eachother nothing gets in there way her boyfriend tells her everything and doesnt leave anything else and hes always telling her how much he loves her and everything hes a real sweet caring guy and my friend is really scared because there going to highschool next year and there going to separate highschools and the guy she loves said no other girl will ever replace her ever ever ever and people already tried breaking them up but it seems there love got even stronger do you think they were ment to be? Because they absoltuley love eachother and everything and im just wondering.<...

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4 years of singleness


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 6:47 pm

Okay, I have been single for four years & I have the hardest time with it. I'm starting to like someone & I really want this guy to like me as much as I am liking him. I guess I would just enjoy advice on what to do in this situation so I don't screw this up like I have for the past 4 years of heartbroken chaos.

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new crush


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 5:20 pm

i like this guy named sevvy. we're in 8th grade and we talk almost every night on this other kid, randall's forum. about a week ago we were discussing religion on there from 11:00 PM to 2:00 AM. we have different views on religion, but we both made each other think. i told him we should talk like that in person and he said "actually i was thinking the same thing". we only have one class together and hardly ever talk, but he says random things to me more than he used to, and maybe he just thinks we're better friends now. but i actually like him. and he's kind of nerdy so maybe he thinks i wouldn't like him or something. but i don't know if i should tell him or not, it might make me seem like a fool. please help!

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find guys/girls


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 4:56 pm

15/f
i'm not sure whether i'm straight, bi, or lesbian. I go to an all girls school and i have crushes on girls, but when i'm outside of school i'm generally attracted to guys. like once i know a girl for a while i form a crush, whereas if i meet a cool, hot guy i am immediately attracted.
it's hard to meet people because my school is so small.
any suggestions on where i should go, what i should do to meet people, whether it be guys or girls to figure out who i'm really interested in? i've done random stuff, but never been in a relationship, which is kinda pathetic, but i'm busy with school, soccer etc
please help!

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This is gona be a long one


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 2:30 pm

15/M

Okay, Ive met this girl, we will call her T... well anyway me and T have been talking for like 5 months now and we liek eachother but still aint going out(she lives 45 mins away from me) Well I told her i love her which i do dearly i always think about her and what not... well anywayz we have been getting into lil fights recently because i want to be with her so bad and she is confused and doesnt know because he dad and mom are about to get a divorce and fight and she gets hit sometimes to and all that, and i have recently relieze me bothering her about a relationship just makes it worse becuz she is going through hell and 1/2.. sometime idk if we will ever work what should i do keep trying to work things out and be ha...

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ugh... girls


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 1:34 pm

So I'm 14/f, and I have these 3 bi friends.
The first[D] is 17, and we first kissed at my house during Mulan. idk y, that movie is just... mmm. Anyway, so we kissed, and went out for like 3 days. She's one of my two best friends, and is also bff with friend number 2[M].
Friend number 2[M] is 16, and she and I kissed two days ago, and she's got a bf. I love her to death, but we can't be together publically.
Friend 3[A], tried to seduce me at a party, and when we're in public, ignores me, but in private is amazing. She and M have this long history of hatred for each other. Its very upsetting.
I love all three, but have no clue what to do.
And there's the factor that my parents can't know that I'm bi????
HELP!

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hey what do i do does he like me


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 1:33 pm

hey well there is dis guy named john he is really cute and he is lik one of my best friends i realy like him and he knows, he treats me like a princess but i dont know if he likes me he used to go out with my friend but now she wanted to get me and him together but i was absent from school for about a week and my best friend in da whole world roxy told me dat my other friend broke up with john but know he is going out with someone else. what do i do do you think he like me he plays with my hair and talks to me all the time he is one of the only people who tell me how pretty my hair is well what do you think sorry it was so long thanks in advance. P.S sometimes i cry cuz school is almost over and im afraid i might not see him in the same school next year im only 13 and in the 7th grade

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Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 1:12 pm

ive know this guy for about 3 years and 10 days ago he broke up with his girlfriend that hes had for like a couple months. well we had prom last night and he was all over me the whole time. after prom we had prom breakfast, but i had to leave like half an hour into it. as i was walking out, he stopped me and asked me where i was going. when i told him i was going home, he was aw man, i was planning on spending the rest of the night with you. then as i was getting into my car, he called me and asked me to hang out on sunday. im sort of crushing on him and i really do want to see what happens. what should i do?


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A question about trust


Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 10:29 am

I think I have a problem with trust. I trust my boyfriend totally & we have been dating for awhile, but there's always the issue with other girls that come up. It isn't like he did something wrong with them that I have a trust issue, I just always have. There's always 200 stories how people get cheated on [most of them are girls] & how guys sometimes can't control themselves. I'm not sure what to do about it. I think its almost normal for me to feel this way because a lot of my friends have been cheated on & there's always those "when your bf goes off to college stories". How can I avoid feeling this way? I don't think its my fault, I think its natural or isn't it? I don't think its his fault either. He can have friend...

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